Orgasm with no pleasure (again)

Being able to move orgasm around is something I'm looking forward to. I can generate pleasurable feelings in various parts of the body, but nothing orgasmic yet.

Last night, I had a quick a-less session when I went to bed. It was the closest I've come to a super o recently. I was was able to generate some of the precursor feelings such as bobbing on waves, a light sense of auto fuck, and a huge rush into my addomen. However, I wasn't able to advance it past that so I finished up with a very satisfying wet o. Usually after a wet o, I'm just ready to fall asleep, but after this one I felt like I could have gone for another only about a minute after.

@xtimedt69 I can't understand half the stuff that happens either.

@orgazmo the super-O is a bit of a mystery. I had a weird thing last night as well a sort of whole body orgasm that felt like it could have turned into a super-O but it didn't, just wishful thinking, and frustrating, but it keeps us keen just waiting and hoping for that next one!

@smudgefish I've had those same feelings that a dry o felt like it could have turned into a super o, but it still hasn't. I'd imagine once we learn how to transition dry o's into super o's, we will become a lot more efficient at achieving super o's.

Efficiency ?

Something is weird here.

What are you talking about? Business or enjoyment?

I think he meant super o's would happen more frequently @Canacan

Yes, I meant more frequently and easily. Obviously, my sessions are for enjoyment. I just want to be able to achieve super o's more often and on a consistent basis.

That is the goal of us all and why some of us get depressed when we can't.

With such a goal, you get such a result.

It's like the issue with tension, where one is often very wrong about his relaxed state.

The vocabulary you use is the vocabulary of the engineer and the business man, it is goal and efficiency oriented. Enjoyment is something entirely opposite this. One has to make himself (or herself) available and accept his powerlessness. Not be in any hurry, under any pressure or with any expectations. One has to be free.

Maybe you think you are doing that. But all your writings make it obvious you don't. No wonder and no blame by the way, cause it is not easy (and made so much harder in some societies). This said, there is good news: it is just like tensions, you don't need to eliminate them, but mainly gain some awareness of them.

I know it can be unclear or misinterpreted. Please contemplate the possibility and take time for it to sink in. I hope it helps.

@Sorena_ I think you are doing fine. I have been very upset when I haven't got where I wanted with this, even to the point of tears in the past, it's a truly emotional thing or at least it can be.I will freely admit that it really got to me at one point and I think I have learnt a great deal about myself along the way. You are just the same as the rest of us, keep believing in yourself and stay happy.

I apologise, there is some miscommunication here. I was not including myself in those that do not achieve super o regularly as 'depressed' when unable to regularly achieve them. I get frustrated yes, I was however speaking of others.

@smudgefish I agree, totally. Some of us are more along than others, that's all.

@Sorena_ it's a bit of a muddly thread, however I hope no-one actually gets truly depressed about this.

I apologise, there is some miscommunication here. I was not including myself in those that do not achieve super o regularly as 'depressed' when unable to regularly achieve them. I get frustrated yes, I was however speaking of others.

I know. Sorry I didn't clarify I was talking to others (mostly @orgazmo and anybody feeling the same).

Anyway, I guess what I said might sometimes be true of just anybody. It's worth keeping. Let's not overestimate our accomplishments.

I never get truly upset or depressed over a session because I always have pleasure, and now I'm having long runs of dry orgasms every session. Eventhough it is still frustrating not being able to achieve the same height I did a few weeks ago, I'm still very happy with where I am right now.