(Rant) Envious of guys with sensitive prostate

So envious too 😛
I'm "prostate dead" for 1 year or more, I had better results in the beggining, but never past the "very weak dry-o" stage. Now maybe the medication isn't helpping but it's like I have nothing down there.

It just doesn't work, and I'm afraid maybe I'm not wired that way..

That's quite normal. Your brain has to learn the new pathways, that's why it's called rewiring. And this can take long as well. For me, it took 5 years... (I know, not the kind of motivational speech you need). Before that, I was into butt-stuff for another 5 years and mostly only derived the mentioned "kinky" factor.

Just think of bodybuilders and the time and energy they have to put up until their bodies are shaped. That doesn't happen over night just because they set foot in a gym. It's not, that finding a magical button is enough - it's just the very beginning. Like bodybuilding (or losing weight and getting fit in general), this comes easier and faster (and almost natural) for some, but takes time and percistence for others. But most important is: it's still possible for everyone!

You said you played with your butt for hours. Was that with a toy inserted? If so, try using a gentle butt-rubing approach instead. Just your lubed finger on the outer sphincter - no inserting! Make slow movements and try to interpret the incoming sensations as arousing "ache", as if you were touching you penis. I had my first anal orgasm with this approach and it was one of the strongest ones I ever had!

Keep us posted, when get your first aneros and your journey really begins!

Cheers, Unfug

CITYDWELLER SAID: (If anyone has any ideas, or knows of something which worked for them, please let me know.)

Plain and simple, get yourself an Aneros device. Given what you've written above, once you begin your journey with a device that has been designed to give you what you express you don't have, you will indeed have started to chip away at numbness and awaken the enormous pleasure zone housed comfortably within your butt. Like Unfug said: it will take time and his analogy of body builders is spot on. Also, once you get your (proper) device and insert, it will free-up your fingers so you can begin exploring other parts, like nipples etc. all the best.