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08/30/2009 3:53 am
This sums up how I feel.
The entry "True Multiorgasmic Response" didn't elaborate on a key problem:
Men can learn to have mini-orgasms (my nonejaculatory orgasms are 70% strength) but it involves
a) "holding back"
b) not easily transferred to intercourse.
c) men practicing so-called MMO techniques (myself included) get bored because you can't really let go during love-making, like my wife; instead, we have to "hold back" at a low plateau so as to not "blip" over during intercourse. My wife, on the other hand, can have real, no-holds-barred MMOs clitorally and vaginally. She is in her late 30s and hitting her prime: orgasms pile upon orgasm WITHOUT EFFORT and sometimes blend together so that she either a) loses consciousness of everything but the pleasure reverbrating through her entire body; or b) imagines flames of pleasure emanating from her clit to the rest of her. FURTHERMORE, female orgasms at mid-life are as strong as they were as a teen because the only way to "exercise" the love muscles is through involuntary orgasmic contractions (true MMOs). I work out religiously and every muscle in my body is in tip-top shape, but because I am not truly MMO, my orgasms have become weaker over time so that occassionally I ejaculate and feel NOTHING at all. I like to say that a man has one orgasm at a time as a teenager; by the time he is 40, he has 1/5th or 1/10th of an orgasm (notice how far your ejaculate shoots at 40 compared to 18--mine just dribbles out and I am in excellent shape).
So, in a word, I've become depressed and bored with this gender gap. It's a lot of work for the middle-aged male to keep his woman satisfied while she keeps "coming and coming" (not every time but often enough to make one green with Venus envy).
God must be a woman, or hate men (notice that Jesus, if you believe he is the Son of God, always took the woman's point of view. Lusting in your heart during masturbation--more common among men--is equivalent to adultery. WWJD: Castration ("if your hand is your problem, cut it off....")!
Is anyone else depressed by this gaping gender gap. My wife complains that she gets so much pleasure and I get so little but I tell her that is the fate of men, we are the "inferior sex," as biologists remind us.
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Date Posted: 10/17/2004 7:53 PM
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P.S.: Women have more erogenous zones too. Some women can "think off." After 20 orgasms or more (she loses count), if I run my finger down my wife's back, she has "backgasms"--real orgasms from the stroking!
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08/30/2009 8:27 am
Good summary of the situation I share as a 'firmly wired' monogamous straight male (FWMSM) who is, "in control" of himself. "Rewiring" is a more lengthy process for "FWMSMs" as it involves relinquishing a piece of the self-control we've cultivated for many years. (Note: I think this is harder than giving up one's old golf swing so that the course Pro can 'unwire' a move or posture that's really screwing things up.)
I think part of the rewiring process includes a realization that we males must give up the responsibility we feel for our spouse's orgasm.
08/30/2009 4:13 pm
If you look at it for a scientific point of view it all makes sense.
Men need to have a limit on how many women they can impregnate in one day, while women , being the receivers don't need that limit.
It's all sexual science. 8)
humans are the only beings that have sex for pleasure; (that we know of) other beings have sex when they are supposed to or when their population gets low.
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08/30/2009 4:21 pm
If you look at it for a scientific point of view it all makes sense.
Men need to have a limit on how many women they can impregnate in one day, while women , being the receivers don't need that limit.
It's all sexual science. 8)
humans are the only beings that have sex for pleasure; (that we know of) other beings have sex when they are supposed to or when their population gets low.
No because a woman sleeping with multiple man decreases her value and might be abandoned by all the men. A limit on how many men women can be impregnated by ensures that the father's identity will be known.
And there is no limit honestly. Plenty of men can go 10-12 times a day. This doesn't mean that their orgasms get better.
08/30/2009 6:29 pm
All morality and value aside men would have sex with multiple women everyday if it was socially acceptable..
a man can not ejaculate 100(s) times a day so that makes his limit less than 100(s) impregnations a day.
a man can not overpopulate the world in any set time because of his ejaculation limitations.
That is science...
08/30/2009 7:13 pm
If you look at it for a scientific point of view it all makes sense.
Men need to have a limit on how many women they can impregnate in one day, while women , being the receivers don't need that limit.
It's all sexual science. 8)
humans are the only beings that have sex for pleasure; (that we know of) other beings have sex when they are supposed to or when their population gets low.
Consider Bonobos. IIRC, those guys have hand signals to tell the females what position they desire.
"Intellectual" read:
-- http://www.bio.davidson.edu/people/vecase/behavior/Spring2003/Bryant/MatingSys.html --
08/30/2009 7:59 pm
Interesting, interesting....
this strengthens the evolution theory a bit......
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08/30/2009 11:14 pm
Interesting, interesting....
this strengthens the evolution theory a bit......
what evolutionary theory? that men have crappier orgasms because of evolution?
i don't see why this would be. its bullshit. especially since we don't live in a matriarchy the way those animals do.
so do you still believe the bs that men can't relax because of evolution? lol.
08/30/2009 11:51 pm
😯 🙂
Ha ha noooooooooooooooooooo
the evolution theory is that Humans evolved and were were not just created (Adam and Eve)
anyway, while we are on the subject a man's orgasms can be really strong and can be right on top of each other like a woman's orgasm. Men just have to be more careful of their multiple orgasms or they will ejaculate. I know all of this because I have tried it. the orgasm is what you make of it. really! you could have orgasms like the ones the Aneros give you just by masturbating with the right mind set.
That mind set is elusive to most men even to me sometimes but with it orgasms are powerful.
Topic starter
08/31/2009 1:58 am
😯 🙂
Ha ha noooooooooooooooooooo
the evolution theory is that Humans evolved and were were not just created (Adam and Eve)
anyway, while we are on the subject a man's orgasms can be really strong and can be right on top of each other like a woman's orgasm. Men just have to be more careful of their multiple orgasms or they will ejaculate. I know all of this because I have tried it. the orgasm is what you make of it. really! you could have orgasms like the ones the Aneros give you just by masturbating with the right mind set.
That mind set is elusive to most men even to me sometimes but with it orgasms are powerful.
As good or better than women's orgasms?
Topic starter
08/31/2009 2:01 am
Good summary of the situation I share as a 'firmly wired' monogamous straight male (FWMSM) who is, "in control" of himself. "Rewiring" is a more lengthy process for "FWMSMs" as it involves relinquishing a piece of the self-control we've cultivated for many years. (Note: I think this is harder than giving up one's old golf swing so that the course Pro can 'unwire' a move or posture that's really screwing things up.)
I think part of the rewiring process includes a realization that we males must give up the responsibility we feel for our spouse's orgasm.
As someone said in another thread traditional roles dictate men giving pleasure.
Anyways i hope most men have that realization one day.
08/31/2009 3:08 am
😯 🙂
Ha ha noooooooooooooooooooo
the evolution theory is that Humans evolved and were were not just created (Adam and Eve)
anyway, while we are on the subject a man's orgasms can be really strong and can be right on top of each other like a woman's orgasm. Men just have to be more careful of their multiple orgasms or they will ejaculate. I know all of this because I have tried it. the orgasm is what you make of it. really! you could have orgasms like the ones the Aneros give you just by masturbating with the right mind set.
That mind set is elusive to most men even to me sometimes but with it orgasms are powerful.
As good or better than women's orgasms?
....................I have never had a woman's orgasm, but I'm sure it is just as powerful.
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