penis head pleasures

Guaranteed, Darwin?

I have tried this before with some success. I have had some great non-e O's but have also had some disappointing orgasms which I think is from not relaxing enough.

the more the pleasure rises, the more you have to relax, which is opposite of usual penis masturbation.

it is a way to rediscover your weenie after all those aneros-inspired years of neglect.

I've attempted this several times. But any time I start to mess around with the urge to pee feeling, I get the urge to push, and it eventually comes out as actual piss (and it is a piss-flow, rather than being ejaculated out, so I'm sure I'm not getting the desired result). The only squirting I get is when I urgently cut off the flow to stop myself getting too wet. The first dribble is a clear slippy substance, like a more watery pre-cum, but after that it's all just urine.

Investing that 20 minutes or half hour of friction only to end up soaked in urine is why I don't attempt it often. It's nice for some near-orgasm feelings, and I can relax through some good pleasure, but I have no idea how squirting is supposed to work, since my needing to pee feeling only takes me down one road.

Does this rely on the bladder being full? Should I just go to the toilet and empty it out, then come back and continue? I'm not sure if this urge to pee feeling is supposed to be actual or phantom.

I don't see this as possible alone, cock head is way to sensitive to continue doing this.

here's a whole compilation I found of it being done tho, a lot of japanese so a lot of sensors but still hot http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=235430897

I've used Tenga eggs to rub just the head of my cock, with a sort of five-finger pinching motion to squish it in and out. Perhaps that would be a useful tool to try this with.

I've tried this before, but I'm so sensitive I would need to be restrained and someone else would have to be doing it.

I might give another shot though just for the hell of it. It would be awesome to squirt like that. Well, until I have to clean the walls and windows from the squirts going everywhere. 🙂

Great tips Darwin. I love it when my wife just rubs my head. Such a tease.
I have a different method but it still targets the head.
I enjoy laying down on my belly side (with a towel and cushions but flat as possible) and placing my flaccid member pointed towards my belly button with my hood completely covering my gland (lubed or dry). Carefully positioning my flaccid member in between the pubic bone area and the ground I will then apply more pressure on only the top of my covered head and carefully rotate my entire waistline in circular motions. Kinda' like sandwiching my member between my pubic bone/lower belly and the cushion. The head acts as the pivot point.

Here you want to focus all of your careful, slow movements into that point; rotating only on that point. It's not a race so the whole practice is to take it very slow so you don't hurt yourself. You also never place all your weight on that point, just pressure. How much? Blood still needs to flow evenly through your cock. You don't want to pinch your foreskin or your gland. You should not be bleeding. It should be comfortable.

As my dick gets harder I will back off until flaccid again and repeat because trying that with a hard cock will hurt. No hands push ups is another tutorial I can get into at another time.

Eventually you can build up a stupid ungodly urge but refrain for as long as you can. Even if you do cum it feels very different than the usual self-releasing handshake. The effect is more engrossing, larger than just penis shaking. It builds much like a regular O but very subtle. Again, not a race. See how long you can go.

This is my favorite technique to edge with because you're aroused, no hands used and very little energy used. Couple this with your prostate massager and you wont leave for a long time. Even if you cum try to repeat it. I can do this for as long as I like so hopefully you brought enough towels.

This can also be used with a condom filled with lube. Just make sure the jimmy is a little tighter so it doesn't fall off.

What you have described Darwin, is exactly the method I used all-those-years back, during my very first day of masturbation. My day of awakening when it quickly dawn on me that it was used for more than just peeing out of. My accidental curiosity, my fear of the unknown, my irresistible pleasure conflicting with staunch religious teachings all came into play as I resisted the urge to STOP. I didn't realize at the time that all my stopping-and-starting was contributing to one magnificent boyhood discovery. For weeks following that first day, I was able to reproduce the same wondrous sensations, but then it waned, dropped down a few notches and the intensity was more groin-centered as opposed to sensations spreading up and down my spine. I guess back then, when some of us did it three-to-four times a day, masturbation techniques were varied and to save time, a quick pull and tug sufficed to get-off. But I know exactly what you speak of and you've given me reason to go back in time and recreate those splendid feelings. Today, I have more time and quickies are no longer necessary. Having mastered Aneros, a stroll down memory lane with just me and Prince Valiant should be quite the stroll and one I look forward to.

Thanks for the reminder,
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Like most other baby boomers here in the USA, I was circumcised as a neonatal in late March 1949. So was my late father in early March 1914.

At age five, I discovered that my glans penis is a treasure trove of erotic, sensual pleasures. But it was only when I had to purchase my first jockstrap for 7th grade PE that my entire sexual apparatus as enshrined in my scrotum, penis, and glans is indeed a dynamo of surpassing pleasure! I purchased my jockstrap at our town drugstore and rushed home to try it on for the very first time in the privacy of my bedroom. Wow, I had a rockhard, pulsating erection in my jock pouch, and it seemed that my poroknit pouch was massaging my swollen glans which was oozing globs of precum. That one experience was a sexual awakening for me! In the weeks following, I recreated those feelings as I stimulated my cockshaft and cockhead. Very soon afterward, I settled upon the masturbatory grip. Six months later, I experienced my very first orgasm and ejaculation of semen!

Over the years, when I read up on the prostate, I realized that my glans and prostate were connected intimately. But really it was only after that began using the Aneros that there is indeed POWER down there but that this power pervades my entire bodily consciousness!

Tried this today, even in spite of full relaxation, no urge to pee and no orgasm, or even near orgasmic feelings. Did not work.

Something similar gave me my 'different' orgasm. One that was like a wave, slow rolling but unmistakenly powerful and when done my prostate kept pumping and quivering for the next minute while my head and face felt energy buzz. I felt that I was also exhaling this buzz energy which was similar to the whacking your funny bone but not irritating.

I have to try your method, it looks very interesting. I see the similarity. The keys to my experience were: drawn out stimulation, enough to build energy and desire but not push over to ejaculate (an hour), and then instead of hammering your dick to come , increasing stimulation only enough to slide into the orgasm slowly, relaxing the pelvis and letting it happen but relaxing where needed instead of pumping and thrusting and all the regular jack off actions.

I'll be trying this alone, and also at the top peak of aneros session. Should be fun

When I have tried this, it works maybe 1/4th of the time.

I have experienced the best results after several Dry O's.

The last time was the best and was wet and wild. Awesome feeling like none other. Have a towel handy.

in this thread https://community.aneros.com/forum/discussion/11183/off-topic-male-version-of-female-ejaculation-squirting#Item_322

i described my adventures with my heretofore under-appreciated cock head.

i
wanted to start a new thread about it, because it is so awesome, and
was such a revelation, providing way more than i thought my wiener was
up to..

in sum:
- hold shaft with your usual masturbation hand, gently with no stimulation
- lube the palm and fingers of your other hand
- use your palm or finger tips to massage your head only. head only, got it?
- it will be very sensitive.
- you need to really really really relax down there, and fight the urge to contract.
- if you do the relaxation right, you'll start to feel a rising sense of needing to pee
- relax into that!! let the squirt happen. relax!! let it happen! let it happen!

- if you do, whether you squirt or not, you'll have an intense pulsing
non-ejaculatory orgasm that is out of this world, and you'll want more
and more.

darwin

@darwin, thanks a lot for that post. Since I more or less managed to master this technique I want to add a few points:

Avoid the frenulum:
the
part where the foreskin is attached with the glans is the most
sensitive part of the penis. It's hotwired with your inner sexual organs
(prostate, seminal vesicles...) and you will fall back into
ejaculation-auto-pilot if your touching includes this area. You can
actual feel if you are building lift on the ejaculative track: near the
point-of-no-return (PONR) there is lots of fluid movement around your
prostate and seminal vesicles. When you edge and don't go over the PONR
you usually feel these fluids moving back as you calm down. If you
encounter this, you have been unconsciously tensing up the prostate area
(and therefore done it wrong).

sweep vs. drag:
I
usually don't sweep over the skin but tuck my fingertip over the urethra
and rather drag the penis-tip around in circle motions. This way there
is no oversensitive nerve response, but still a lot of input. You also
don't need to lube up with this approach.

Peaking:
Patricia Taylor coined the term of peaking in her book "Expanded Orgasms" that works very well with the palm-head-technique described here.
It means to build up a steady rythm (e.g. a set of 8 strokes - pause -
repeat) and then interrupt it occasionally respectively, leaving out one
stroke of the set (7 strokes - leaving out=peak - pause - repeat).
Since your (eroticized) brain likes rythm and steadiness, yet also likes
change and new stimulus, this technique potentially triggers a
noticeable lift. As your arousal level rises, you can throw in the
peaking-stroke more often (e.g. 5 strokes - peak - pause - repeat).

Rewiring still needed:
The
palm-head-technique is interesting because you bypass the whole anal
subject as well as the waking up the prostate issues. But still: you
have to learn your nervous system and how to rewire it. You know the
feeling in your belly when you are about to fall? In a rollercoaster or
on a swing? This butterly-in-your-stomach -like feeling? You try to
build up this nerval response with your caressing.

Like others, I've tried this a few times and. it's not really producing anything distinct.Am I not rubbing hard enough for instance? I lube up, and gently rub but there is no sensitive feedback unless there is little to no lubrication. When I do rub the base of the head without lube, I can feel my PC muscles twitch, if that means anything.

Or is this similar to prostate orgasms where my mind has to focus in on developing sensations through continuous practice? (Unlike nipple stim where it carries itself through)

I have the same scenario as @Clenchy, wherein continuous nipple stim causes me to do a hard reverse-keegle, which can inadvertently cause me to squirt some urine. (Or precum, either of)

I think this thread should be relabeled: "Penis head pleasures and treasures."

Also I like the expression "penis head" by even more GLANS. I learned to masturbate dry. Even though I am circumcised, I have never needed lube for the pleasures of masturbation. I just revel in the treasure trove of pleasure contained in my glans, the various textures of pleasure found in the various parts of my glans. Likewise in my cock and scrotum as well.

Of course, the Aneros has opened for me the pleasure found in my prostate, anal tract and musculature, and my perineum. The Aneros has also unlocked the pleasures of my various erogenous zones as well as my nipples, navel, chest, abs, and thighs which are all hairy. Outside of my Aneros sessions, all I have to do is touch ever so lightly all this areas and I land in Aless. Likewise I can likewise stimulate my glans. Finally now because of the Aneros there is such connection in my body and yes, even my breathing can set me off!

I tried the 4 finger technique soaking in the tub a few hours after a very pleasurable Helix Syn session...it took about 20 minutes of head stimulation...TOTAL pelvic relaxation as best I could and the feeling of needing to pee arrived followed by a 15 or so seconds of dribbling discharge of clear warm fluid and a warm sweet pleasurable sensation. Very nice sensation! For me the relaxation in the tub made it possible. I could tell it was going to work as my heart rate escalated and stayed elevated until I squirted.

@Jaxsun, a couple years ago you commented on this thread with your experiences and Id love to pick your brain a bit more on it. I have been trying to reach a squirt for a couple months now with a fairly good level of progress I think.

When I first read about it and saw some videos I tried the whole rubbing just your cock head very fast both before and after youve cum.. I never really had much success with this method. Where I really made progress was by rubbing my cock head with light to moderate pressure with a lot of relaxing of all my abdominal muscles. Also a lot of mental focus during the session on fluid pressure and buildup in my abdomen, specifically right around where the base of my cock and stomach meet. And again a lot of focus on the urge to pee feeling.. During my recent sessions I feel tremendous pressure and my cock gets very hard with occasional pulsing that seems to feel like its originating in my prostate. All these sensations feel very good but its like I cant quite crest over to being able to squirt.

Given that you commented about this over 2 years ago have you made any more progress? Any extra tips that you have would be awesome.. Usually during my sessions if I feel like Im getting close not only do I relax my pelvic floor (reverse kegel) but as the pee sensations build I kinda do the push that you do when you try to pee harder.. Do you think that this push (and thus muscles arent being relaxed?) is the problem?

Ok, so I have been looking into this for a while....I’ve read methods of trying to achieve squirting both prior or after traditional orgasm. I experimented with both and have found the answer, for me at least...is to do it prior as explained above. I’ve been working on this for about a month and the key to success is similar to aneros successful techniques.....the biggest is relaxing.

After several failed attemps, I found that edging is a key for me, I bring myself to almost no return at least 3 or 4 times....alll while relaxing and breathing with good rhythm. The technique I use is holding my penis shaft in right hand and I wet my finger tips with saliva on my other hand. I quickly stroke just the tip of my penis head using a claw like technique with index , forefinger and thumb. All the while , do not stop the stroking , or in this case pulling the penis head upwards with my fingers. I begin to start having feelings of a very full sensation in my lower belly and shaft base....it almost makes my pc muscles tense, but I just keep relaxing into the sensations. The hornier you are the better to keep those sensations growing. After a few minutes you begin that need to pee feeeling, just relax past it and focus on the penis head. Well, yesterday it went to the extreme and that feeling of having to pee turned into a sensation I have never felt before....I felt the gush coming from my lower stomach and abodomen....just relaxed everything and let it happen....didnt push or contract anything.....and it starting just shooting out like a fire hose. It’s a very euphoric feeling, and after the initial burst, I just kept going and more just kept coming out.

As as I lay there exhausted after, I am covered , and it is a very clear liquid....no smell at all, and almost viscus.....it’s very strange....thinking I may have just peed all over myself, but it wasn’t ......kind of hard to describe. I had just uirinted before doing it, and my bladder felt empty beforehand......so where all this fluid came from, I don’t know. I’ve seen some of the vids and my experience is similar......all I know is I was so shocked, I tried it again today, and same thing......definitely something that is fun, and messy....have plenty of towels underneath you.

I've done something simlilar but it was immediatly after a traditional orgasm. Very vigourisly had to stimulate my head directly after orgasm/ejaculation and I had the spurting thing with pleasurable sensations.

I tried this way to masturbate yesterday. Wasn’t successful getting a squirting to happen but I had one of the longest and most pleasurable ejaculatory orgasms of my entire life. And 2 other orgasms where my penis was pulsing so strongly and rhythmically while I was stroking the head (didn’t ejaculate ).

So so all was not lost. But I just couldn’t figure out how to shoot out a clear liquid. Was trying to relax and not contract.

My story is the same but different. I typically launch my a less sessions in my wifes derriere while she is either asleep or awake. Either way after I am floating in chains of deeply euphoric non ejac orgasms I pull away from her and lay on my back. I then put my finger in my frenular cleft or sulcus and press gently alternating with tiny very slow circles. Then I tweak and flick my left nipple which tends to be more sensitive than the right one. Precum and prostatic fluid flows in a stream lubing my cleft and adding to the depth and intensity of the orgasms. I will go for an hour non stop ..... oozing all over my belly. It is even better when my wife does the nipple work ... she adds sucking my nipple which inflames the O even more.

This is a great thread I’ve never thought of trying to get past the urge to piss. Could anyone post links to a video example of what we should be trying to achieve? The Japanese one posted earlier has been taken down 🙁

I can roughly massage my perinum for like 20 to 30 minutes to produces these 'pee orgasm' like experiances you all are talking about. Its very strange amd pretty pleasurable but not worth the ache or effort it takes. Pressure just build a builds diwn there untill I start spurting clearish liquid that steadily becomes more like pee. I have no controll to stop it really and my cock throbs everytime. Strange experiance.

@tatornator and any others that can provide advise, I have been trying to cause these squirting pee orgasms for a few months now. Things have changed for me since I first started, before when I first tried to do this when I started to get those pee feeling I could feel my body start to get very 'excited', my heart would race quite quickly and very strong.. felt like it would beat out of my chest and would usually have quite strong sensation of the need to pee. Mostly those sensations are gone now when I do my routine, I still get some need to pee feelings and if I really concentrate on them they build a bit more.. I do however get intense feeling of pressure building up in the area just above where my cock meets my stomach, lots of pressure and seems like my lower abs will flex involuntarily quite strong as well. But no real strong beating of my heart like before or intense pee feelings.. dont get me wrong the sensations do all feel very nice but Im wondering if Im doing something wrong..

Can anyone provide some additional advise? Am I not relaxing enough, or maybe Im trying to relax too much.. or is there something else? From what I understand once someones figures it out its like riding a bike and can much more easily be done next time. For those lucky ones who have figured this out maybe a brief description of what you did to work up to your first squirt would help. thanks in advance

I'm sure everyone is different in this regard, but I find when I'm "in the zone" so to speak, really arroused and already having multiple orgasms, that lightly touching my cock, nipples or chest can trigger more and more intense orgasms. Far from being a distraction, it adds fuel to the fire!

Great advice, and something I've experienced only once. But I'm sure there's more to cum! @darwin always has top notch advice!