Rewiring : the nipple-genital connection

BGDC: I take it that you are experiencing nipple head pleasure that is equal to glans pleasure when "diddling" your nipples. For me, my nipples like you say induce wonderful orgasmic delight in my sulcus, shaft, coronal ridge, glans, foreskin, prostate, anal canal and frenulum. I find that as Rumel directs, immersing myself in the pleasure of this very moment and mentally encouraging the pleasure to increase as I relax deeply intensifies the pleasure and makes the pleasure build.

If you are saying that your nipple heads are as erogenous as your glans penis, then I need to know how you provoked this pathway because my nipple heads bring me pleasure in other places, but they in and of themselves are not exquisitely pleasurable like my penis areas. Is it a matter of mentally directing energy to the nipple heads or what are you doing diddling wise to make your nipple heads that erogenous??

Thanks for explaining. Could you provide a link to this thread to your blog entry that you refer to.

Appreciation

@Turnrow, the blog entry about which I am speaking is the Aneros section:

https://community.aneros.com/blogs/why-do-...pples-so-much/

And continuing, you wrote:

"BGDC: I take it that you are experiencing nipple head pleasure that is equal to glans pleasure when "diddling" your nipples. For me, my nipples like you say induce wonderful orgasmic delight in my sulcus, shaft, coronal ridge, glans, foreskin, prostate, anal canal and frenulum. I find that as Rumel directs, immersing myself in the pleasure of this very moment and mentally encouraging the pleasure to increase as I relax deeply intensifies the pleasure and makes the pleasure build."

Yes, diddling my nipples does give me exquisite pleasure which is irradiated to various areas of my genitals as you enumerated above. And yes, relaxation enables me immerse in oceans of pleasure. But to recapitulate, guys' nipples rise just a bit surrounded by his aureoles. Like a guy's penis and his Glans, there are various areas of pleasure from the root of his penis, right through his penis shaft, and ending up in his Glans. But a guy's Glans is a marvel in its self with its various area of textures of pleasure. However, @Turnrow, diddle your nipples and you will see that the stubs of your nipples are analogous to the shaft of your penis, yet the tops of your nipples do have a close resemblance to your Glans! 😉

"If you are saying that your nipple heads are as erogenous as your glans penis, then I need to know how you provoked this pathway because my nipple heads bring me pleasure in other places, but they in and of themselves are not exquisitely pleasurable like my penis areas. Is it a matter of mentally directing energy to the nipple heads or what are you doing diddling wise to make your nipple heads that erogenous??"

Yes, you betcha! The more you diddle and strum your nipples, the more they become erogenous! ;);)

Big Boy: Thanks for the tips. I did what you suggested and felt wonderful orgasmic pulsing in my nipples. Your suggestions for me bring on that trance like state of whole body pleasurable affectation in quick fashion. With your suggestion, I feel that my next session with my new Maximus Trident may take me further than I have experienced with any aneros toy.

Thanks. Keep posting the wonders of nipple play.

In the last few weeks I have noticed something a bit different: After an orgasm my nipples become super sensitive to the point that it is almost unbearable to touch them. It reminds me of the feeling after a traditional ejaculatory orgasm and my penis gets too sensitive to touch for a while. I love the feeling of the buildup to an orgasm and the added pleasure of nipple play.

@Turnrow, there is definite power in stimulating your nipples. Keep it up. With your using Maximus Trident and other Aneros models, you will be rewired in quick fashion! 😉

@OntheJourney, that is a very interesting observation of your nipples super-sensitive after an orgasm. Since I have achieved the capacity produce Super-O's in Aless, I have to see if that is true.

Hi, guys,

I haven't logged in here in ages. Now I have and it's good to see this topic on nipple orgasm. Some years ago I participated in a number of discussions on this forum on that wonderful topic. I have written down some thoughts on the special sensations of the nipples and the pleasures they bring. Here they are:

When I touch my penis I feel sensations only in my penis; when I touch my breasts and nipples a wonderful complex of sensations floods through my body, from my nipples to my abdomen, genitals, and buttocks. And not only sensations, but feelings, emotions. Feelings of ecstasy that are hard to describe: tenderness, a kind of vulnerability, I am being taken; I am being made love to.

When I touch my nipples and caress my breasts, a wonderful sexual feeling pervades my body that transcends gender. I feel neither male nor female; or rather, I feel that I am both. I am making love and being made love to. My entire body slowly responds to this arousal and becomes fully erogenous, so that the gentlest caressing of my breasts, belly, thighs or neck can produce waves of orgasm, as one orgasm builds upon the other, and the sweet semen flows gratefully from my penis.

I partly attribute the complex feelings that I experience in nipple play to the hormone oxytocin, which is released when the nipples are stimulated, and is linked to the feelings of closeness and love that a mother feels when suckling her infant. These wonderful feelings and sensations are surely why nipple orgasms go so much deeper, are so much more satisfying than penile orgasms. With nipple orgasm I feel that I am touching the mystery of life.

@Wuerstchen,

Late last night I was masturbating for a good two hours while strumming or diddling my nipples. When I strummed my nipples, I felt it so powerfully in my prostate and perineum as I lingered a long time near the PONR. When I ejaculated, my cum was so creamy as my orgasm lasted about two minutes.

BigGlans, I am not surprised by your experience. What converted me to nipple orgasm as my primary method of solo sex was my discovery of how much more intense and prolonged the orgasms are. In fact I enter a kind of blissful orgasmic state in which I can have multiple orgasms, one flowing seamlessly into the other. On some occasions I experience eight or nine orgasms like this, without once touching my penis. It was my discovery of multiple orgasm through nipple stimulation, with no refractory period, that led me to adopt it as my #1 masturbation technique.

@BigGlansDC I am very impressed with your nipple abilities. I found that even in my pre Aneros days my nipples helped me enormously during some solo sessions. Back then there were times when I could tip myself over the edge as it were and enjoy an ejaculation through nipple stimulation but only after some penile stimulation beforehand. But now, not only does some nipple play provoke an immediate erection, but during an Aneros session it brings with it some glorious sensations that seem to radiate outward from my prostate to the very tip of my penis. Indeed my whole male package is charged right up. I did used to wonder whether other men experienced sensations from their nipples, I thought it was just a womanly thing, glad to know you other guys are blessed.

Thanks men for keeping this thread going. Welcome back @Wuerstchen . We have missed you badly/greatly on this site. I know we can access your threads and instructions under your site name, but its great seeing you back and commenting on nipple play.

I love what you said about nipple orgasms unfolding the mystery of life. It is my desire to get where you are as my nipples fuel orgasmic pleasure over my entire body, but I am nowhere near where you are in orgasmic, continual pleasure.

Please keep posting.

@Harper , there are a lot of nipple guys among us. My wife doing my nipples sends me into orgasmic delight. I would love to spend a couple of hours with her exhausting my nipples sucking them and playing with the connection that my nipples have with my prostate, glans, shaft, balls----------really my whole body is energized by my nipples. Just this morning, I got them to fire/pulse like an orgasmic penis. Most of the exercise is mental and involves times to warm them up and follow thru to an erogenous, orgasmic state.

Great thread men.

@Wuerstchen, reading your post I laid my hand on my right breast and felt every single word of your post being proved. Very inspiring, thanks!

Thanks, SOwithoutAneros, for this post! Glad to hear it works for you. For most males their own nipples are unexplored territory. They are missing so much! My nipples have long been my erotic center.

For further inspiration, here's another thing I wrote a couple of years ago about the nipples as a gateway to the fully erogenous body:

My nipples are like a switch to a fully erogenous body. By stimulating my nipples to orgasm or near orgasm, I awaken erogenous feelings in other parts of my body, and can achieve orgasm by massaging those. These areas include the breasts (without touching the nipple), the belly, the thighs, the buttocks, and the back of the neck.

The feelings I have during nipple, breast, belly, thigh, and penile orgasms are all different. My body is like an orchestra composed of different instruments, each has a different sound as it produces an orgasm. The penile orgasm is centered in and largely confined to the penis, highly localized. Even mangina orgasms (achieved by pushing the soft penis inside, which are particularly intense, remain focused in the pelvic area, and are like slow, soft but shattering explosions of certain kinds of fireworks lighting up the night sky. Nipple orgasms, although they are felt throughout the entire body, are sharper--an intense sensation concentrated in my erect nipples and genital region (a different sensation than in the nipples), but with wonderful feelings spreading throughout my entire body. When I touch my nipples the first time, or even just certain sections of my breasts, I immediately feel a response in my prostate, they are hard-wired together. As I continue to stimulate my nipples, the sensation in my loins builds up and spreads from the prostate to include the penis. There are then equally strong, but different sensations in these two points, nipples and prostate/genitals.

Breast, belly, and thigh orgasms are different from the nipple orgasm, but closely resemble each other. Breast orgasms can be achieved both after an initial orgasm and also without a nipple orgasm. In the latter case I bring myself into a state of arousal through nipple play but then remove my fingers from my nipples and massage an area of the breasts. I find that each area of the breast has it own distinct kind of sensation. The sternum is perhaps the most intense, while the orgasms achieved by touching the bottom of the breast, where it meets the rib cage, the sides of the breasts (between nipple and shoulder) and the tops of the breasts being softer, rounder, but producing the exquisite and intense sensations that flood my body. In general I would describe breast and belly orgasms as feeling rounder, deeper--soul orgasms I might call them; they seem to touch the core of my being. The feelings are less sharp, more diffuse, and, unlike nipple orgasms, they almost always result in ejaculation. Why this is so I have no idea. As with nipple orgasms, I can also experience multiple breast and belly orgasms--breast orgasms can be as multiple as nipple orgasms, as I move to another area of the breast after each orgasm. Thigh orgasms are a more recent discovery. They have a different character because closer to the penis and prostate. The color of the orgasm differs depending on whether i rub the tops of my thighs (jacking them like giant erect penises!), the bottoms, or the sides, grazing my buttocks as I do so.

To these sites of orgasm I have added a new one: the pubis orgasm. By pubis I mean the area above the penis--the so-called "pubic triangle." For years I have kept this area silky smooth with the aid of tweezers and an epilator. The look and feel of my hairless genitals is big turn-on for me, but my solo sex sessions usually involve no touching of the genital area--my breasts and nipples have long been my erotic center. Now I have discovered that massaging my bare pubis with my finger tips (such a wonderful sensation!) can produce multiple orgasms. Last night I had a double nipple orgasm, then took a break. Beginning a second session I rubbed my nipples for a few minutes, but was nowhere near a nipple orgasm when I began gentily rubbing my smooth, totally hairless pubis. The sensations began to build slowly and then I began to orgasm, a chain of four orgasms one after the other, each more intense than the previous one, until I ejaculated.

Even when it is not aroused, each surface of the body produces different sensations. It really is like an orchestra. I encourage you just to slowly, patiently explore the different sensations produced by different areas of the breast. The sensation at the upper area, below the collar bone, is distinctly different from the bottom of the breast, where its roundness meets the rib cage. The sides of the breasts are different again. You have a great orchestra, with many instruments of erotic sensation in your body. Learn to play them! Become a virtuoso!

@Harper, I salute you on your nipple stimulation or diddling endeavors. Keep it up!

@Wuerstchen, your most recent entry in this thread is worthy of close study, grist material for guys to experiment with. I think most American men do not realize the pleasure and power found in nipple stimulation or diddling. I discovered this for sure in my nipples at age 67, just two years ago. Would that I had discovered all this during my teen or college years, even earlier.

I add here some material from my latest Aneros blog for Sept. 9:

"P.S. Tips for nipple diddling and Kegeling.

"1. I have found that the slightest touches for nipple stimulation or diddling are the most effective. Use circular strokes around your nipples and slight strumming strokes. Male nipples are surrounded small dark circular regions of flesh called aureolas. Guys' aureolas are also sensitive or can be made that way. You can diddle your nipples often at night in bed all is quiet and private or even in the daytime when you have a spare moment, especially places of greater privacy. Endeavor to diddle your nipples every day. Before you know they can become super sensitive, a source of great pleasure!

"Likewise caress your pecs and chest too. Caressing in this fashion can rev up the effectiveness of your nipple diddling.

"2. Also do your Kegel Exercises every day. The Kegels strengthen your anal musculature, specifically your PC muscle. Likewise the Kegels develop the elasticity of your anal musculature and PC muscle.

"3. I have found that my nipple diddling works hand-in-hand with the Kegels in which lots of pleasure is produced. I have found that when I diddle or strum my nipples and aureolas that a sexual charge is sent directly to my genitals, specifically my prostate and my perineum. It is so sweet and profound!"

What I am describing here is akin to sexual touching found when couples make out and engage in foreplay. This applies to individuals as well. Oh I just love to diddle my nipples and caress myself! 😉

BigGlans, better at 67 then never! I am almost a decade older than you and in those years I have had some remarkable experience of sexual ecstasy through the gateway of my highly erogenous nipples! Fortunately, I discovered my nipples at the age of 19, and since then I've had very few orgasms, solo or with a partner, in which my nipples were not involved. Although it was not until I was around age 60 that I discovered their full potential--it was then that I discovered I could have multiple orgasms without ever touching my penis.

I completely agree with your point #1. Light touches are best. And "diddling" on a daily basis helps to heighten sensitivity and strengthen the connection between nipples and genitals. It's a rare night when I don't fall asleep without pleasuring my nipples, even if not to orgasm.

Thanks again, @Wuerstchen, for your further detailed reply full of inspirations. Amazing how much still is left to discover. And thanks to @BigGlansDC for enriching my vocabulary by adding "slight strumming strokes" for a technique I do love so much, especially at my nipples, my ballsack and to tease my sphincter. Ever tried to do it to all three spots only mentally at the same time? It's such a joy!

I’ve had sensitive nipples most of my adult life, but the wiring was felt from my nipples directly into my penis and testicles.  Almost an aching stimulating and often part of both foreplay with partners and solo.  I’m just started with my Peridise yesterday but have been practicing kegals for several weeks prior to getting my aneros.  

I’m already sensing that with the Kegels & Aless sessions that my nipple wiring is changing to my prostate.  In my first Peridise session (larger size) I had two mini-O which felt like both my prostate and head of my penis were both exploding together (but nothing came out).  It was different than any orgasm experience in the past with more involuntary hip and leg motions (I was sitting back in my office chair).  I then noticed my nipples were both so hard and hyper sensitive.  I did not have time to shift to stimulate my nipples directly, since was technically between work calls in my office!  I was actually afraid of how hard they were poking through my shirt and want to lost the erect nipple look before my next video call.  

Next time I can’t wait to see how my prostate reacts when I start lightly stimulating my nipples.  

I ignored mine until a couple years ago. Now, they can light me up in no time. 

Yesterday I was being lazy and pestering them all day long. I’ll get spasms to the point of leaking, and often can chain mini Os together. 

Even at work I’ll get an itch, and it’s a challenge to get off without being noticed. 

I hope it just continues to get better and better. 

I'm not there yet, but since I really started rewiring a year ago, I feel aroused for wearing a dry fit shirt. Don't really ever recall having erect nipples until now. Interesting what all you notice when you start being mindful about pleasure.

I have had sensitive nipples for most of my life.  Always bigger than most guys.  I always play with them, some times real hard.  I got my wife to play with them during sex, and 99% of the time she is pulling and twisting them while I am on top.  After I got my Aneros , I noticed that I could get almost orgasm like feelings from playing with them.  I can now have what I call nipple orgasms just from playing with my nipples. Even without the aneros.  I can achieve nipple orgasms almost anytime I want.  Most of the time I can achieve one in less than a minute.  If I am tired I have a harder time.   Now during sex, I will almost always have multiple orgasms.  I always wear my aneros during sex.  I haven’t had a super o yet but I think I am getting closer.   I just had a nipple gasam , sitting in a chair, I took 20 seconds max, with no plug.  God I love my nipples!!

In just my first week with the Peridise beginners set and I’ve found my nipples being re-wired and connected more to my prostate and anal opening.  If I don’t touch them while riding my Peridise they are getting super hard and hyper sensitive (almost painful to anything but light treading touch).  If I incorporate some diddling earlier after inserting my Peridise I get waves of involuntaries sooner and get miniOs started.  The only issue is that after a week of this, my nipples are a little red and raw from some much attention.  Overall I usually am gentle, but do diddle them a lot with my thumb and forefingers, occasionally twisting them gently also.  Any suggestions to keep them from getting this way.  

@novice60

For your nipples, the trick from @regal13 is really great. Get one of the quick dry synthetic sport shirts, with a satin-like fabric is you can. Cheap ones are fine for this, get the store brand for 10 bucks and it will be perfect. 

You can really go fast with you fingers gliding on the fabric, you can add a couple drops of water for a cooling effect, and your fingernails won't catch on your nipples. The best part is that at anytime, you can slip your hands under it and really ramp things up with the extra stimulation. 

I haven't logged in here in ages. It's good to see that my thread on nipple orgasm is alive and well and still a helpful reference for some of you.  My own relationship to my nipples has evolved in the past year or two. I don't know if it's coincidental, but after six months on Flomax for BPH I began to find it harder to have nipple orgasms and it reduce my semen emissions. The  crisis came to a head when for the first time ever I failed to achieve orgasm when my wife gave me fellatio. The next day I went off Flomax for good. I found that Pygeum (I -2 grams a day) works just as well without any side effects. But since taking Flomax I have found that achieving a nipple orgasm usually takes longer, unless I have used cannabis. I still have them, but before the Flomax I would have them in continuous clusters of three or more, often eight or nine a day over two or three short sessions. Now I have a nipple orgasm and immediately thereafter achieve a second one by vigorously squeezing my breasts, but it's not the same. 

But in this post-Flomax phase, I spend more time caressing my nipples, often without aiming for orgasm, just to get what I call an oxytocin high--and I mean high. This can generate wonderful states of sensual bliss. A consolation. 

@wuerstchen

It is truly marvelous to see you back, sir! Your threads have served me well in my journey!

I hope that the effects of the Flomax will eventually abate.

Charlie5

@charlie5 and Gnawdoi, thanks for the warm welcome! I really should hang out here more often—at no other site does one learn so much or benefit from such interesting exchanges. Charlie, I am hoping that regular attention will make my nipples recover the former responsiveness. God knows they are hyper-sensitive, and regular stimulation keeps the oxytocin flowing.  

Hi, I just sent a message to @wuerstchen wondering if his old yahoo group for nipple orgasm was saved anywhere.  

After using the helix for a couple of years with increasing enjoyment, my nipples have suddenly turned on i but im not sure how I can develop this. I can get dry-Os diddling away with the aneros but its all a bit random. 

Would love to be able to take this pleasure further.  Any help appreciated.

( not sure why but my old profile disappeared, same name )