Sleeping with aneros impossible for me because of clenching

divine_oblivion

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02/21/2019 4:52 pm

Does anyone else know the feeling of clenching too hard and too abruptly with an aneros toy inserted? For example, at the end of urinating, the nervous system sends a signal to clench the PC muscles once or several times. With my helix syn in, that clench is really intense, as it is like going from 0-60 immediately, with the toy ramming into my prostate. So I tend to concentrate heavily to avoid clenching when taking a pee break. It's like a game and I am only successful every other time.

When I fall asleep with my helix inserted (I often just sort of drift off to sleep after a night session, as it exhausts me), I am always woken up rather abruptly several minutes later by one of these strong clenches. It happens over and over-- sleep, clench, wake up-- every few minutes until I get up and take the toy out. Does anyone else get this? Is there any hack to avoid this? I would like to try a full night's sleep with a toy inserted but my body seems to say NO! Perhaps I need to try it without having a session before, so inserting and going directly to sleep (if I am capable of refraining from playing...)? Or perhaps I should try with a different toy (I only own the helix for now)?

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Mitaru

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02/21/2019 5:30 pm

I don't own a helix nor any silicone Aneros toys but I used to have a nexus Revo and I thought it had too much friction because of the silicone surface. I ruined it by using a wrong kind of lube though, but even so. I prefer using plastic, glass or steel because of the frictionless gliding. Not sure if this is what is causing your 'problem'.

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02/21/2019 7:34 pm

@Mitaru I don't know if that is what is causing it... it doesn't seem like a friction thing though, just a sudden pressure thing I think. You have glass and steel prostate massagers?? Tell me more...

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02/22/2019 5:05 am

I've got a Njoy pure wand and some glass prostate dildo's that I like. I think it's a preference thing, I enjoy smooth surfaces.

My prostate massagers are all Aneros and plastic though, but my comment was meant in general. Like when inserting and taking out the silicone one I had it felt more intense, especially when it was getting a bit dry. Maybe I could describe it as a wet latex glove on the skin. Where the friction makes it uncomfortable. I also think this made the massaging and the clenching more intense than a device that is smoother. This was years ago though and maybe I could enjoy it now with more experience. I might try this in the future.

I think this clenching or contracting is something that is enjoyable but as I understand from your post a bit too much to be able to sleep with? I know when I want to relax and have one in for a longer time I tend to go with the Eupho or a Peridise that I have. A smaller, less aggressive, model could also be worth trying. I don't know.

I personally don't sleep with an Aneros in, I value my sleep too much and take every hour that I can. Maybe someone that does have a sleeping routine could chime in on this?

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