Pegging vs Solo Dildoing

@musicmaker86 keep saying things like that and you wont be single for long...I think that is where so many people go wrong with anal. I think men would find if they ask women about their anal apprehension they would find lots of them are/were curious about it but had a jackass in their past try to ram his dick inside her causing pain and thus negative feelings towards anything anal. I think you are totally right in your thought process. Not to worry you'll get pegged someday and love it.

@musicmaker86 keep saying things like that and you wont be single for long...I think that is where so many people go wrong with anal. I think men would find if they ask women about their anal apprehension they would find lots of them are/were curious about it but had a jackass in their past try to ram his dick inside her causing pain and thus negative feelings towards anything anal. I think you are totally right in your thought process. Not to worry you'll get pegged someday and love it.

Haha, thanks @devajones - I look forward to it.

I have a question for those of you involved in pegging:

When you are being pegged, how intensely do you like to be penetrated (at the most)? Do you like being penetrated very vigorously and hard?

What about the penetration itself?
Do you like having it fully inserted, fully pulled out, then fully reinserted again?

I have a question for those of you involved in pegging:

When you are being pegged, how intensely do you like to be penetrated (at the most)? Do you like being penetrated very vigorously and hard?

What about the penetration itself?
Do you like having it fully inserted, fully pulled out, then fully reinserted again?

Interesting questions. My memory is somehow fuzzy about it, but I am pretty sure the point was not there. I mean : all of this can be ok, but the main source of pleasure is deeper and less identifiable.

Sometimes intensity would feel good for a moment then not at all. Maybe the penetration would be somehow more consistent in the taste for deep but I am not even sure.

The main thing is very much about the "she is moving inside me". Both a thought, a sensation and a kink. Like you can't tell the sensation from the thought. Which one induces the other. Like the sensation was actually an irrepressible thought, shaping for real in the depths of your guts. It is some taking over deep inside. Some kind of powerlessness you have partake in. Whatever you do can influence what you feel but you mostly want and do increase the take over, your powerless pleasure getting deeper and more intense. Not from the intensity of the action. From it following your mind and body's desires as they arise and transform.

Oh my god, I think I could summon orgasms just from the memory/imagination of it. LOL

@musicmaker86

I think every guy who wants to do anal with his woman should take a dildo to himself first and learn what it feels like. It has the potential to feel amazing but like many things it can take time to adjust to the new sensations. Once you learn what that's like, you'll be much more qualified to try it on her; provided she's ok with it too.

You're not the first male who discovered this thought process from their own anal adventure. I too and many others also realized this. I came to the understanding that in the past I was one of those males that was completely clueless about giving anal to my girlfriends. Live and learn.

I have a question for those of you involved in pegging:

When you are being pegged, how intensely do you like to be penetrated (at the most)? Do you like being penetrated very vigorously and hard?

What about the penetration itself?
Do you like having it fully inserted, fully pulled out, then fully reinserted again?

I can only answer your questions from the perspective of solo dildoing. Intensity varies, I like everything from very short quick thrusts, to very slow longer thrusts, to rather vigorous and fast and long strokes. It seems to depend on the day what works for me and what feels good.

In terms of penetration, just after insertion I like pushing it in as far as it will go. Then typically I've found that most thrusting does not seem to happen as deep probably using half to three quarters of the length of the dildo. But sometimes I like the really deep thrusts. Rarely do I like completely pulling it out and pushing it back in. The head on my dildo is a good deal wider than the shaft, and I have to be so very relaxed to enjoy that sensation, otherwise it is painful. Most of the time the dildo stays in me with the ridges of the head not coming out any further then bumping into my inner anal sphincter from the inside.

Very Cool. All great advice. Thanks!

One other question - how often would you say you partake in such activities? If you're single, how often do you use your dildo, if you're in a relationship - how often do you like to be pegged (or use a dildo also)?

Does it depend on your mood, or do you find that you need to give your anus a rest once in a while?

Get pegged 1-2 times a month. A lot of time fro prep to assure a clean pegging. Dildo on the shower wall 1-2 times weekly. Always take my time. Younger guys probably take a lot more, I know I did in college

@musicmaker86

I'm single. I use it a few times a month, some times more or less. It does depend on my mood and how aroused I am. But I also find that it helps with Aneros sessions so it encourages me to use it more.

For my husband it depends on his mood really. Sometimes he is really hungry for it and wants it multiple times that week, sometimes not at all for a couple of weeks. Same for me, so I'd just say listen to your body. If any pain give it a rest. Simple as pie.

I love getting pegged but sometimes all a lone I rely on one of my many dildos. I sometimes will be using my progasm and get so aroused I need something bigger. I get pegged regularly but haven't had anal sex in decades, nothing like my college and high school years. But when getting pegged I fantasize it's a friends big cock against my prostate

For my husband it depends on his mood really. Sometimes he is really hungry for it and wants it multiple times that week, sometimes not at all for a couple of weeks. Same for me, so I'd just say listen to your body. If any pain give it a rest. Simple as pie.

I find I'm like that as well. I'll have a brief stint where I'll want to use the Aneros or some device every night for a week or two. Then I'll go a week or two without wanting to at all. I had a pretty great session last night. Used multiple different toys and finally satiated my cravings. My butt is a little tender today, but its a good kind of sore feeling.