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I don’t know if this is relevant. I enhanced my sessions recently by eliminating porn. Through the years I developed the habit of first of all meander my way through different porn mediums. I did learn to limit it to 30 minutes maximum. I felt that going over 30 minutes it would have a converse effect and negate the overall experience. 
But then I went one further and totally eliminated porn altogether. So I’d save time too. I found I was more fully charged too. Of course there’s still a lot of mental images flying around LOL but that didn’t seem to matter. Anyway, that helped me. 

With personal and religious convictions against porn I simply relax and concentrate on the subtle feelings and let them grow.  Within a few minutes intense dry orgasms come in cycles, about 3 minutes apart, sometimes going like this for 15 or 20 minutes.  I think anything along the line of conventional sexual stimulation, such as erotic thoughts, just thinking about sex, or anything that's ultimately penile related or makes you want to engage in penile stimulation blocks the subtle prostate orgasms from coming.

Time between sessions has helped me - haven’t totally eliminated porn except the agressive type. Like to look at a nice smiling face and imagine what she is thinking during a session. Very rarely do any penile stimulation or masturbation which helps along with semen retention but do occasionally give in! Aless activity continues to be very good as well!

@coolmel

The first experience of Super O is unique and unforgettable. As the body learns to have more more often it's natural to lose some of the glow as you no longer have to look for orgasm. Apparently there aren't so many questions like: "Why didn't it happen this time?", "What needs to be done?" .

If self-provoking is also interesting, give space between sessions, let some desires emerge, deny the desire a little and then satisfy it. do it for you

Interesting notes here about porn. I found I just naturally watched less and less porn and reading more erotica. I think it helps me get more "in my own head" which I feel leads to better aneros sessions.