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I asked about this on r/aneros but I thought I'd add here to get additional thoughts from people.

I've been considering getting an aneros and have read about some of people's experiences with super-Os and prostate orgasms, which sound pretty intense. I was wondering if, for people who have experienced those regularly, has orgasm from normal masturbation or sex without an aneros become any less satisfying? Has anyone become dependent on using the aneros, either alone or supplementing other sexual activity, or found that they've started masturbating less due to it being less pleasurable? Reading some other people's stories, it almost sounds like after starting to use the aneros, anything else would just be mediocre without it. I also haven't had sex before and I wouldn't want my first (or subsequent) experience to be a letdown when compared to the feeling of a super-O, dry-O or etc.

Can anyone comment on whether this has been the case or not? Thanks!


   
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For me, it has only improved my sexual activities. Our has made me much more aware of what's gong on down there with my body. I have much more control and enjoyment. My partner has noticed the difference and has no complaints.


   
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I'd say it reduced my sensitivty down there because I trained myself to pay attention to my prostate and body as a whole rather than just penile stimulation. Though here recently I've been going weeks at a time without aneros and feelings are starting to change again.


   
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I also haven't had sex before and I wouldn't want my first (or subsequent) experience to be a letdown when compared to the feeling of a super-O, dry-O or etc.

@cmule, I believe, you need not miss anything if trying Aneros and prostate stimulation before having sex with a partner.

As with masturbation the stimulation of your gland is only one other way of having sex. But as every experience can help to accomodate with new situations, getting to know your vibes and how you are responding to different stimulations may unbelievably enrich your sex life.

It is said, you can't love someone else if you don't love yourself. I would add, the better you know your own sexuality the better you can share sexual pleasures with a partner.

To "reduce sensitivty down there" as Tatornator called it, must not be a "letdown" as you might think. Instead being overwhelmed by unknown sexual pleasures can be a bigger "letdown", because you are not able to enjoy it at least a bit before it already is over. As my "sensitivity down there" still had not been reduced at all, my first penetration of a vagina ended with my glans passing the inner labia causing a premature ejaculation. Thus "intercourse seemed not as desirable as masturbation had made me think of it".

If only I had known what I learned since using Aneros tools! Especially about distinguishing orgasm pleasures from ejaculation!

The girl and me could have taken a bath in pure bliss with multiple orgasms, dry, super and wet.
Sadly the year 2003, when Aneros began to produce its tools, still had been a distant future.

After having gone through 40 days of semen retention lately, I can assure you, the pleasure of having sex with myself or a partner, has not been affected at all since enjoying my first Aneros session in October 2016.

Best vibes, let your heart lead you.


   
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@cmule, I believe, you need not miss anything if trying Aneros and prostate stimulation before having sex with a partner.

As with masturbation the stimulation of your gland is only one other way of having sex. But as every experience can help to accomodate with new situations, getting to know your vibes and how you are responding to different stimulations may unbelievably enrich your sex life.

To "reduce sensitivty down there" as Tatornator called it, must not be a "letdown" as you might think. Instead being overwhelmed by unknown sexual pleasures can be a bigger "letdown", because you are not able to enjoy it at least a bit before it already is over. As my "sensitivity down there" still had not been reduced at all, my first penetration of a vagina ended with my glans passing the inner labia causing a premature ejaculation. Thus "intercourse seemed not as desirable as masturbation had made me think of it".

So in that case, sounds like aneros can actually help make that first (and subsequent) experience better as you become more in tune/familiar with various forms of stimulation, and the reduced risk of PE can help you enjoy the experience more as well?


   
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@cmule, your summary is the essence of what I think about this topic. But, as everyone is unique, I can't guarantee anything.
As sexual pleasure primarly is experienced depending on your mindset, it, too, depends very much on how comfortable you feel with it. Who wants to preserve his virginity for somebody else might get into trouble with before even only thinking about any sexual technique .


   
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Once accustomed to the aneros, ordinary masturbation will seem pretty boring. Be prepared for aneros sessions to take over your self-pleasuring. That is a good thing, a very good thing.

Sex is different, especially if there is a good emotional connection. For someone who has never had sex yet, aneros sessions can teach you a lot - but one of the biggest benefits is being able to learn to control ejaculation and thus avoid premature ejaculation.


   
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Rubbing one out just doesn't cut it any more.....


   
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