Ruined Orgasms and Prostate Milking

I’m very interested in ruined orgasms as a partial release without refractory period. 

Perhaps because you are surfing for a long time on the edge, you have been clenching, or at least putting your muscles in a state of imbalance that makes it hard to prevent clenching. So maybe don’t get so close to the edge and let go of your penis fully, sooner than you think. For me it is like driving a car off a cliff, where there is the bumpy road (masturbation) and then the void (letting go and relaxing every muscle).m. It probably doesn’t help that you are doing this on 2-3 weeks of SR, when your body is probably jonesing for release. Why not try every few days until you get more used to controlling your clenching under less intense conditions, and then build up to longer periods.

@simplepenguin if you are interested... then do it! Masturbate, focusing on relaxing your pelvic floor, learn how to keep it relaxed till the point of no return, then practice getting to the PoNR and physically taking your hand off your penis while not clenching. It takes practice, you might “fail” (have a true clenching ejaculatory orgasm), but you can easily do it many times a day, as semen retention isn’t necessary for ruined orgasms.

Posted by: @simplepenguin

I’m very interested in ruined orgasms as a partial release without refractory period.

You might find these articles helpful -> Ruined Orgasm Training & The "Ruined" Orgasm. Have fun, ruined orgasms are kind of a misnomer as they can be extremely pleasurable while simultaneously being frustratingly arousing as well. Prostate milking can have a similar effect though to a lesser extent as far as the refractory period is concerned. You can read a longer treatise on prostate milking technique and issues from Lady Lubyanka.

Good Vibes to You!

Thank you. 

Posted by: @divine_o

Perhaps because you are surfing for a long time on the edge, you have been clenching, or at least putting your muscles in a state of imbalance that makes it hard to prevent clenching. So maybe don’t get so close to the edge and let go of your penis fully, sooner than you think. For me it is like driving a car off a cliff, where there is the bumpy road (masturbation) and then the void (letting go and relaxing every muscle).m. It probably doesn’t help that you are doing this on 2-3 weeks of SR, when your body is probably jonesing for release. Why not try every few days until you get more used to controlling your clenching under less intense conditions, and then build up to longer periods.

@simplepenguin if you are interested... then do it! Masturbate, focusing on relaxing your pelvic floor, learn how to keep it relaxed till the point of no return, then practice getting to the PoNR and physically taking your hand off your penis while not clenching. It takes practice, you might “fail” (have a true clenching ejaculatory orgasm), but you can easily do it many times a day, as semen retention isn’t necessary for ruined orgasms.

Why not indeed?  Thank you. 

Hi @busdrvr and @simplepenguin,

I've too been into ruined orgasms lately, but now I prefer learning the "Cool Draw".

This Taoist technique helps me drawing my sexual energy out of my testicles and circulating it through my body even BEFORE I get hot and bothered.

I'm quite surprised ...

- how much easier it is to work with my sexual energy when it is still "cool",
- how it helps to multiply and experience whole-body orgasms
- and, eventually, use my sexual energy for health and healing.

The technique is also called "Testicle Breathing" because the testicles rise and fall as if they were breathing. The idea is - by decreasing my sexual energy in my genitals - to draw a refreshing, revitalizing wave of energy up my spine, stimulating my nerves bodywide along the way.

As been told I indeed can already feel this orgasmic wave of pleasure at any time wihtout even having to be sexually aroused. It's amazing how these waves become more and more powerful and already made me shed tears from bliss.

"That could certainly make your day, maybe even your week, your month or your life?!" Yes, it truly does! And - at least to me - it's so striking easy to learn and also to make great strides in no time!

THE COOL DRAW - Freely adapted from "Multi-Orgasmic Man" by Mantak Chia

1. Touch or cup your testicles with one hand to warm them up until you feel a slight tingling or the first stirring of your sexual energy. (In public better use sexual thoughts or fantasy.)

2. Inhale and gently pull up on the muscles around your testicles, your perineum, and your anus. As you inhale and pull your muscles up, imagine you were sipping your sexual energy and drawing it from your testicles to your perineum and on to your anus and tailbone.

3. Exhale and relax your muscles, but keep your attention and focus on your rising sexual energy.

4. Continue to inhale and pull up and then exhale and relax several more times until you can feel a warm or tingling sensation at your perineum. Once your are able to move your sexual energy, you can simply begin using the spine like a straw, sipping the energy from your testicles and perineum right up to the base of your skull. (Gently tucking your chin in will help the energy move from your spine into your head.) Do this for five to ten minutes or until you become aware of a light or tingling feeling in your head. With your mind, try to circle the energy in your head. I imagine jumping crackers or moving balls of energy like in a pinball machine.

5. Finally, touch your tongue to the roof of your mouth half an inch behind your front teeth where the palate curves down. Your tongue works like a light switch that connects your front and back channels, allowing your energy to flow down the front of your body to your navel.
I first lead my energy to my heart, then to my nipples, my lung, my thymus gland, my solar plexus, my nevel, my penis, my testicles and finally to my prostate.

6. As you inhale and pull your muscles up again, imagine you were sipping your sexual energy and drawing it from your testicles to your perineum and on to your anus and tailbone.

7. Start over from 4. with using your spine like a straw, ...

A CICLE OF BLISS! 🙂

Good vibes! Mart