REALLY WORRIED NOW

I havent gotten any sexual activity yet but I feel that I am cursed and will not be able to enjoy this pleasure?

I wouldn't worry about it really. I was in the same boat as you, worrying that perhaps I was different somehow from all those who have gotten results. After months went by my sessions got better and better, but I couldn't reach orgasm and I started to doubt myself and become annoyed at all those with instant results. However, one day I reached orgasm out of the blue and since then it has become extremely easy to do so. I think the hardest part of it all was my desire for results was blinding me to what I was feeling and my frustration made things harder than they had to be, it wasn't until I just relaxed and let things happen on their own that it happened.

In short, I think most men, if not all, are capable of achieving non-ejaculatory orgasm. Super-O I'm not sure about, that is one area that I am just starting to explore. I'd just try to enjoy your sessions, even if the sensations aren't really sexual, just try to relax and enjoy them anyway. You will achieve results eventually, don't rush things and they will happen sooner.

Hi californiavirgin,

Wow, you’ve asked some big questions, so I’ll give you some opinionated answers.
Q. “Can all men get the super - o or some sort of extreme pleasure from this device?”
A. Probably not, a certain percentage of the male population may have physical impairments which preclude their use of an Aneros massager, a certain percentage do not have the mental discipline necessary to learn the process, a certain percentage won’t even try it for personal moral or religious reasons, a certain percentage are simply not interested in the capability and a certain percentage may have other psychological blocks that also preclude them from ever obtaining the Super-O.
Q. How do these super - 0's compare to women's g spot orgasms?”
A. That is an unanswerable question, we men can not truly know what a G-spot orgasm feels like and a woman can not truly know what a male P-spot orgasm feels like. My best guess is that they are comparable since the G-spot and P-spot are very similar in their relative anatomical positions within the body and they have similar tissue structures.
Q. “Will doing it too much cause you to lose pleasure from it?"
A. I do believe it is possible to overdo just about any activity to the point that you can cause harm or long term damage, but just as moderate forms of exercise are good for your body and overall health, giving your prostate some regular exercise is probably good for it as well. A healthy prostate is a happy prostate and a happy prostate is a very pleasant thing.
Q. “Are most women open to this?”
A. Since I don’t know most of the women in this world, I can only judge from the reports on the Forum that it is a mixed response from women spanning the gamut of feelings from hating it to loving it, my guess is that half will at least tolerate a man using his Aneros massager.
Q. “But the main question is if EVERY man has the ability to get a super - O or pleasure from this or is it a select few?”
A. This goes back to your first question, so ultimately it is a select few who will ever achieve a Super-O or experience these intense pleasure states, but it should be pointed out that many men simply CHOOSE not to pursue this form of self stimulation. Many men may have the physical and mental capability to experience this but they may never be exposed to this knowledge or be permitted to pursue it or they have CHOSEN not to, so in that respect it is the self-SELECTed few that have this experience.
Q? “I haven’t gotten any sexual activity yet but I feel that I am cursed and will not be able to enjoy this pleasure?”
A. I am not sure this is really a question. I am assuming here that you are a virgin with respect to sexual intercourse with a woman but that you are familiar sexual activities such as masturbation, kissing, petting etc. Feeling that you are “cursed” can be a self-fulfilling prophecy, what you believe to be true becomes true in your reality, when you change your beliefs your reality will also change. If you feel that you won’t be able to “enjoy this pleasure” you won’t, it is as simple as that. I know these may not be the answers you were looking for but they are my honest opinions for your consideration.

Probably not, a certain percentage of the male population may have physical impairments which preclude their use of an Aneros massager, a certain percentage do not have the mental discipline necessary to learn the process, a certain percentage won’t even try it for personal moral or religious reasons, a certain percentage are simply not interested in the capability and a certain percentage may have other psychological blocks that also preclude them from ever obtaining the Super-O.

What if assuming this person is 18 years old and in amazing shape ( 5 feet 9 150 lbs, built very well , good posture), has the mental discipline, doesn't care about moral or religious stuff, is interested in this capability and can remove the psychological blocks? I have always believed this was possible since prostate pleasure has always been known from ancient tantric practices to kama sutra to tao sexual practices.

I'm willing to practice this an hour a day even if it takes 10 months to get there. I was wondering really in essence if a healthy person is born without the physical ability to get this pleasure.

What if assuming this person is 18 years old and in amazing shape ( 5 feet 9 150 lbs, built very well , good posture), has the mental discipline, doesn't care about moral or religious stuff, is interested in this capability and can remove the psychological blocks?

I'm willing to practice this an hour a day even if it takes 10 months to get there. I was wondering really in essence if a healthy person is born without the physical ability to get this pleasure.

That's all it really takes. I have no doubt that any healthy male with an open mind and plenty of patience can achieve otherworldly orgasms with the aneros. It sounds like you're the demographic.

Do prior physical impairments make a differece? For instance I always used to have back pain, foot pain, pelivce, sotmach muscle pain, serious depression, headaches, dry eyes, insomnia? This was when I was really out of shape (over 250 lbs). I took charge of my lifestyle and every single problem has disappeared. No headaches, sleep like a baby, no pain, always having energy.

Californiavirgin,

I agree with Bathysphere, if you are currently healthy and fit, your past afflictions should have no affect on your ability to experience the joys of the Aneros. The biggest impediment to success is one’s own mind. I’m glad to hear that you have taken charge of your life, you obviously changed what you believed was possible and changed your physical reality in the process.

Any advice on how to relax and get past behind one's mind?

Californiavirgin,

There are many ways to relaxation, listening to calming music, listening to self-hypnosis relaxation recordings, practicing meditation, avoiding foods and drinks which contain chemical stimulants to the nervous system. I suggest you do a search on the Forum using “relaxation” as a keyword, I’m certain there is much information to be found in these postings, doing the research yourself will make the knowledge gained all the more significant.
It is not a matter to “get past” or “behind one’s mind”, rather it is developing your ability to focus on mental imagery and being receptive to the physical sensations your body sends to the brain for processing. Your mind is an absolutely key component to creating the Super-O, it is the conductor for your body’s orchestral members. Meditation is an excellent practice for developing mental discipline and learning focus. There are many forms of meditation, I suggest you search the internet for any type that interests you and try it out, it certainly can’t hurt you.

I feel really gay for wanting this. I mean I would never take a cock up there nor would i even let a girl do me with a strap on. Still i feel bad. How would you tell a girl about this? In my dreams about this the girl always brings it up first, lusts from the thought of doing this and convinces me to do it.

Also how loud are the sounds you guys make? Cuz if what this super -o sounds like is for real, I won't be doing this for 8 more years. (I would never do this in a dorm room).

I feel really gay for wanting this. I mean I would never take a cock up there nor would i even let a girl do me with a strap on. Still i feel bad. How would you tell a girl about this? In my dreams about this the girl always brings it up first, lusts from the thought of doing this and convinces me to do it.

It's not really gay to want to experience pleasure. If you are craving a guy, then perhaps 😯

Also how loud are the sounds you guys make? Cuz if what this super -o sounds like is for real, I won't be doing this for 8 more years. (I would never do this in a dorm room).

To be honest, I think it depends upon the person. Some guys say they scream, personally I'm not a very vocal person, so when I get hit hard I usually just exhale with pressure behind it.

You don't scream much but do you still have these intense full bodied multiple continuous orgasms like other people? Do fist really clench and toes curl?

How do super o's feel emotionally. I always head prostate pleasure can relieve emotional tension.

Does sexual arousal have a lot to do with the intensity of the super o?

how long is the super o?

You don't scream much but do you still have these intense full bodied multiple continuous orgasms like other people? Do fist really clench and toes curl?

How do super o's feel emotionally. I always head prostate pleasure can relieve emotional tension.

Does sexual arousal have a lot to do with the intensity of the super o?

how long is the super o?

californiavirgin,

You really need to do more reading on the Forum, most of these questions will be answered if you will do the reading as I suggested in the PM to you. But in case you overlooked it, I’ll put it in here as well.

A.) If you haven't already done so, I would highly recommend that you read the Sticky posts titled "B's Keys to the Backdoor" - http://aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=767 & "B's Best of the BEE-Line" - http://aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=768 by 'B. Mayfield', also the Sticky post titled "GLOSSARY" - http://aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=1619 by 'darwin'. It won't take long to read through those threads, there is a wealth of essential information contained within them, which will save you a great deal of time and frustration during your learning process, plus they will answer a good many questions you have yet to formulate.
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C.) The information from the posts of the users on this Forum will be enlightening, interesting, intimate, humorous, honest, open and occasionally irritating, I encourage you to make use of this expanding knowledge base as a valuable resource during your journey. Use of the 'Search' function may lead you to answers for your questions which have been previously discussed on the Forum as well as opening new avenues of thought and practice options. As you progress down the path, the questions you pose on the Forum may be answered by others who have shared your experience and can offer helpful advice to advance your learning. Especially note the responses by the Forum's 'Experts' (veteran and very knowledgeable users) such as 'B Mayfield', 'Darwin', 'Pan' & 'Buster'.

Just to make sure one last time:

There is NOTHING that can prevent a physically fit teenager with no physical afflictions (and a willingness to try over and over + accept this is not gay) from having such an intense release?

That's the only question I need to know. If it is possible to be born without this ability.

californiavirgin,

“There is NOTHING that can prevent …”, get real man, of course there are numerous things that can prevent you from deriving pleasure from such a device, as I mentioned in my original reply to your original query.

Yes, It is "possible" (though not probable) to be born without the ability to enjoy the pleasures of an Aneros massager.

man...this is not GAY...i repeat...NOT GAY...this is not a cock in ur ass...nor is anyother person involved...just you..if your beliefs lead u to feel that it is..i would stop..ur never gonna get past that...

Is there any way to check if one was born without the ability to have these?

Anyways I really look forward to these. Any advice to young males on this? Will excessive masturbation change anything?