Prostate massager for a big guy.

I have the Rocks Off Big Boy and I think the angle is incorrect for contact. At least for me. A huge disappointment. It was my first before I discovered Aneros. Way too big for a beginner as well 😀

OK so first thing, have you been able to assist the depth of your p spot? Using a thin smooth tool say like a drumstick or buy something like the njoy wand, use that to insert and move back and for the until you are sure it's over the p spot. You will feel it. At that point hold your fingers on the tool right where it is entering your body and remove it. Measure that distance. That will help determine if you indeed aren't reaching it or if you just haven't rewired yet to feel the spot. If you have a glass dildo or wifes, whatever. Find the spot first and measure distance.

Hi bigguy! I'm 6'3" and have no problems. I use three different Aneros: helix, progasm Jr and eupho all with great results (super-Os). You didn't say how often you Aneros? I would give it some time, you can't "force it". I had practically no response for the first 6 sessions or so. I would say just to relax, enjoy the sessions as they are and as you get 'rewired' you will be amazed!BTW, I generally have my 'sessions' in bed, not standing or sitting and they are always 'hands-free'.

Someone on the chat recommended njoy fun wand

Was the Progasm comfortable? For most folk it takes a few weeks even a few months before the prostate 'notices' the massager. It is a natural process and the advantage of the Aneros massagers is that they are not aggressive. The prostate will response when it is ready. For some this is quite quick for others it can take years, but usually it is baby steps. The prostate is not that deep in the body so Progasm Ice is designed to sit around the gland.

I have different experience. My first massager was Nexus Max 5 and it got me very good orgasms from the very begining. The problem was I couldn't sit on it because it put pressure on my bladder which was very uncomortable. I had to use it in a weird way at the edge of the sofa so it didn't hurt me. One day I decided to throw it away. To be honest I never found anything that would stimulate my prostate that good. I also think that my prostate got used to the stimulation and the sensations coming from massage got weaker over time. Completely opposite to what you guys experienced.

"Was the Progasm comfortable?"
Yes, it was comfortable. Never had any trouble inserting or using it. Just not big enough for me.

OK so first thing, have you been able to assist the depth of your p spot? Using a thin smooth tool say like a drumstick or buy something like the njoy wand, use that to insert and move back and for the until you are sure it's over the p spot. You will feel it.

How do you feel it?
What does it feel like?

I ask as I'm not sure I've found my prostate and last nigth I pushed the Progasm Ice to go deeper and it felt different somehow. I'm only 5 foot 7 or 8..

Edit: I've created a new thread for my questions.... https://community.aneros.com/forum/discussion/17455/what-does-prostate-contact-feel-like

I'm 6' 4" tall and have love just about every Aneros model. But I've fallen in love with the Pipedream Products Icicles No 45, Clear as my everyday device. It seems counter-intuitive, as this is a shorter length, but it knows right were to go for my body. Give one a try. It is only about US$16 on amazon.

Checkout the PS-New from High Island Health (the parent company of Aneros products). It's marketed for guys over 5' 11"

Do a Google search for "High Island Health" and go to the page for Pro State Massagers. PS-New is on the left in the illustration. You'll recognize the PS-2 and PS-X as simple rebrands of existing Aneros models.

I've removed the entire tail from my PS-New and smoothed / poiished the remaining nub so that it can 'crawl up' inside for an extra 1/2" Once I 'learned' this tool, the double nubs on the head became clearly distinguishable. 🙂