Prostate orgasm and Intercourse...

I am quite versatile (top or bottom for those not initiated) but my husband is a total bottom. So my Aneros use is in lieu of being topped myself. I found that as a result of using my faithful Helix, my erections have become stronger and I cum in greater quantities (not bragging, mind you). Also I naturally produce more precum even without the Helix. So it's a win/win situation as far as I'm concerned. I ride every Tuesday and Thursday (schedule permitting--I missed today damn it) which keeps me quite contented. So @Keepitcummin, just relax and enjoy. Remember the first time you jacked off. You immediately wanted to repeat it ten times (ejaculation frenzy?) but couldn't, finally realizing you had to space it out to get the full benefit of it. Anal play, it seems to me, is the same. And if you do it too much, your ass will get sore. Moreover, the anticipation of the next ride can be almost as exciting as the ride itself.

I consider myself lucky to have turned on my prostate switch quickly but now I’m having some anxieties.... But I’m curious if other tops have flipped over to bottom after prostate orgasm rewiring?

You are indeed lucky to be successful so quickly. Regardless of one's sexual orientation when you actively pursue the pleasures of prostate play you will start bringing up numerous questions of your sexual/sensual identity. Getting further in touch with one's own sexuality often occurs for men on their Aneros journey, sometimes this can create anxieties as they grapple with cognitive dissonance issues (please see Your Psyche in the Aneros WIKI). These issues may be easily resolved or they may necessitate some deeper resolution and a need for Getting Help. Just as all of your earlier life experiences have shaped your present behaviors, your Aneros journey is likely to influence your future behaviors as well, but you get to direct that future in the manner of your desires.

I notice myself craving more sensation inside me so the idea of being the bottom is turning me on more and more.

I think your experiencing a 'Honeymoon' period with your Aneros, I suspect it will start to level off in the near future as you have more and more Anerosessions.

Going back to topping, has anyone experienced a less strong erection either while getting oral and/or while fucking your partner?

I can't answer that as I have ED and am not partnered.

I can’t help but wonder if the awareness of prostate pleasure adds to or takes away from sexual intercourse? Like do you get distracted and lose erection?

I think it can work both ways, it just depends on the individual and their focus during intercourse. For solo play, one's erectile state is immaterial to experience the pleasures of prostate massage leading to orgasm.

Lastly, for you fellows who are enjoying prostate orgasms on the regular, can you tell me how often you indulge in sessions? but is there a too much / max point we should consider for our health and safety ?

Personally, I average about 2 Anerosessions per week but if you view the user Polls How long is just right to ride your Aneros?& How frequently do you use your massager? you will get an idea of your fellow Anerosians usage. As to the health and safety issues, as long as you are following the manufacturer's written directions there should be no negative consequences. The Aneros line of prostate massagers was developed in response to the positive reactions from High Island Health's line of prostate massagers.

FYI, High Island Health LLC is the parent company & manufacturer of the Aneros® brand of prostate massagers, (see Aneros History. This patented device was originally and is currently offered for sale as the Pro-State ® line of massagers on the High Island Health website. The HIH website is primarily oriented toward the health aspects and benefits of prostate massage in accord with Oriental medicine for prostate related issues, I encourage you to check out that site to learn more about the health benefits. You may also be interested in reading about the ongoing Columbia Medical School study using the Pro-State massagers. The High Island Health website also contains testimonials from users regarding their experiences using these wonderful little massagers. That website also provides links to additional information on prostate health, the Aneros® website, by contrast, is oriented toward the sensual, pleasure aspects of prostate massage.

Thanks for any input I’m so horny all the time I feel like I can’t turn myself OFF.... worried I might be losing too much sleep too, any advice for resisting the urges?

Sorry, I won't be able to help you there, once your prostate is awoken it may never go back to sleep. I've been on this journey for more than 11 years now and while there have been lulls, the desires for continued usage remain. Besides, I really don't want those urges to abate, why would I want to lose my source of pleasure? Good Vibes to You !

@simeonh thank you! Really appreciate that feedback. I am excited to continue exploring and unlocking my bodies pleasure powers. It’s good to know you’ve had a positive experience during intercourse. And I’m relieved to be reminded I’m not crazy for wanting more and more orgasms! 🙂 Reliving my teenage years....

@rumel Your wisdom is so appreciated ! Thank you! I am going to look into all of those resources you sent. Thanks so much for taking the time to write me 🙂

Keepitcummin I am not gay I'm a straight 40 yr old male. I can say that over the course of my journey with aneros that it has turned me. I went from riding by myself to riding with my girlfriend. Not only with her just around but also during foreplay, or blowjobs and sex. It has only made them better.
I find alot of the times during a blowjob or sex I go on auto pilot. Not the toy going on it's own but me. I just start pumping away in her. My hips just swing in and out and I can't control them. I have several small mini orgasms. It was a weird feeling to get used to at first. Your fucking someone but your not moving your body it goes in control of itself. Its actually quite nice and she can now tell when it is happening and it drives her crazy.
As for turning you into a bottom. Who the fuck cares. If it feels great and you like it go for it.
again I'm not gay. But using aneros has led me into letting my girlfriend peg me. And wow. I love it.
what the fuck have I been missing, I wish I tried this so many years ago. I was stuck on the that gay. I'm not a gay man. That's an exit only hole.
I figured what the hell if the aneros feels that good what would a dick or dildo feel like. So we dabbled wittle took it slow experimented and moved on to me letting her full on have her way with me. It's not a regular thing we are still new into it. We are slowly making it a more regular thing. All I can say is Just in joy the ride, enjoy the pleasure. Life is to short. It doesn't matter what it is if it is bringing pleasure to you let it be enjoy. To all the guys holding back for whatever the stupid reason. Stop the labels. Bottom line is its pleasure let it swallow you up.
For how much I ride. I ride as aften as I can. Sometimes daily. Sometimes a few times a week and sometimes none. It's all on mood and being able to. Listen to your body. It will guide you. I have dud sessions trying to have one just because I can. If your in the mood and not sore ride on brother ride on. Hope some of this was helpful.

We only use aneros device during sex together. We are a straight couple and my husband have the same issues as you (as you say you are a top he is not gay or a bottom). I don’t think you will turn over to a bottom but maybe you will be more sensitive and more aware of a bottoms feelings. This will make you a better lover. Enjoy and experiment!