Scheduling issue

Good Morning, heelmont. It was good to meet you on the chat last weekend. Hope to see you again.

OK, this is a predicament, my friend. I know the story. I was on vacation with my family in September, a whole week, and had no time for Aneros at all. My wife and I have not slept in the same bed or room for several years due to my snoring and rambunctious flounderings 😀 while asleep. I did find a partial solution, read on.

What to do? First of all, does the room you're in have a lock? It seems to me that privacy while visiting others is not that hard to come by. I'm assuming that you're vocal while using your toy? If so, do you think you can control that? I know that I can. As long as you're in a private room, I see no reason why you can't learn to control your vocalization and go for it.

Not possible? OK, let's see if we can make lemonade out of your lemon situation. One of the greatest thing I have discovered since my Aneros journey started was my ability to truly enjoy aneros-less sessions! Even before you leave for your relatives, you can start learning to enjoy this "art" in addition to your Aneros sessions.

I'm sure others will chime in on this, as well, and I think it could actually be beneficial to others as well. I assume that everyone's ability with Aneros-less enjoyment will vary just like their success with Aneros. I have recently achieve great success without an Aneros, and I believe anyone else can, too. For me this is an exercise in auto arousal, sensual massage and pc/anal muscle contraction. I have achieved what I'd characterize as near-Super-O satisfaction this way and enjoy it regularly. It can be extremely rewarding, and I know some guys here use this method exclusively now, and consider their Aneros superfluous. Yikes.

I begin by arousing myself to a nice solid erection. Now remember, here, the object is MMOs not masturbation to ejaculation! Lying on my left side, my right leg bent up, foot flat, I use my left hand to stroke my penis and testicles. I pay particular attention to my perineum as well. THIS IS A SLOW DANCE, boys, and not intended to reach Super T! Gently massage your "package" while practicing your pc/anal contractions. Your focus is on your prostate, not your penis! Gradually increase your massage intensity while cycling your contractions. By this I mean, long contraction and slow release of your pc/anal muscles, while gently massaging your penis, testicles and perineum with an open hand. You may want to give your penis a gentle stroking, too, thumb down, as opposed to the classic thumb up masturbation grip.
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Now, as with an Aneros session, this may not get you anywhere fast. But strive for pleasure in your session, however it comes. Remember, this is a technique you can practice any time you're alone in bed, naturally, as you take your penis with you wherever you go. 😛

Others of you reading this, who have developed auto-arousal and Aneros-less techniques need to jump in here, and offer heelmont your ideas if he's forced to go on hiatus due to living conditions.

By the way, if your budget allows it, motel sessions can be great. I spend a couple days a week on the road, and used to go to movies at night. Haven't seen a movie in some time! 😳

Good luck, heelmont. I KNOW you'll work this one out. Everyone does.

C

Thanks Cockadoodle. I'll definitely will give the anerosless technique a try sometime. I look forward to doing further exploration. I'll do whatever it takes to get the satisfaction I'm looking for during this time.