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 Mogal
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Topic starter 08/31/2015 7:15 pm  

I have slowly but surely been expanding my orgasmic range based on using the Aneros and other methods off and on for a few years now. I've taken long periods off so don't take my timeline as typical or to be expected. I just wanted to share some of the the observations I've had, they mostly echo what others have said but I found for me it was helpful to read similar tips that are put in different words to really lock them in. These are quite scattered without an exact theme but I hope they can help others.

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  • Your sessions should be about YOUR pleasure. Not focusing on what it would be like to pleasure someone else. It helps to pretend you are making love to yourself if that makes sense.
  • Pornography: For me, pornography is good as an initial catalyst to get sexual energy developing but is best used just as a kickstarter and not throughout a session. It is difficult to retain focus on your own feelings.
  • Relax. While there can be some fun in manually contracting for the occasional boost this can be a bit of a trap if taken too far.
  • Try to touch the penis very little and if you do, do it with open legs, little or no tension and focusing mostly on the head directly without stroking. It is best to do this only for limited amounts of time.
  • Chemical assistance: I've found that both weed and light doses of mushrooms are very helpful. This will vary depending on your reaction to those drugs. The mushrooms seem to "teach" you how to get a good response as ridiculous as that sounds.
  • Try to really get your consciousness and focus down into your body. It's true that the brain is responsible for most of the good stuff but in order to do that it needs to know where to focus, and being lost in your thoughts and expectations doesn't lead to good results.
  • Focus on the here and now in your sessions. Not hope for things to happen or recall things that have happened. Focus on what you are enjoying or even just feeling at the present moment. As a general guideline for me, the MMO builds as a "oh this feels good.... that's really good,...oh even better..." type response whereas the ejaculatory orgasm writes a big check that it can't cash. It's more like "oh this will be great when I get there, almost there... and there". Not to say ejaculation can't be very pleasureable but it's helpful to keep in mind if you are enjoying the present or getting excited for the moment of orgasm, that can help you be sure you're on the path you want to be.
  • Focus on the small details to help anchor you in the present. Like the other night I had a session where I used the Helix as a warmup and then used my njoy wand to finish off. The Helix completely primed my prostate and made it sensitive to any more stimulation. I had my legs up in the air and the wand pounding away at a medium tempo with the wand. The whole time I could really hear the wetness of the wand of my ass taking the wand and the feeling of the other end of the wand lightly tapping my balls. It helped me stay right there with the session and I had a couple of strong orgasms that were very satisfying

    • I hope these are helpful and feel free to comment or refine my ideas 🙂


       
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    09/01/2015 4:32 pm  

    1. I agree but it can be hard when you see so many stories here which can give you false hope
    2. Agreed here too, though mentally it fades for me and i forget, for me best to focus on the session but the days/weeks before it's good
    3. Agreed though I have been known to fall asleep on occasion which is never good
    4. I wouldn't touch the penis at all, ever during a session
    5. Disagree here. It's illegal here and most other places and it pissses me off that people do this when its im
    Impossible for some of us
    6. Agreed, but easier said than done 🙂
    7. Agreed
    8. Agree but changing devices is really, really bad in my case, it often will kill a session dead in doing so.


       
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    Topic starter 09/01/2015 6:54 pm  

    Thanks for the feedback. And yes not touching the penis at all is a good idea, I know for me I can do it but have to be disciplined not to get carried away which can be tough. For me changing devices can go both ways, a new angle of stimulation can help keep me engaged and present. I'm a big fan of going from a really big one like the Progasm Ice or a butt plug to my smaller and nimbler MGX with removed tail. The contrast helps alot. Also temperature play helps me focus too, especially on the stainless steel toys.


       
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