Relaxation during sex

At the very least women should give more oral sex (w/ prostate massage) than they take to even things out a bit in terms of relaxation.

I do think men might be able to relax to the extent women can.

http://www.malemultiple.org/index.php?topic=34.0

I want a woman who initiates sex at least half of the time.
I want a woman who gives me an equal amount of foreplay.
I want a woman who doesn't mind me getting foreplay first sometimes.
I want a woman who gives me an equal amount of oral sex.
I want a woman who gives as much if not more than she takes.

good gosh, newt, you sound like a whining 12 yr. old with his first hardon. Enough of this obsessive fixation on women's orgasms. All the stuff you been harping on don't add up to diddly squat. If you'd quit your carping and read the wiki and other stuff here you'd start having some real fun.

I thought this website was mainly about guys learning to use prostate massagers or did I get time warped to another forum?

Support can you please lock this thread up so we can get back to talking about the fun toys you guys make?

I want a woman who initiates sex at least half of the time.
I want a woman who gives me an equal amount of foreplay.
I want a woman who doesn't mind me getting foreplay first sometimes.
I want a woman who gives me an equal amount of oral sex.
I want a woman who gives as much if not more than she takes.

good gosh, newt, you sound like a whining 12 yr. old with his first hardon. Enough of this obsessive fixation on women's orgasms. All the stuff you been harping on don't add up to diddly squat. If you'd quit your carping and read the wiki and other stuff here you'd start having some real fun.

I thought this website was mainly about guys learning to use prostate massagers or did I get time warped to another forum?

Support can you please lock this thread up so we can get back to talking about the fun toys you guys make?

It would still feel bad knowing that men can't truly relax or experience the power of a female orgasm. The relaxation part is very important to me.

newtoforums - please note

Did you not read the part of his post which you cut out from the quote? Didn't he say he agreed with me and that men can't enjoy the same levels of relaxation women can. No one has actually disagreed with that.

I did not comment his agreement. Did you not read my reply that I said it took a long time for thhn to figure that one out (that is to relax) - I am perfectly relaxed and really enjoy sex often hours on end or all night long - and that at 57 which is three times your age, both as active and passive partner during the same session, there are no performance anxieties, no analysis who did what for how long - at the end both my partner and me agree that it was the best ever so my sexual experience, intensity of feelings etc must be getting better and better every time.

I cannot ever see myself in your position with a stop watch and after 90 seconds you sneeze and then you analyze "Honey, you only did this for 17 seconds while I did that for the remaining 73 seconds and you flexed your hips 13 times whereas I had to thrust 88 times" no wonder you so hung up.

It would still feel bad knowing that men can't truly relax or experience the power of a female orgasm.

Concerning sex I feel bad about nothing, my orgasms are often so powerful that I do not know how I survived them, totally pleasured, totally satisfied, totally relaxed getting ready for more of the same.

The relaxation part is very important to me.

THEN LEARN TO RELAX - AMEN that is all that there is to it

Hmm, interesting, never really imagined being in a woman's shoes during sex.
Don't think I'd like to lay down, spread my legs and get pleasured like a woman does, frankly i imagine it'll be embarassing and I like to be the one dishing out the pleasure.

Anyway, half the fun is in trying to give the woman you love pleasure, even a kid like me knows that... Even if you don't love her, just try to make her squeal, its an achievement 🙂

Anyway, guys are spoilt for choice when it comes to foreplay, Oral (licking, bj, deepthroat), Anal teasing, tit-fuck, handjob, footjob (eew), stroking erogenous zones.
Women only get fingered and stroked and oral has no variety for them.

Woman find it harder to orgasm.
And some women don't even experience orgasms ever. That is sad.
I think my member is more on the less sensitive side, but all guys can orgasm, if I were a woman...
I shudder at the thought of never experiencing orgasms.

Isn't there a book teaching guys how to be multi-orgasmic or something anyway?

You left out the part when a woman sucks on your balls, i wish i could find a woman who would be willing to suck my ball sack after i have shaven all of my pubes off but sadly i cant find one to play with my ding dong and online dating sites dont really work and i cant go to out drinking to pick up women neither i am a member of A.A Alcoholics Anonymous i wish i could find a woman who would love me and hold me sleep with me and fuck me and play with my dick and suck my balls, where is she i cant find her?

Hmmm im soo sad and lonely

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You left out the part when a woman sucks on your balls, i wish i could find a woman who would be willing to suck my ball sack after i have shaven all of my pubes off but sadly i cant find one to play with my ding dong and online dating sites dont really work and i cant go to out drinking to pick up women neither i am a member of A.A Alcoholics Anonymous i wish i could find a woman who would love me and hold me sleep with me and fuck me and play with my dick and suck my balls, where is she i cant find her?

Hmmm im soo sad and lonely

🙁 🙁 😥 😥 🙄 🙄

Don't fret, love just happens, widen your social circle to improve the odds I guess...
I'm no pro but I got to know my special someone through bowling, cuz I'm awesome at bowling, that and the fact that I fell into the lane cos I was ogling her while bowling 🙁
Try meeting through hobbies and sports?

Didn't leave that part out, just wasn't aware of it :/
Does having your balls sucked feel good, dam, now I gotta try to hint for my special someone to try it 😀

I'm actually glad I'm a man, not being restricted to childbaring and the mundane. Besides men can be both active(the giver)as passive (the receiver), women can only be passive coz they've got 2 holes...well actually 3 if you count the mouth(or more depending on how sick you let your fantasy run wild)....anyway.....I think it boils down to evolution....I find I actually want to pleasure a woman..but this they say is due to the fact that the more the woman is satisfied the more chance she has of crapping out a baby...Not that this is what you want, but that's how millions of years of evolution have wired you....or maybe you're the exception? an x man 🙂

So yes, as someone else noted, it's always good to keep both sides in mind and if that still doesn't work maybe a sexchange is an option?