Potential pegging? I hope so!

Posted by: @reddog152

I've been reading the giant topic on pegging in the couples corner and I've seen that some have problems with it staying in the giver. Might just have to spring for a good harness and dildo if she's game.

I'd advise you to contact Ruby Ryder through her Pegging Paradise website for some suggestions regarding quality harnesses for Feeldoe use. She's the expert when it comes to pegging, you won't go wrong listening to her advice. If I recall correctly, I think she once recommended the SpareParts 'Joque' harness.

Good Vibes to You!

Posted by: @reddog152

My wife has on occasion mentioned her desire to be taken analy but I've always been hesitant to try it.

Why would you hesitate?

Posted by: @reddog152

Might just have to spring for a good harness and dildo if she's game. That would be a good shopping adventure!

I would advise a proper strap and dildo before getting to joint toys. It can be difficult to get them working smoothly. She could use a clit vibrator or even a hands free dildo for her own pleasure.

Posted by: @helghast

Posted by: @reddog152

My wife has on occasion mentioned her desire to be taken analy but I've always been hesitant to try it.

Why would you hesitate?

Posted by: @reddog152

Might just have to spring for a good harness and dildo if she's game. That would be a good shopping adventure!

I would advise a proper strap and dildo before getting to joint toys. It can be difficult to get them working smoothly. She could use a clit vibrator or even a hands free dildo for her own pleasure.

Not really sure why I was hesitant. I've since discovered that she has a small chrome butt plug so she is obviously quite interested in anal play. I'm probably just dumb for not diving in so to speak. 

I'll definitely take the advice regarding a traditional toy and harness and will keep the Feeldoe for solo and I now have a fantasy of having the pony end in my ass and using it to DP her.

Posted by: @reddog152

I've since discovered that she has a small chrome butt plug so she is obviously quite interested in anal play.

If she has an anal toy you didn’t even know about,that’s all the green light you need. Maybe she could start by wearing the plug during intercourse? Sounds to me like she wants taken anally as much as you!

Dont overthink things,just get on and talk to your wife. If you’ve a good relationship,there shouldn’t be an issues making your fantasies into realities. All anyone can do if they don’t want to try something is say no. You’ve nothing to lose in my opinion.

I wonder how many people go without things they desire because they are simply afraid to ask their partner. When all along,the partner may be wishing for similar things!

As @helghast said, communication is the key to a sexually sound relationship.  And not just one time, but regular communication.  I would bring everything up. If she isn’t comfortable with things, she will tell you, but there is a good chance she will love the idea of penetrating you, or at least being with you while you have a toy in.

I would say take her up on her anal offer, if you are comfortable with it. If so, again, communication is very important. You have to choose the right lube, have a clit stimulating toy ready in case she wants it (it’s a killer combo), and be very communicative during the entire act. Have her warm up with her plug and possibly your fingers (though fingers can hurt for some people, because they are hard and have nails).  Enter her very slowly, and then slower still, with tons of lube, directing her to relax her sphincters. Once in, don’t move if you can manage it. Then, when she says it’s ok, go back and forth very slowly until she says you can speed up, if she says so. She should feel comfortable saying it’s time to slow down or stop. This all applies to her fucking you as well.

Your double penetration fantasy sounds very doable, seeing as your wife is into the idea of anal penetration. But I recommend that you both get used to simple anal sex, as there is a learning curve for doing it comfortably.

Thanks all for the great advice! I've introduced her to the Aneros in a previous encounter. My next step is that I want to lay out all my toys and ask her to pick one and ask if she wants to insert it for me. Test the boundaries a bit! I wonder if she'll pick something small like the Eupho or go all in with the Progasm?! Hopefully exciting times ahead.

Got the Feeldoe slim today and all I can say is WOW! My anus took to the pony end like a duck to water. I can't wait to have my wife walk into the room to the sight of me with two cocks. Best part today though was inserting my Progasm afterwards and getting the best P-waves I've ever had. This dong got me turned on!

Warning, graphic photo.

I am curious to how double penetration works with this position and resulting length of your “second penis.”

I have only double penetrated with my flanged silicone dildo, doggy style with my cock in her pussy and the dildo in her ass, holding the dildo base against my mons verneris so that it goes in and out with me (and occasionally with an aneros you inside me).  Other positions make it impossible to use the dildo in this manner. Your set up may allow for missionary or cowgirl, or may be too awkwardly angled/not long enough dildo... have you seen pornos with this or read about it? I just looked up pornos for it and found nothin.

Posted by: @reddog152

I can't wait to have my wife walk into the room to the sight of me with two cocks.

Do it!!! 😉

Posted by: @divine_o

I am curious to how double penetration works with this position and resulting length of your “second penis.”

I have only double penetrated with my flanged silicone dildo, doggy style with my cock in her pussy and the dildo in her ass, holding the dildo base against my mons verneris so that it goes in and out with me (and occasionally with an aneros you inside me).  Other positions make it impossible to use the dildo in this manner. Your set up may allow for missionary or cowgirl, or may be too awkwardly angled/not long enough dildo... have you seen pornos with this or read about it? I just looked up pornos for it and found nothin.

I haven't seen porno with this setup but when I'm standing or horizontal face down the two are similar enough in length to at least be effective to an extent I think. I'll definitely report back with the results. Damn does that pony end feel good! I also took the horse end in all the way as practice for receiving. I had a rather painful peristaltic reaction to it at first until I really relaxed into it. 

Posted by: @helghast

Posted by: @reddog152

I can't wait to have my wife walk into the room to the sight of me with two cocks.

Do it!!! 😉

I hope to tonight or tomorrow! Hopefully she reacts to it as favorably as I think she will. I plan to talk it up a bit before hand.

Here's another image in a different position showing the lengths. I think it will work if I take her analy with my real penis from behind. It'll be fun at least trying it out.

@reddog152

Definitely worth a try!

Again I think regular boring ol’ anal sex is probably a good first step, but that’s just my opinion.

i meant length with respect to angle too. In my experience double penetretion is with two parallèl dicks (or equivalent) with not more that a 4-5 centimeters between them. The anus is very close to the vaginal opening, and once inside both holes, there’s not much room for anything but parallel.

Well, I'm no longer an ass virgin in the sense of something being wielded by someone else! I introduced the wife to the Feeldoe. She initially balked at the idea just a little bit, she was concerned that it seemed a little "bisexual." I told her that I have no interest in men. We left the toy alone for a bit and started with traditional sex. A few minutes later she asked if I wanted to give it a try! "Why yes ma'am, I would!" Haha. I told her of the tendency of the pony end to slip out so she held it inside her with her hand. I mounted cowgirl style and let it sink in. She started thrusting from underneath which really surprised me a bit since she took to it quite easily. I was grunting with each thrust, unusual for me since I'm not too vocal normally. We continued for a while and then slid off. She then used the pony end on herself with two of my fingers inside her for extra measure. She really liked that! We finished traditionally with a mind blowing ejaculation, probably one of the most intense I've ever had. I now have this feeling like I had a full body massage, very glowy and content. I'm hoping that she warms up to it and surprises me with a traditional strap on. We shall see. 

@reddog152 Now your making some progress!! In all honestly,talk to your wife about exploring anal play,don’t sit on your hands hoping she’ll come up with this stuff by herself. Tell her what you want. 

Couldn’t agree with @helghast more. Tell her what you want. Come prepared with resources such as the Ruby Ryder podcast that Rumel recommended in a recent post (helghasts femdom thread, I think). Ask her what she is interested in and be open to things she wants as well. Of course everyone should be able to to hear and accept “no”... but without explicitly stating what you want in bed, there is little chance that your partner will guess it’s what you want. Even if you have mentioned that you were interested in it, there is a big difference between mentioning it and talking about it.

Talking about sex is sexy. It is a turn on. It is a part of sex itself. It provokes imagination and fantasy, as well as informs your partner of what you want. This is true in and out of the bedroom. It is fascinating, the things we can learn from talking. We find out that our partner actually wants sex to slow down, or finds our tongue to be too pointy during oral sex, or wants to be called a filthy slut, or isn’t really in the mood tonight but wants to be woken up in the morning by our kisses, or want more than anything to be tied up, and so on and so forth. We humans have a powerful tool of precise communication, and it turns out that it is totally compatible with sex!

Thanks fellas! I'll be explicit with her regarding my desire.