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(@lukewmc)
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Hey all! It s been a while since i posted anything! Well i ordered a few of the aneros products a few years back and sadly didnt get around to truly exploring them. Part of it was due to a girl friend who was very bad for me. I am now in a much healthier place in my life and i am trying to get over the my disappointment in male sexuality. (Partly brought on by the ex but thats a whole story in itself.) Well anyway i found this forum very enlightening 😀 and now i am at the point of exploring again. Beyond the issues of getting myself to relax, i have another issue...due to financial reasons i had to move out of my apartment and i rent a house with a buddy. I have no real privacy even though we have separate rooms, there is only one bathooom and our schedules are both crazy which makes it very hard to make some progress. Does anybody have any advice on a similar privacy situation? Thanks guys 😀



   
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Wouldn't you be able to have a session during the time that you sleep? Either in the morning or evening. I would think that the roommate would be less apt to bother you if he thinks you are asleep.



   
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Part of it was due to a girl friend who was very bad for me.

I have recently ended it with a girlfriend who - wasn't BAD for me, but whose situation was. She had a kid, no job, no concrete ambition, etc.

i am trying to get over the my disappointment in male sexuality. (Partly brought on by the ex but thats a whole story in itself.)

I am seeing a therapist because my disappointment in male sexuality gave me panic-like states and depressed me. Single orgasm, active vs passive (laying down and enjoying it versus crouching and trying to please), less pleasure points (clit, vagina, G spot, labia, etc), pressure to perform, etc.

I have no real privacy even though we have separate rooms, there is only one bathooom and our schedules are both crazy which makes it very hard to make some progress. Does anybody have any advice on a similar privacy situation? Thanks guys 😀

I live with mum. I have no privacy. She will barge in and start a convo out the blue before even waking me up. I can only schedule sessions before bed when she thinks I'm asleep, but I need porn on the PC and I gotta be careful of her walking in my room, so yeh. I feel ya man.

I been anerosing on and off (mostly off) for nearly a year (but probably under 20 times, I think) and still no rewiring, hardly any pleasure, no P waves, no O.



   
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(@lukewmc)
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Hey! I tried seeing a couple therapists too for the same types of reasons. They just didnt get where i was coming from. So i started exploring on my own and found this forum and a few books. Dont worry we can figure this out. I was glad to see other people felt like me. The hard part of the privacy issue is the preparations and the cleaning up. Its also hard to relax cause it could be all quite and then he turns on the radio or we have friends who stop by and my relaxed train of thought goes right off the bridge 😆 Yeah so i guess my biggest issue is the prep and the cleanup



   
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