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When I lie on my side, with the bottom leg straight, and the top one bent, will the pressure of my top leg pressing on my genitals cause ejaculation? Also, do you usually pull the top leg in tight to your chest, or just bend it comfortably and let it rest there normally. Also, when lying with both legs together, is it better to keep your balls pulled out from between your legs, so all of your stuff is pulled forward away from your legs, and your thighs are almost touching, or just try to keep your balls between your legs, and try not to smash them. Even if you don't know, suggestions are greatly appreciated. Heck, tell me what you do even. thanks in advance.

In addition. I ask all these questions because even though the usual advice is do whatever feels good, don't plan, stop thinking, what others do might not work for you etc, but I am a structured personality type with OCD. I need rules, suggestions, guidelines. Some sort of official starting point, that I can adjust as I go. It will help me immensely.


   
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When I lie on my side, with the bottom leg straight, and the top one bent, will the pressure of my top leg pressing on my genitals cause ejaculation?

Usually it shouldn't. Maybe just try that first with a towel on the bed or something.

Also, do you usually pull the top leg in tight to your chest, or just bend it comfortably and let it rest there normally.

I sometimes tried it sideways and when I did it was more the latter one, because the main goal is to relax. If you can relax in an uncomfy position you can try the pull-version. But I would recommend the comfortable one.

Also, when lying with both legs together, is it better to keep your balls pulled out from between your legs, so all of your stuff is pulled forward away from your legs, and your thighs are almost touching, or just try to keep your balls between your legs, and try not to smash them. Even if you don't know, suggestions are greatly appreciated. Heck, tell me what you do even. thanks in advance.

I would pull them out, because my thighs definitely do touch.

In addition. I ask all these questions because even though the usual advice is do whatever feels good, don't plan, stop thinking, what others do might not work for you etc, but I am a structured personality type with OCD. I need rules, suggestions, guidelines. Some sort of official starting point, that I can adjust as I go. It will help me immensely.

I am still very new to this stuff, but I prefer the lying on the back position. On the side I can't relax as much as when lying on the back.

Well, even if you may not like to hear, that it's important what YOU feel, but it really is. I don't know how much you know about computers, but I would like to compare it to a pc problem you encountered and telling the support "I've got a problem" and expect them to directly know what you gotta do. There are so many things, that could help you and many things that won't.

So maybe you could kind of create a plan. Try the side position for some weeks. One week with balls out, one with balls in. One week legs hard bent, one week smoothly bent, one week on the back with legs slightly spread, one week on the back with knees up and feet horizontally on the bed. Just try 🙂

Surely the more advanced people here have another tips, but I wanted to give you a start 🙂
Please correct me (seniors), when I am wrong.

And the one week is nothing really important. It was just a suggestion. And you wouldn't need to have something inside of you. At first it's about finding a position you can relax in. Try them, when you want to sleep. If you can't find sleep you might be in an uncomfortable position.


   
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@Spanishguy69,
All great questions and the same I have struggled with for a very long time.

I own all the classics and have modified slightly with more aggressive P-Tab bending via heating the arm. I tossed my Progasm as the neck was uncomfortably large and locked in too much and my go-to is the Helix classic but still enjoy the Eupho and the ProJr. The MGX was too short for me. Also, I have not pin-pointed my sweet-spot but have a good general area closer to my anus (this the more aggressive p-tab adjustments).

For the first 2 years I have done left side, both knees together in a 90 degree sitting-chair position on my side with cock forward and balls backward or comfortable position between thighs. For a long time I tried on back with under-hip pillows and the on-side with 1 leg straight - nothing was coming on-back and my cock was being teased by the bed when on-side so the chair pose was best for me. Also, contrary to 'instructions', my left side has much better results than my right. I also had streaming cam-girls and enjoyed rocking of the hips and both nipple teasing. In my two-years of riding this has resulted in a great and consistent ride and about 15% HFWO but no Super-Os and session between 30 min to 4 hours. 🙂

About a month ago, I wnt through a sensation-less period with all my toys (apparently common). Since then, I've tried again with the on-back, pillow under hips and feet flat and apart but pulled up near pillow. I also switched to binaural one (on youtube) with headphones. Wow - this has really changed things up and now I understand why its the favorite position (see polls). Some variations of the above are same on-back position with same feet but bring the knees together (cock up, balls down). I have never had long or consistent involuntaries on my side but this on-back position really gets them going from my abdomen down to my thighs. I keep the constant pressure to stopping pee but relax the anal muscles and this seems to work. Still no "OMG that must have been a SO" yet but the longer mini-Os come frequently.

After about 1-1.5 hours like this I roll over to my side position and see if a HFWO can be conjured- which is about 15% of the time - if I am spent then back onto my back and Super-T while camgirls are on (but silenced! The fake moaning, chatting or playing guitars is too distracting!).

I have just ordered the Trident series and am greatly looking forward to seeing how they compare. I am not put out that a Super-O (at least as hyped) hasn't arrived but do enjoy riding and the mini-Os.

happy ride and enjoy the journey.


   
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I bend both of my legs while on my left side (90 degrees or so), and I put a pillow between the legs — found out for me this results in the best sessions, and I can lie like this for 3-4 hours without any discomfort.


   
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@Spanishguy69,
All great questions and the same I have struggled with for a very long time.

I also switched to binaural one (on youtube) with headphones. =

I hope I used quoting you properly, I couldn't remember how. Which binaural track do you prefer? I thought 4 was good.


   
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@Spanishguy69 , I prefer #5 but like them all - just wish they were an hour.


   
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at least with my iPhone, I can pull up one of the videos such as number I and slide over the autoplay slider and they all play right after the other


   
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