Dear fellows,
after more than year of trying and trying again and again, yesterday i finally had a light dry orgasm. I know it is a very humble situation after one year of hard work, but it’s a real first result for me, and i’m so happy to finally be at this point.
The truth is that i reached it by doing Aless as a way to “preheat” the body, and that i wasn’t expecting that result when i got it. After that, and expecting the best, i put my Aneros in. Suprisingly, it didn’t help in any way. I got pleasurable feelings, but i couldn’t go as far as i did just some minutes ago by doing aless.
Is it normal? I mean, as far as i have read here, Aneros works as a catalyzer of prostate orgasms, Aless being the advanced way to go. For me, Aneros seems to be hard level. I have three Aneros models (Eupho, Trident Syn and Progasm) and i only get some feelings with Eupho, with the other two being totally useless.
Also, a few days ago i bought the Njoy wand, which in my opinion makes easy to learn the correct way that prostate feels and probably makes rewiring less time consuming, as its easier to stimulate it than using the pelvic floor alone, so i recommend to give it a try (if you can afford it) to those people who, like me, are stuck.
To end, i just want to say that the other thing that i noticed yesterday is that one of the keys for me will probably be being able to control the intensity of the P-waves. I usually have P-waves that are so intense that make me tremble and “contract” the entire body. By contracting i mean that all my body increases its tone (i don’t really know how to describe it), in a way that i think that my body pretends to protect against a too intense sensation, stopping it and preventing to grow.
When i stimulate my prostate, i feel what could be described as a glow in it, which i can even visualize in my mind. When i relax, a P-wave emerges and pleasure comes. Relaxing too soon obviously decreases the pleasure and my “overall charge”. But relaxing too late is even worse, as my body tenses and cuts it off, making me go to the start cell. To reach orgasms one of the keys seems to relax at the correct time, and mentally prevent my body contraction and the subsecuent cutting of the feeling.
Justa wanted to share my meditations, even knowing that there’s still a long way to go, because i have noticed that many people explains what they did when they reach super O, but i think that the info about the intermediate path it’s usually lacking.
Sorry for my bad english, by the way.
Dear fellows,
after more than year of trying and trying again and again, yesterday i finally had a light dry orgasm. I know it is a very humble situation after one year of hard work, but it’s a real first result for me, and i’m so happy to finally be at this point.
Congratulations first of all 🙂
The truth is that i reached it by doing Aless as a way to “preheat” the body, and that i wasn’t expecting that result when i got it. After that, and expecting the best, i put my Aneros in. Suprisingly, it didn’t help in any way. I got pleasurable feelings, but i couldn’t go as far as i did just some minutes ago by doing aless.
Is it normal? I mean, as far as i have read here, Aneros works as a catalyzer of prostate orgasms, Aless being the advanced way to go. For me, Aneros seems to be hard level. I have three Aneros models (Eupho, Trident Syn and Progasm) and i only get some feelings with Eupho, with the other two being totally useless.
If it’s working A-Less,you can go A-Less,I did,and I still prefer A-Less to this day. No law saying you must use a toys. A-Less by far outstrips toys for me.
Also, a few days ago i bought the Njoy wand, which in my opinion makes easy to learn the correct way that prostate feels and probably makes rewiring less time consuming, as its easier to stimulate it than using the pelvic floor alone, so i recommend to give it a try (if you can afford it) to those people who, like me, are stuck.
Whatever works is the correct path!
To end, i just want to say that the other thing that i noticed yesterday is that one of the keys for me will probably be being able to control the intensity of the P-waves. I usually have P-waves that are so intense that make me tremble and “contract” the entire body. By contracting i mean that all my body increases its tone (i don’t really know how to describe it), in a way that i think that my body pretends to protect against a too intense sensation, stopping it and preventing to grow.
Yes,relaxing and let the orgasm come is a crucial skill,most either tense up,or start to think they need to change things up,go harder,stop breathing etc when things start happening,you want to do the bare minimum to keep the pleasure going. Don’t be afraid to get vocal as orgasm approaches,oh! Ooh! Ooohh! 😉
To reach orgasms one of the keys seems to relax at the correct time, and mentally prevent my body contraction and the subsecuent cutting of the feeling.
Justa wanted to share my meditations, even knowing th
Relax,enjoy,let it happen,that’s it!!! Easy lol
Nice advances!
For me A-less allows p waves to roam more freely btwn. my sphincters, prostate, the base of my dick and the tip of my dick, as soon as I stick a device in, it seems to restricts the pwaves to a smaller erea. I find there is often a point when I have to decide whether to ride it out aless or stick somethin in me. In the pleasure has higher potential. Aless, easier to be body encompassing.