I might have several weeks of pleasure while using an aneros, then for no apparent reason, I'll get no (or far reduced) pleasure from it for a week or so, then it slowly returns.
Any idea what the cause of this is?
There were times I would give up on the whole rewire process. Sometimes I loved how it felt and others I felt almost nothing. My frustration only grew. I would keep working with it and read all I could to try and understand what I was doing right or wrong. For me I truly believe it was a process of connecting the dots from my prostate to my brain. Also, disconnecting the expectation of ejaculation as the sign you had an orgasm. It’s a completely different kind of orgasm that you can have over and over. I didn’t buy that early on either but when it happened and I figured out how it happened, I was completely addicted. There were times that I would take long breaks and that would make it feel so good. It’s like I had desensitized my prostate. I can’t go without for less than twice a week now.
I will also add for me that early on I did not ever play with my nipples but after reading so many guys talk about how wonderful it was that I gave in and tried it. 😮 I wish I would’ve started that sooner. That was the game changer for me. I was able to ejaculate without a device and no penile stimulation. I had to limit how much stimulation I did to my nipples and practice letting my body have control instead of me treating it as if I were jacking off. You know, the faster I go, the harder I will cum. I hope this helps and don’t give up. It is a journey and it seems as though I’m still learning and experiencing new things as I go.
@fred27 you just described my morning ritual. I usually spend 15 minutes on the couch after I get up with an Aless session. I admitted I’m addicted.
A year ago I would have said “there is no way this is possible.” I’m grateful I am able to experience such a mind blowing orgasm from such a simple thing. I really respect your input and posts. I look forward to many years of Aneros/Aless experiences to cum!! Pun intended!😁
@fred27 Hi guys. Can you please tell me if my anus is pushed out during orgasm with Aless? Is it a pleasant sensation?
@val73 the anus will definitely pulse during an orgasm and will give you a pleasure beyond your imagination! Enjoy!