So I'm trying to figure out in what positions have I gotten the best sensations when I ride. I looked back on my strongest and longest session last month and it all started just sitting on my Mgx/ Helix on a pillow chatting on the forum here. Sitting on my Aneros sent (and still does) skyrocket jolts of pleasure up my butt! It just seems to allow the toy to ht the right spot, (just like when I've been on my back and the handle hits the floor.)That in turn let me have all kinds of paves, contractions, and bucking. While I know we are to do nothing, I wonder if other guys have tried this or if they do other things to start their sessions off and running? My goal is to ride with just me, the Aneros, and my prostate, so I'm not interested in the whole porn thing at the moment.
there was a period this was true of me as well. Then it changed. It will keep changing, different things will work.
It sounds like your'e using your weight to push the MGX into your body. Please be careful. Some have had minor injuries that way. A new internal ache is alarming. Waiting for the ache to go away before riding again would be unfortunate.
Do you think it works because it's reaching something deeper inside, or because it's pushing harder against something it can already reach?
I think it is reaching something deep inside and hitting it in a great way. There is no pain at all whatsoever!
I have similar experience. I just can't sit upright long enough once things get going. I often just increase the pressure on the handle on my helix by hand too for similar effect, and can do this when on my back or side. For me, i think its just pressing ever so slightly more on an area its already touching. Sends me over the edge when it hits right.
sitting doesn't work for me as the handle touches the seat and don't allow movement also is pushed too in its uncomfortable
I use a different tool for rocking, sitting or walking/running. The Aneros is great for hands free quiet time though.
Engorged, what do you use?
I have a MGX, Pro and SYN (in that order of progression). I bought an nJoy pure plug (large; slightly larger head than the Pro) and the njoy wand afterwards.
The wand is evil because it makes short work for me. Its direct and requires Popeye forearms; or it'll give you Popeye forearms from usage. Two sizes and the heft! Quick, easy and makes you squirt if you know what you're doing.
The plug is my favorite toy. Stainless steel, heavy, large, shorter (I get better results from shorter design), semi automatic and the handle. Easiest to clean, insert, use. Feels like it will fall out but never has (unlike the Pro, awkward). There are different sizes but the large has the best reviews.
The plug has a short looped handle and the toy could be used manually or semi through muscle contractions. Not as mobile as the Aneros but you can do a lot more with it.
The plug with the handle though makes walking, sitting, whatever more comfortable. I can wear it with little fear that it will break (metal, I'd need a sphincter of diamonds to crush this thing). The handle also doesn't stick out or press your P and K areas so you don't have to worry about knocking shit over when you bend or turn. Sitting isn't an exercise of shoving more material up your rectum or trying to land on a sea docking pad in high winds. Sitting down with the plug is a thousand times more pleasurable than any Aneros product I use.
Why I like them is due to being able to sit down as well as move about. Sure the wand is silly, it's obscene but I usually use it sitting or laying down. The plug though is made for rocking on. While you can rock on it you can also use your hands to play with. But this thing was made for rocking or grinding on. Plus I am comfortable enough to wear it to work or outside. Try that with the Aneros.
Both toys are stainless steel. They insert much easier, hold lube better (any lube), look, feel better and are much easier to clean. I never have to prep with the njoy products. They will outlast my lifetime if taken care of. I have no fucking clue why Aneros wont make a stainless steel toy.
The best part is both toys could be used by both my wife or myself. The wand makes for the best handheld back massager and headboard club and was specifically designed for GSpot arousal.
Sorry for the novel.
Engorged, Thanks you have given me so much to think about. How does a guy Squirt?
Oh. You'll know when it happens. A little burning then fluids and an unfamiliar (but welcoming) tingle. It doesn't happen everytime but something is being released.
So I have an MGX, Helix, and Progasm Ice. The Progasm is ultimately my favorite because I feel fuller, and during the Super O, there's more to clench on too which leads to the strongest set of contractions. It seems like the more I feel when my ass grabs onto it, the more pleasureable it is and leads to a feedback loop of stronger and stronger contractions.
Would you say the nJoy butt plugs is worth getting? Is it basically the same type of experience leading to a super O, or do you do anything differently?
Oh ya - and what size? I'm pretty comfortable with things in my ass. The progasm feels perfect.
There is suppose to be an XL but the large is a tiny bit larger (and so much easier to hold in) head from the Pro but much shorter stem. The Pro fills me up but doesn't hit my prostate as well because it tapers down. That probably constricts the movement for me too. The njoy just hits it right for me. Although not as easy to move around as others but still moves better than you'd think. Because it uses the main head as the prostate massager there is less interference; plus no tabs. It's pretty heavy so you can feel the weight. I mean it thunks and swings when you rock on a chair or just going up or down the stairs. You will feel it.
It probably helps the movement too. To be able to grind on it without the sharp pains of other toys is worth the purchase as well. I have to be delicate with the Aneros. I'm just a hungry slut with the njoy.
The only thing different is it requires you to use the basic principles of an Aneros product. I only have luck with the Aneros when in a fetal position. With the njoy i can sit, stand, walk, jog, lay down, squat, get on all fours, etc. with little discomfort. It is also through the plug where I learned bigger isn't always better but everyone is different.
I still use my Aneros but it can't replace my plug. At the same time I wouldn't have had as much luck with the plug had I not learned how to effectively use the Aneros.
Do you get Super O's from using the plug too?
For me yes. It's a more direct feeling. I don't get them all the time but the pulsing is much greater and feels easier inside. I do not get the sharp pains and when the wife is feeling naughty she can play with it too. She actually prefers the plug vs Aneros because I can get into any position.
Regardless I believe the Aneros regiment helps enhance it. With the plug my body just wants to GO! With the aneros I need to take my time and ease into it.
Explore, try things. I'm always looking for something different.
Thanks! Hoping to give it a try tonight... my partner actually already has the plug, and I didn't know it until now. haha
Really good tip on the nJoy butt plug. I used it for the first hour and had no problem getting my body doing what it needed to do. I put the progasm in after an hour, and had stronger orgasms with it, but it wasn't as comfortable in for a long period of time. After 2 or 3 series of orgasms (each lasting easily 10 minutes), it wasn't happening as much. But put the plug in and went a lot longer. It's a lot more comfortable to keep in for a long period of time. And love the weight of it. Lots to clamp on to during a spasm.
10 minute orgasms that automatically make you clamp down on your toy! I want that. whats the secret?
There isn't really one secret or formula. I think the best overall advice I have is to just relax and let your body do and feel whatever the hell it wants without trying to control it or "find" something.
Think about it this way - you know how a regular ejaculation orgasm feels uncontrollable, all those contractions you can't stop? Well it's the same thing with a Super O. Except you have to notice the faintest feeling of tingling and involuntary contractions no matter how slight, and just go with it. Don't control it, ride into it and let your body do what it wants. If you try too much breathing/contractions to get somewhere, youre body is distracted from doing what feels good (aka orgasmic).