Pre Session Routine

@philliephan : Your description of your "prep" shows me that you were/are "up" for a good session, and I think that helps. I have been anerosing for over 5 years and still have yet to be able to consistently "induce" a good session. I have occasionally inserted a smaller device, like Helix or Eupho and gone about my daily routine at home, hoping that it would "prime" me, but I have been disappointed with that. I rarely look at anything visual and have never liked audio tracks with heavy breathing or suggestive whispering. Chatting with others has often been a way for me to "get in the mood", though. Because I do nearly all my riding overnight, after I have awakened from an hour or two of sleep, I have found that if I do wake up Aneros "horny", I will feel something within a minute of inserting and, barring my falling back asleep, the 60-90 min sessions can be good to amazing. btw: i'm originally from the western suburbs of Philly.

Took some time off from Aneros for several weeks. Early this morning had a great Aless session which starts with nipple play and Kegels. Usually do the same when using Aneros after a quick cleanse with an enema bulb, then use a Peridise or EuphoTrident with prelube of Astroglide. Usually gets the whole anal canal and prostate buzzing in short order followed by lots of Pwaves and dry Os! Early morning is always great either wave as
am totally relaxed!

@fred27 : Your description of using Kegels and nipple play is spot on. I would add: A long, slow and complete exhale. Not forceful, but just all the way out. When I do that, I can sometimes feel the effects immediately, though I haven't gotten consistent results.

My preparations are like a religious ritual. I often work at home and have the place to myself Monday and Thursday mornings. I first go to the gym and do a spinning class. Then I come home and flush out my butt (ablutions), take a long hot shower, put the towel on the bed (preparing the altar?), insert some lube in my butt, and plop in the Helix. I then relax naked on my bed for about 30 minutes trying to contain the involuntaries until I am fully relaxed. I do some deep breathing, used my fertile imagination (dirty mind) to become aroused, play with my nipples, and let it take its course. Ninety percent of the time I'm in ecstasy within a few minutes. This works for me but from what I've read in the forum, every man's preparation and journey are quite different.

I work to eroticize my anus first and foremost. The sexier I can make it feel, the more successful my sessions are. How do I do this?

First I lube my anus and canal up with a finger. I know, the risks of making contact with something unwanted!!!! But at this point in my life, and really all our lives, I'm more concerned after being around snotty nosed sick kids than I am what's up my own ass! But I like the absolute knowledge gained from knowing what's going on with my anus and canal. I can feel if there are any spots that are irritated that I was unaware of. If so, I abandon the session.

So first a lube-up. Then, enema bulb flush out. The tiny amount of lube I use to prepare for the enema bulb (at first I didn't think I needed to use lube to insert the tip of the bulb...boy was I wrong after feeling it go in dry ouch!!) when mixed with the bulb's water after the flush out really, really lubes me up like crazy.

Then, I finger my ass again and make sure everything is perfect. When I know it is, I then finger my ass really gently while squatting on the floor. I can reach my prostate very easily and I apply varying pressure on it to make my cock twitch a bit and spark involuntaries, which squeeze my finger and I play with the push and pull action going on from my sphincters.

I then add more lube and keep working my finger in and out. I imagine that what I'm doing is like a woman finger fucking herself: its slippery and wet, warm, and silky feeling. The muscles and tissue move and contract and its quite hot to feel!

After just like 1 or 2 minutes of this (no need to spend time on this stage, the desired effect is instant and quick) my anus and canal are extremely primed and ready for a toy; "hungry" for it. As I get my toys together I think about insertion and it makes my ass clench and my prostate pulse and I'll have mini convulsions while standing at the sink, the Aless is strong during this time, it's wild!

But I think the hallmark of my sessions is how I maintain the toys during my playtime. I got some average powerade 20oz bottle with quite strong plastic walls and cut the tapered top off, I did this a few years ago. I then put the Aneros toys for my session in the bottle with the Ptab arms hanging over the edge so they are suspended. I fill the bottle with hot water just up to the tapered parts of the toys where the body meets the Ptab arm. This thoroughly warms the toys. I'll wait a minute or two for the water to cool a bit (heat transfers into the toys fast) and then refill with hotter water. As I use the first 2 or 3 Aneros, the water level drops and I can put my glass dildo/s in the bottle and/or other Aneros toys to get them warmed up as my session continues.

I've found this to be a revolution to my sessions. The toys are just about body temp the whole time, which makes for amazing rides. Plus, since I use Astroglide gel exclusively (shea and coconut don't work at all for me) I go straight from the water bottle to my ass, and the water on the toy super-lubes my canal and its even wetter and more amazing than the previous toy! It's an amazing win-win-win situation that I highly encourage everyone to try!

That's my standard pregame fare. I never insert a toy prior to a session because to me, the toys are used for sessions. I tried that years ago and all it did was make my session feel like an extension of my pregame, which wasn't all that great. I find that working on eroticizing my ass has been the breakthrough I needed to achieve real prostate orgasms and super Os. It's such a wonderful sexy feeling!