guys,
i had a totally splendid session last night, maybe my most beautiful ever.
one thing i think really opened it up. as per other threads here, i have been trying to learn to squirt. ( https://community.aneros.com/forum/discussion/16939/penis-head-pleasures)
no actual squirting yet, but, doing that has given me a very powerful tool in my erotic toolbox.
the key trick is relaxing totally like you are going to pee. you have to find the feeling like "i am going to pee." when you feel that, let it happen.
i don't pee, but it opens the floodgates of me feeling like i am releasing fluid (even though i don't seem to be).
one of the ways i accomplish this (and weed helps here), is imagining i am with a partner who is penetrating me one way or another, and who really wants me to squirt. s/he is encouraging me to just let go, get wet, relax, let liquid flow out of my penis.
this form of totally letting go ensures that you have maximum relaxation down there.
this degree of relaxation lets the pleasure and orgasm grow to delicious proportions.
darwin
Weed really was made to order when it comes to aneros. Makes a lot possible.