Pressure on the prostate

Posted by: @dkelban

I find that aneros prostate massagers do not put enough pressure on the prostate. I'm trying the njoy pure wand, which has rave reviews. Of all the aneros massagers I've had the maximus trident has performed the best, but still not adequately. I know it's not me, because when my doctor digitally checks my prostate, the feeling is a world of difference. Anyone else have a similar experience?

I think the most effective messager depends on the individual's build. There are times when the classic Maximus that I use occasionally is to aggressive and makes my gland sore. The P-tape also causes soreness. I can't use the Progasm because it is to aggressive and hurts more than it gives pleasure. I get the best ride from the MGX.  The best messager to use depends on one's physical build.

I just purchased the wand this week, and I'm quite impressed. It touchs a part of my prostate that the aneros doesn't, and seems to have hit a switch. When I put my pro jr in after playing with the wand, the new just turned on part added so much more to my normal contractions. The sensations felt more complete and orgasmic. Had the start of my best session ever last night, unfortunetly I had a mini emergency in my house so I had to stop. I'm a little sore now so I have to wait a day to to indulge myself again. Can hardly wait.The wand may have been the missing link. I think used properly, I beleive aneros and njoy can really compliment each other.

Unless you are very tall or very short, it is unlikely that the aneros models don’t hit your prostate properly. More likely is that you haven’t awakened your mind-prostate connection, and thus need more pressure to feel physical stimulation your prostate. However, in order to awaken that mind-prostate connection you need a tool that places less pressure, not more. You need to learn how to amplify sensations through focus and arousal, which means the sensations must be subtle. With a wand, you may only learn how to feel the pressure. Pressure is good once one understands amplification of sensations, but until then it is a distraction, bound to lead to frustration for those seeking orgasmic prostate pleasure. Maybe I’m wrong though, however know that there is an inherent danger with wands of putting too much pressure on your prostate and damaging the nerves. Never put more pressure on your gland than you would on your eyeball!

One trick I've learned is to put a tissue folded twice under the front tab. This increases pressure on the prostate, somewhat.

Another switch is to reverse the Aneros device, i.e. front tab goes to the back. This gives a whole new realm of sensations.

Posted by: @bill-bately

Another switch is to reverse the Aneros device, i.e. front tab goes to the back. This gives a whole new realm of sensations.

Yup! I've done this a few times and it is fun.

@divine_oThanks for the advice, the wand is quite the weapon. I could see how someone could really hurt themselves. How ever it does hit places the aneros doesnt, and for me the places it has touched,can now be enhanced mentally in my aneros sessions. So far I don't feel any desensitization, quite the opposite, it feels like it opened a new quadrant, and enhanced my over all pleasure by at least 20%.

It’s more likely your mind that’s not putting enough pressure on your prostate. The old saying around these parts ‘paradigm shift in thinking’ is what the journey is all about. For most people,jumping from toy to toy,thinking the toy doesn’t cut it but the next one will,looking for more aggressive stimulation equates to chasing the dragon and will in most cases be counter productive.

We don’t level up until we shift our minds eye. They toy didn’t work for me at the start,I blamed the toy. I figured out A-Less,later going back to the toys,they work now,go figure! Each new stage of the journey I had to get the mental side right. I had to learn how to orgasm from A-less and toys. Learn how to get hard while being pegged,orgasm from being pegged and having no control,learn how to orgasm in a chastity cage not being able to achieve erection. It’s all a learning curve. Be careful with wanting to punch the prostate in the face,you could injure yourself. More aggressive stim will desensitise it faster and there will be less fun. The wand like any other toy will only work if the belief is there. If that wasn’t the case,no one would ever struggle as they’d only need to buy a njoy to be guaranteed their super o dream realised.

Good luck.

@bill-bately I agree with that. I have some of my the best sessions with my MGX inserted as you have described. It results in focus of the stimulaton being shifted from my prostate to my anus and sphincter. The prostate and perineum stimulation is more subtle when the MGX is used in that manner.

Posted by: @helghast

It’s more likely your mind that’s not putting enough pressure on your prostate. The old saying around these parts ‘paradigm shift in thinking’ is what the journey is all about. For most people,jumping from toy to toy,thinking the toy doesn’t cut it but the next one will,looking for more aggressive stimulation equates to chasing the dragon and will in most cases be counter productive.

We don’t level up until we shift our minds eye. They toy didn’t work for me at the start,I blamed the toy. I figured out A-Less,later going back to the toys,they work now,go figure! Each new stage of the journey I had to get the mental side right. I had to learn how to orgasm from A-less and toys. Learn how to get hard while being pegged,orgasm from being pegged and having no control,learn how to orgasm in a chastity cage not being able to achieve erection. It’s all a learning curve. Be careful with wanting to punch the prostate in the face,you could injure yourself. More aggressive stim will desensitise it faster and there will be less fun. The wand like any other toy will only work if the belief is there. If that wasn’t the case,no one would ever struggle as they’d only need to buy a njoy to be guaranteed their super o dream realised.

Good luck.

 Whoa! there sherriff. You make alot of assumptions here. You assume I'm not mentally putting enough pressure on my prostate, Wrong, now that the wand has touched this part of my prostate, I'm able to manipulate and mentally enhance the pleasure because I am now aware its there, and 1 less thing aneros had to do.Its like my aless has been transfigured. The sensations are more complete. I love the pace I am going, super o's no longer hold any meaning for me. And if you read around "these parts" Like you, probably  85% of the people have a drawer full of toys. I jump from toy to toy and they all give me pleasure, thats why like lots of guys here, I own 5 aneros models. I like em all, but there not the be all end all in my journey. This morning I started with the peredise, swithed to the Jr., the contractions from al 3 muscle groups were incredible, then I used the wand for a few minutes. Pulled it out and this is what it felt like. My prostate felt like a big donut and someone was sliding a big fat cock through the center of it, except it was to fat and they had to push harder to make it pop through, with every breath I took it felt like something going  or popping in and out of me, I got fucked by this imaginary cock off and on for I'm  not sure how long.Hands down one of the best sexual experience of my life. Physically and mentally. Doesn't fit into a neat box but it works for me.

@tbob: the wand is 100 times better.

Totally agree with most of the comments! Mind focus on the prostate/anus is key to enjoying the pleasure that awaits! Focusing on each subtle twinge and spasm is key to advancing for me! Each and every toy can produce results on a given day. It’s knowing what works for you and learning to let it take you on a pleasurable journey over time! It took me a long time to learn to totally relax and focus along with trying many different toys but feel I can now enjoy any of them with good results every time!