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Okay, I seen this http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=7pca6-J650- online and was wondering what is best technique to approach prostate milking. The guy in video his penis is flaccid and looks relaxed. I am currently new to prostate milking in general and what to try the same technique without using the aneros, and using the Crystal Therawand Premium http://www.amazon.com/TheraWand-Premium/dp/B00DN6PIE6 I am recently getting Monday?
Any Ideas?
Google for Prostate Milking, peaks n pulses. Hopefully that will lead to a secure web page that's a good general overview of the essentials. It's on the https://nandisa.wordpress.com website but my link got flakey last week. Skip the fotos and spend some time on a mental map so that you can sense where you are penetration wise.
I'll continue a hunt for a good link and post in this thread when one lasts more than 48 hours.
I prefer to start up against the vesicles and work downward into the prostate.
Once you get a "feel" for navigation, mark your wand with pieces of tape so that you can retrace your path on future milking sessions.
One wand may not prove ideal for all spots where you want to apply a stroke, a swipe or some pressure. So, consider making your own 'instrument' when an OTC item doesn't seam effective or safe.
I've been milking for about a month now, but I've been wondering about milking videos I've seen online. Some of them manage to milk out pretty huge volumes of fluid, and I've one or two with really strong, high volume squirts one after the other. Is it that some people are better at milking than others, or does it just take time and practice to achieve that amount and intensity?
Orgasmic19,
While the term prostate "massage” and prostate "milking” are often used interchangeably, I believe there is a distinct difference we can identify. Prostate “massage” is the act of stimulating/manipulating the prostate gland for pleasure or medical purposes, it may or may not lead to release of fluids or cause an orgasm. Prostate “milking” is the release of fluids as a direct result of prostate “massage”. The Aneros devices are prostate "massagers”, they may or may not be used as “milking” devices depending on the individuals involved.
Self “milking” with the Aneros via ‘hands free’ manipulation is difficult as one usually needs to be very relaxed for the ejaculatory ducts to open and allow the fluids to flow out of the prostate. The stronger, more vigorous, muscular contractions needed to effectively move the massager create a level of tension which is antithetical to the relaxation of the gland ducts. It is possible to train the various muscle groups to simultaneously relax and contract to accomplish a “milking” but it will take practice. It is unnecessary to employ strong muscle contractions with your Aneros use as a “massager” to generate orgasmic feelings, hence you can employ it for many hours without triggering a “milking” response.
'Milking' your prostate of seminal fluids can be learned. You can read a short paragraph about Prostate Milking in the “Your Body” chapter of the Aneros WIKI. In addition to the peaks-n-pulses article @rook mentioned, I'd like to point out a longer treatise on prostate milking technique and issues from Lady Lubyanka. There is also a well written blog by Andr. titled HOW TO MILK A BULL which gives step by step descriptions of the process.
My own experience has revealed the conditions need to be 'right' to accomplish a true "milking" using your Aneros and without using your hand to manipulate the massager. Generally, you need to be highly aroused, your prostate needs to be full and engorged due to arousal (an erect penis from edging is helpful but not mandatory). You should be on the high excitement plateau just before reaching the PONR (Point of No Return), then using your sphincter and PC muscles start performing very strong, rhythmic, slow paced contractions with total relaxation between contractions. It is important to maintain your arousal level, through penile stimulation if necessary, but don't take yourself to the point of ejaculatory inevitability (PONR). This may take a long time and be somewhat strenuous but you will eventually get the ejaculatory ducts to open and the drip, drip, drip of prostatic fluid. The process may not yield much fluid nor be intensely pleasurable in relationship to the amount of energy expended, it can be done, but Aneros devices (regardless of model or size) may not be the best tools for this particular activity. The best tool I've found for performing a real self "milking" is the Njoy 'Pure Wand'. I suspect having a professional masseuse do this would be much more pleasant as you could really just relax into the pleasurable release to be had.
@TheCatfishMan, I suspect the videos you have seen are more more atypical than typical. Think about it, would men who produce very little in the way of emissions bother to record their activity to show very little? While I am sure some men are more experienced at 'milking' than others and it is a skill that needs practice to become proficient, the fact is, men naturally vary in the volume of prostate/seminal fluid produced. Health, age, diet and frequency of emissions all contribute to the amount produced by each of us and the intensity of the 'milking' experience is largely a function of one's psychological state (another large variable).
Good Vibes to You !
Here's a link that's worked for two days:
https://nandisa.wordpress.com/2012/01/11/milking-the-glands/
hth... rook
It's funny, on the peaks and pulses site it sort States vaguely about dry orgasms but kind of glazes over it. Stating that it is pleasurable, may make you ejaculate and not all men can achieve it. Interesting.
Thanks for the input rumel