For weeks now, I was practicing edging or at least I thought I was. I would masturbate and when I felt I was getting close to climax, I would squeeze my PC muscle as hard as I could and stop ejaculation. I was proud of my progress but I never experienced any real orgasms in the process. It felt good and I was thinking, it will come with time and experience.
In the last few days, I changed my process and finally discovered my way to multiple orgasm without ejaculation! I masturbate, sometimes aggressively and go as far as feeling the coming of eminent ejaculation and then I squeeze the base of my penis as hard as I can and at the same time, push in my perineum just as hard to suppress ejaculation. The first few times, I did not really feel the orgasm as I was more preoccupied with averting the spill. And then, with practice, I get the full orgasms on every set of strokes but without the spill! In one session, my prostate leaked some fluid but it was not semen and still no refractory. I can now achieve this several times (4 to 6 so far) per session and now I give myself at least a few sessions per day. It's getting easier and with no refractory period, I am not drained of energy. In fact I feel more energetic all day!
One side note, wether related or not to edging, my Aless sessions are yielding much better feelings and sensations than before this new edging practice. I can now feel orgasmic sitting on the chair talking to my wife while she is cooking or while driving, etc.
I started my Aneros (and back door play) almost 8 months ago and even though I have not achieved the Super-O level yet, I really cannot complain about my progress and discovery of new sexual sensations. This is over and above my huge health benefit progress.
I keep reading from the experts on this forum that things always get better with time. Life is wonderful; I just thought I would share this with you guys.
@GGringo, I find your post on edging to be very inspirational. I want to study it closely and incorporate it in my masturbation sessions. Also your perfection of edging techniques in your masturbation sessions are preparing you for your first Super-O which may happen soon. MMO's may follow on its heels. The beauty of Aless is that we can enjoy the beauties and majesty of the Aneros at anytime we wish.
Do these orgasms have the same duration and intensity as ejaculatory orgasms? Does your penis throb in the same way as it would during a regular orgasm? In other words: are they the same orgasms minus the semen? It's hard to imagine they are, because a regular orgasm typically comes with these 'pumping' sensations, associated with the ejaculation of semen. Or is it a different type of orgasm?l you experience during these sessions?
@cko23 , when I first started the practice, I was disappointed that the climax sensation was not there. I felt I was short of it and sometimes, I pushed the envelope until it was one or two strokes too late. With time, I got better at stopping just at the right moment and the climax is there and just as intense as with ejaculation. The big difference is that I get far more than one climax per session. In fact, I just finished a 4-round session where I climaxed without ejaculation 4 times and my penis will throb for several more hours. For me, every instance of climax produces a little fluid from the prostate and it's easy to get on to the next wave of pleasure. I never end my session with ejaculation; I withhold my ejaculation for weeks and it seems to work for me.
I suggest, when you practice this, stop earlier and enjoy the partial climax then work your way up. This is an instance where persistence does pay off. I have been at this for only a few weeks and I seem to get faster, satisfactory results than I have with my Aneros sessions. Don't get me wrong, there is nothing bad about my Aneros sessions; it's just that I have experienced every good feelings that comes with them except the Super-O.
Finally, I have at least one or two edging sessions per day and for me, it seems, they have helped my Aless sessions by leaps and bounds. I thought I was a sexual person before all these new discoveries but now, I'm an addict. Good luck and good practice to you! Please keep us informed of your progress.
I also invite anyone who is following this to write about their progress.
Life is wonderful!
@GGringo and @cko23, I have "liked" your posts in this thread. For the last few days, I have started this regimen of masturbation and ejaculatory control (edging). I hope to blog about my progress in my blog entry, http://www.aneros.com/blogs/harnessi...nd-super-ts-2/ 🙂
@cko23 , when I first started the practice, I was disappointed that the climax sensation was not there. I felt I was short of it and sometimes, I pushed the envelope until it was one or two strokes too late. With time, I got better at stopping just at the right moment and the climax is there and just as intense as with ejaculation. The big difference is that I get far more than one climax per session. In fact, I just finished a 4-round session where I climaxed without ejaculation 4 times and my penis will throb for several more hours. For me, every instance of climax produces a little fluid from the prostate and it's easy to get on to the next wave of pleasure. I never end my session with ejaculation; I withhold my ejaculation for weeks and it seems to work for me.
I suggest, when you practice this, stop earlier and enjoy the partial climax then work your way up. This is an instance where persistence does pay off. I have been at this for only a few weeks and I seem to get faster, satisfactory results than I have with my Aneros sessions. Don't get me wrong, there is nothing bad about my Aneros sessions; it's just that I have experienced every good feelings that comes with them except the Super-O.
Finally, I have at least one or two edging sessions per day and for me, it seems, they have helped my Aless sessions by leaps and bounds. I thought I was a sexual person before all these new discoveries but now, I'm an addict. Good luck and good practice to you! Please keep us informed of your progress.
I also invite anyone who is following this to write about their progress.
Life is wonderful!
Sounds good! I'll try this sometime soon. It's probably hard to describe, but can you indicate on which moment you stop jerking and squeeze your penis and perineum? Is it past the point of no return? (Although technically that would be impossible as passing this point implies that ejaculation is inevitable).
I personally can not recommend edging as tool for anyone that has not reached the super O level. In the name of science you can try but I would leave it to the end of the session. Once you have mastered achieving the super O then edging can be a fun and highly erotic exercise. I always save it for the end of my sessions because slipping over the edge will happen often. With practice and relaxation you can push the edge to places that you have never been before....a place were the edge and super O's cross into a zone of incredible heights. With micro movements of the hand I can keep on the edge for 1 2 3 or more minutes and I can actually ejaculate while having a super O which is very nice:p. Good luck and remember to practice often.
@cko23 I stop right at the climax point or one second before. My PC muscle pulsesand I feel like I am ejaculating but I'm not. At that point, I am blocking the tube prventing ejaculation. This is trial and error exercise specially in the begining. Good luck.
@brucemarkland what you say makes sense. Thank you for your advise. The reason I'm doing it is to not masterbate and ejaculate to fill the urge. I am not in a hurry to achieve my first Super-O although I would welcome it. All other benefits and new sensations are most welcome. I have however reduced the number of edging sessions per week.