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Short answer: For me, it's about following the pleasure, learning how to passively stay with it, and letting it gently guide you. Let go of what you think you should be feeling, and open up to the unknown.

That missing key is something that's been talked about here on the forum for years. If you click back through the pages of the forum, or do a search, you'll eventually hit some of these discussions.

Here's a good one:
https://community.aneros.com/forum/discussion/16588/the-crimsonwolf-method-prewiring-and-the-confident-boomerang/p1
and there are countless others. Most of the time I'm on this site I'm looking at older threads, since I find as my experience changes, so do the meanings of these threads. Some new detail here or there that didn't seem significant at the time, but now clicks with something else.

In the end, I think the question is - what is the key for you? And that's for you to discover. The discussions here are good food for thought. Maybe you'll become aware of something you hadn't considered before. And make gradual progress that way. Another thing to consider is that maybe there is no key, and your expectation that there's something you're missing, is exactly what's hampering you.