I've been using aneros on and off for a few years now. I had some minor success but nothing crazy and life altering... until few days ago when I was using my Helix tident and something clicked. I went through the intro video from mindgasm (great website) and while the session was enjoyable and pleasant, not a sign of a super O. Few minutes later, while I was resting I felt a bit of a contraction, and a slow wave of flutter/rocking motion all on its own (without me having to contract). This slowly cleared my mind, and sent a light vibration through my entire body, as my body relaxed more. This is when I felt "omg is this happening, this feels different and amazing and I didn't want it to stop, and as soon as I thought that, it stopped. As soon as I felt the first wave of pleasure, and ready to be taken for a wild ride, the ride has dissipated, and the warmth, vibration, pleasure, everything slowly seeped.
Then Again, slowly I felt the pleasure being built up in my prostate, my belly, my head. A small wave of pleasure hit me, and when I thought "omg it is back, it is happening again" the pleasure dissipated again.
I was wondering if anybody had experience something similar, I feel like there is a sort of a mental block and I can't fully relax, and just "accept" the intense pleasure wave. I feel like I was so close of what everybody is talking about, and writing this, thinking about it gets me in the mood. How can I break this barrier to enter the super orgasm realm
I had a super-o and then seemingly lost everything around prostate play. Like I forgot everything. Just couldn't balance that bicycle anymore for some reason...after all that progress. I started going to sleep with Aneros and plenty of lube. I had to train myself to bear down if it woke me, or my body would suck in the toy at warp speed...not good. But still, I was able to get relaxed with the practice again and the orgasms usually started coming shortly after i drifted to sleep and early in the morning near waking time. It trained something else into me, too: now with or without aneros, i often wake up to orgasms, not just morning wood! That is without a doubt more fun!
You are right there. All that’s left is to empty the mind of the “is this it?” questions. Just close your eyes and drift off into a little erotic fantasy. You are at a plateau,which is normal. A little practice and you’ll break through. Just enjoy it as it happens and don’t look forwards. Live in the now.
I do the same thing some times. I find if I just focus hard on that good feeling, that usually helps it grow. Save the analysis for after.