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Creating a new thread, from my questions to @yankeecowboy here: https://community.aneros.com/forum/discussion/comment/80712#Comment_80712

It's suggested to use a thin hard item to probe, and find the location of the prostate.

Apparently if I did that, I will just feel it. Like as if it's some universally known feeling that once it hits you, you will know for sure.

I've tried this a year ago while on a live chat on the Aneros chat, and I failed to find my prostate. I didn't experience any "wow" feelings at any point in my probing, across a depth range of 0 - 5ish inches, and various forward (towards belly, ergo towards prostate) locations.
What am I looking for, in terms of feeling?

I feel a bit stupid asking this, being an 18 month user of the Aneros... I should know all this by now. But I don't think I know the answer.


   
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To locate you prostate, try this..

Relax while the aneros is in and do slow gentle slight sphinxer/pc muscle contraction then let go and relax and repeat, eventually you will get that breakthrough feeling and your prostate will be sensitized. It feels like a spongy silky ball afterwards that just wants to get milked(squeezed) then released which sends waves of pleasure.

ps: If that dosent work your prostate might be hard/tense or dry, the reason why you dont feel it.. give it a good strong contraction while your aneros is in to break it down and as you SLOWLY let go it should feel like your prostate is hugging and melting in the tip of your aneros and bang its back from the dead.. afterwards your prostate will get bigger, healthier and juicier and will beg you for more πŸ˜‰

to help even more to locate your prostate..as you contract while the aneros is in, try to slowly and gently move your pelvic area like a humping motion and spread your butt cheeks, it should help the aneros slide deeper and deeper in there creating more pressure on the prostate. Also..try to keep the P tab centered on the perineum.

You will probably notice that your prostate is swollen/sore after a hard contraction session don't worry it will heal and become alot more sensitive and strong afterwards and you will know exactly where it is...this is like a shortcut for prostate awakening whit a little down side to it, that's when you realize that your brain was simply not rewired to feel the prostate contact and the whole time it was making contact. Some can locate/feel it while just relaxing some need a little extra push.

Don't forget this is only to help you Locate and condition your prostate , to achieve the super O no voluntary contraction are needed at all, all you need to do is RELAX and LET GO, and your body will do everything that needs to be done by itself to reach the O zone.

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No it's fine. But for myself and I will only speak for myself. Getting sufficiently aroused first using whatever method you want. You can insert said tool/probe and you may feel it when u feel a spot that stimulates inside as well as shoots through the penis as well. This spot may swell or squeeze when manipulated and those feelings may increase. Can also cause tickling in the pubic region. A slight urge to urinate may also be felt.


   
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Rockandroll's explanation is incredibly accurate compared to my experiences. My prostate has only recently totally awakened, and it's an insane feeling. Once it happens to you, you will know. It's that simple. Took me about a year of use to get to that point. My best advice is to just chill and let the feelings come to you. You can't really force it.


   
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Remember this is a gentle "search-and-sense" task and it's not part of a "search-and-destroy" mission. The prostate is located on the forward wall of the rectum. If you shove hard enough against or stretch the rectum using a large tool/toy you can actually shove the prostate away and you will feel nothing.

I usually feel an 'uncertain' pleasure sensation that's "asking for more" If I shove a bit harder I'll sometimes loose the feeling. There is a Goldilocks Touch that's, just right.


   
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The prostate generally won't provide any sensations from contact, aside from aching if you press it hard enough. (Which isn't advised, naturally)Instead when it's being suitably massaged you'll feel pleasure build from what seemingly feels like no where, sometimes with the onset of a random erection.

Once you become experienced with it, though, you can centre in on where the pleasure comes from. (And it is more or less a male G-Spot.)


   
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Hmm. I do on occasion feel like some sort of scratching or itch inside my anal canal. Maybe near the prostate. And the scratch sorta felt like it was coming from the underside of my penis but not localised.

I do get pleasurable feelings of needing to pee. But... I wonder if that's my brain being rewired to enjoy having a full bladder!

And at times (especially with the Progasm Ice) it feels like I am having an erection, but I am not fully hard.

I'm not sure any of these are what I should be feeling.


   
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Needing to pee is actually one of the signs of prostate contact, afaik.


   
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The 'gotta pee' sensation may indicate prostate contact way up near the bladder neck. My 'tailless' PS-New is very repeatable in hitting that spot.


   
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So... is that good or is that bad?

Most recently, like last 2 sessions, I've been noticing more of a feeling at the tip of my penis.
Last night I think I got close to feeling pre-traiditional-orgasm on the tip. But then 5 mins or so later I had to get up from the bed and use the bathroom to empty bladder. Hmmm.


   
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At your next session try this , relax and put your aneros in without contracting at all , so slowly insert it in so it just slips in there slowly.. then let the aneros slip out whitout contrating anything at all..you'll notice your mind wants to subconsciously do tiny little contractions because it dosent want the aneros to slip out since your brain is like oh your gonna poop in the bed. Eventually from relearning your brain to let your aneros slip out..the magic will begin.

You will realize whit practice that the time lapse between the let go completely will expand as you rewire yourself to allow to let the aneros slip out as far as it wants dont worry it wont fall out since its designed to..

If you can manage to feel the aneros start to moving alone in there i'm 100% guaranted you'll know wut prostate contact feel like after.. the relaxing part/ letting slip out will leave your prostate vulnerable to sensation..Imagine if the prostate would always be so sensible we would get orgasm from walking lol

Eventually a motion will set in and it will become stronger and more powerful leading to an orgasm.


   
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I just did that sort of "let go" without the aneros inside me and it feels like i need to pee....
And I don't want the aneros to fall out...


   
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it won't fall out trust me just let it fall out then, it won't. Unless you push it out whit a bowel movement , but even then its pretty hard to do..

That fear of the aneros slipping out gives a signal to your brain to subconsciously contract..you don't want that, let it slip out. also to completely relax more muscles in the pelvic area pretend that pee/semen is leaking out of your penis at the same time you let it slip out it can help you to completly relax the pelvic area. Nipple stimulous also helps i find .

Once you learn to completely RELAX, try CONTRACTing your pelvic floor muscles and anal muscles(like if your breathing in the aneros) not to tight, then HOLD it there without the slithest involuntary contracting and at the same time let your aneros SLIP OUT slowly (relax)..you should then feel the aneros moving alone. As ive learnt from a post on the forum called Dirty way to the super-O.The tug of war technique.

and thats good that you feel you need to pee..really good... try the same let go whit the aneros..

Keep in mind, you don't need the aneros to achieve the orgasm,the aneros is just it helps alot and make it alot more pleasurable,amplified ..some can discharge whenever they want whit alot of pratice.

the orgasm itself kinda feels like a flower that grows until it blooms. then dies ..and repeats its cycle.


   
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Trust me, there will be No Doubt when you hit That spot πŸ˜€


   
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My experience is very similar to Rook's. I seem to do better with the Helix and smaller. The larger units feel good as in being full, but they just don't deliver. If I feel a "tickle", it is just right and the fireworks start. If I feel "full", not much else seems to develop.

A light touch seems to work better than the sledge hammer approach.

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Trust me, there will be No Doubt when you hit That spot πŸ˜€

So i've not yet hit that spot?


   
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Trust me, there will be No Doubt when you hit That spot πŸ˜€

So i've not yet hit that spot?

Perspectives vary, as do experiences.I also had the same problem of trying to figure it out.

In my case it was simply a question of time, letting the body work out for itself what it felt like. Saying that, it also helped to keep a check on everything that felt different when the Aneros was inside. This is a little weird, but imagining the Aneros as a finger helped my mindset in terms of…'feeling' things around, if you follow.


   
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Yeah I keep wondering if I am missing something, that my brain just doesnt detect the sensations. Maybe there's a crazy sex party going on in my prostate and I just dont hear it because I have extra thick double-glazed glass windows to the brain.

Thanks for your link about your previous thread. I will be sure to read it in the next 30 hours... looks like maybe you had a similar situation to mine, so it looks like it could be really good for me to read.


   
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@lonewolf8 For me the very first time I tried a massager, I knew this was a totally new experience and I wanted to explore more. The first few Super Ts knocked my socks off. Sometimes no erection is required tho like you said it often feels like you are erect. Once I experienced an internal prostate orgasm, I was in lust for sure. Maybe I am just lucky but the Progasm usually hits me just right. Some of my coolest orgasms ( Super Ts) I have had have been flaccid and not like a typical ejaculation. It is very hard to explain until you have experienced it.It is more of an overflow but still warm and feels nice. I also love the drained feeling you feel for hours after an overflow type orgasm. Puts a smile on my face. I would say if you are not feeling anything, move it around to find just the right spot. I hope this helps you !


   
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. Some of my coolest orgasms ( Super Ts) I have had have been flaccid and not like a typical ejaculation. It is very hard to explain until you have experienced it.It is more of an overflow but still warm and feels nice........................

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Your super Ts sound earthshattering.

Are those with the aneros in and were you traditionally stroking your tool....???

A non wired guy like me is baffled at to why you could be flaccid and have that kind of divine experience.

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. Some of my coolest orgasms ( Super Ts) I have had have been flaccid and not like a typical ejaculation. It is very hard to explain until you have experienced it.It is more of an overflow but still warm and feels nice........................

Awired

Your super Ts sound earthshattering.

Are those with the aneros in and were you traditionally stroking your tool....???

A non wired guy like me is baffled at to why you could be flaccid and have that kind of divine experience.

Thanks

Thanks Turnrow. Aneros in. Both ways ( stroking or not) , depends on the mood. πŸ˜€


   
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So after some diagnostics last night, I found out that I am not good at sensing sensations in general.
And that this might be why I cant feel anything on the prostate.

Seems things are worse than I thought. I was surprised I was not able to detect the tip of my nose when I was instructed to.

Maybe some of us are just not wired to do this?
Or if it's something that has to be learnt, I'm not sure I can learn how to do this.

All the talk of energies on the chat just makes no sense to me, and seems too unbelievable. I can't figure out a way to just accept it without questioning the validity of things like chakras and chi and mystical energies. I'm not sure what else can be done to help me, but seems I need to unbreak my body.

I'll keep doing what I've done so far with the 3 Aneros devices I have (because it's kinky lol), but I now feel even more confused like a blind man wandering aimlessly around looking for some food.


   
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Have you ever tried Peridise? The 'large' one creates unbelievable pleasure sensations! I find that it also stimulates the prostate big-time!


   
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I've not tried the Peridise. I would have to buy it. I'm not sure if I should be buying any more for some time. @rook suggested the SGX but also again not sure if it would make sense to spend money if I can't feel the correct sensations. Might be possible that I just need to continue; "steady as she goes".

I'm not sure why the Peridise would help. Also isn't that for advanced Anerosians?


   
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Not really. Peridise seems to "tone-up" the contractions but it gives REALLY intense feelings. For me, it also causes intensely strong "aftershock" erections hours later!


   
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I like your formula, steady as she goes. Perduse is cheap if you buy the two pack instead of the 4. I went right to the smallest one and it did accelerate my senses. Also energy. Let's just say nervous system energy. Ok? Sodium potassium ion channels can be motivated/manipulated with practice awareness. So wolf here's a way for you to feel the tip of the nose, dare I say the air passing over it. First think about the tip of your nose. Pay attention to it. Stand under a fan and be attentive to the movement of the air. If you can't feel your eyes? Stop blinking. Now pay attention, soon they will be screaming for moisture. You will feel that. Practice body awareness and your na/k channels will increase the stimulus to those areas. As men we are taught early in life to ignore these things. Remember being told suck it up or walk it off? Man up? Ignore sensation in particular pain? We have to understand we shut off not just pain but all sensation with th is practice. So don't worry. You can unlearn what u learn. Or in th is case, obtain higher education. I have learned to not only feel my own nervous system energy, I can feel other people's now as well. Without touchi ng them but being close with my hands. It feels like trying to bring magnets of the same polarity together. I've got about enough sensation awareness to detect this about 12 inches off a person's skin now. Sure sounds crazy. But as Walt Whitman said, I sING the body electric. So don't be freaked out by terms like energy, which is nothing more than the property of an object being transferred to other objects or changing to different forms. Cool though, isn't it? πŸ˜‰


   
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I dont have a fan.
Maybe I should take vitamins?
Of course I can feel my eyes dry. Everyone can feel that.
I feel pain.
I just dont know how to do these things you say.

Yet again I feel stupid because it seems I am missing some basic aspect that others feel is more natural.
And I need to sleep right now, so I am probably not making much sense.


   
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@lonewolf8, i found this article in relation whit the cold showers i was talking about earlier. This could probably, hopefully accelerate your progress into becoming a Multi orgasmic male as well as other users.

Even i just read all the benefits of a cold shower and i'll defenetly give it a try next time i shower. It seems like this article points alot of things that might help one regain sensation, will power, testosterone ect.


http://www.menprovement.com/benefits-of-cold-showers/

Thinking about that not long ago i jumped in the snow almost butt naked just for the hell of it...never felt so alive after, makes me wonder , wut would a anerossession in a cold bath be like xD

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Lol exactly, everyone can feel that. You felt it. You have just hit square one. See th at sensation brought focus to it. You couldn't ignore it. That is perfect. Now you can begin the journey of paying attention to the sense you can ignore. But you have a landmark to start by. Tip of the nose? Give it a good flick by the finger, there now you can focus on sensation there. And any o th er part of the body u wish. U will learn to feel the p spot internally with attentive focus.


   
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It's just like learning to ride a bicycle. People can explain all about balance to a beginning rider, but that doesn't help very much. All he or she can say is "I didn't feel the balance you talk about at all"


   
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