Oral Sex

7382,

My wife and I have used the Aneros on many occasions in just this manner, and I'm sure you'll love it! First, you can use it right out of the box; no special technique required. Just slip it in with some lube and get going. Or better yet, have your wife insert it. I like lying on my back with knees bent, and I'll tell you, as soon as I see my wife coming with the lubricated Aneros I start getting an erection. After insertion, if you're new to anal play you may want to give yourself some time before trying any contractions. During this period have her work you with her hand, the penile sensations will tend to mellow out any discomfort. Try some gentle contractions and see how it goes. Have her shift to using her mouth and if you're not experiencing any discomfort from the Aneros, have at man; gentle, moderate, or strong contractions, whatever feels good. I like it when my wife is completely hands off while using her mouth. I normally tell her to use her hands to keep tension on my knees.. spreading them wide. Between that sensation of being spread open the insistent penetration of the Aneros and my wife's delightful oral skills,....it doesn't take long. Experiment..explore, and have fun!

B Mayfield

Originally Posted By: 7382
I just ordered the Aneros MGX and would like to use it with my girlfriend giving me oral sex. What position do you recommend? How should we appoach this? She is the best when it comes to oral sex and she is open to trying my new toy. I just want to make sure I am relaxed and positioned in a way that she could provide me oral sex at the same time. Has anyone tried this and is it amazing? I appreciate the support and look forward to my new experiences once I recieve my MGX. Thanks!

After using and following all the instructions to the letter for a total of 6 hours, I found that no only could I not achieve an erection with it, but even with my wife performing oral sex I could not become firm enough for intercourse.
Don't get me wrong, there is no discomfort with the Aneros, but I have not felt any sensations. Maybe you need to have an erection before insertion.

Originally Posted By: B Mayfield
7382,

My wife and I have used the Aneros on many occasions in just this manner, and I'm sure you'll love it! First, you can use it right out of the box; no special technique required. Just slip it in with some lube and get going. Or better yet, have your wife insert it. I like lying on my back with knees bent, and I'll tell you, as soon as I see my wife coming with the lubricated Aneros I start getting an erection. After insertion, if you're new to anal play you may want to give yourself some time before trying any contractions. During this period have her work you with her hand, the penile sensations will tend to mellow out any discomfort. Try some gentle contractions and see how it goes. Have her shift to using her mouth and if you're not experiencing any discomfort from the Aneros, have at man; gentle, moderate, or strong contractions, whatever feels good. I like it when my wife is completely hands off while using her mouth. I normally tell her to use her hands to keep tension on my knees.. spreading them wide. Between that sensation of being spread open the insistent penetration of the Aneros and my wife's delightful oral skills,....it doesn't take long. Experiment..explore, and have fun!

B Mayfield

Thank you B Mayfield - I can't wait to try it! I really appreciate you taking the time to let me know where to start. I am totally new to anal play but am excited to try. I should be getting my toy this week. When your wife makes you cum orally with the Aneros inside you - do you cum harder than a regular orgasm? Does it feel amazing and do you cum lots more? Thanks again for your help!

How can I be a part of this that will allow us BOTH to enjoy this toy. This seems like a one-man-band kind of thing. Talk about intimidation. He used it for the first time last night (very erotic) however, I became uptight. Partly because he was so into following the instructions to at T that I felt I couldn't participate for fear of distracting him!! Now that he has had his first experience with it, I want to enhance that with me in the picture...

Betty,

As always it's so terrific to hear from a lady who is supportive of anal play. With regard to your role in this, if your partner is exploring the path to the Super Orgasm it will probably require that he goes solo, at least initially. That's not to say that you couldn't be involved in the warm-up phase of this though.

Consider showering with him first, and make it sensual. Get a wash rag and (with a little soap) and gently and sensually massage his anus (making sure that you don't penetrate him...soap can be irritating). Avoid touching his penis if possible, but tease him, again the idea is to get him really aroused. Most men are wired for visual stimulation. After the shower you might masturbate in front of him, preferably at close range. You might lube up his anus for him with a little KY jelly. If you're okay with it, you might gently penetrate him with your finger. Once his anus and rectum are lubed, you can lube up the Aneros and start the insertion for him. Once inserted you can continue to masturbate in front of him while he starts some gentle contractions on his own. Remember, if he is searching for the Super O he (and you) MUST avoid ANY contact with his penis WHATSOEVER. Have fun with this! Make yourself climax. There's nothing more arousing than watching and hearing a woman have an orgasm. The concept for him, is to take that arousal and NOT direct it towards his penis, but rather deep inside himself.

After a while he may need his own space so he can really focus inward. Allow him this time alone. Eventually when he gains some Super O experience, he will be able to bring you back into the equation. And when he does, believe me it will be very arousing for you as well!

In addition, to the Super O exploration, there is a different path, one in which you may fully participate. The Aneros may be used right out of the box as an adjunct to some more traditional activities. That is, those that DO involve penile contact. Just add that component (penile contact) to everything I described above and you and the Aneros can work this guy to an absolutely explosive orgasm. It's terrific with intercourse as well, with every bump and grind that he delivers to you the Aneros will gently but insistently massage his prostate. The Aneros can really kick up the volume! Be sure to see my earlier post in this thread too regarding oral sex .

One last thing. Please be sure to follow up with us all. It is tremendously illuminating to get a woman's perspective.

Regards,

B Mayfield

Originally Posted By: frustrated

Originally Posted By: 7382
I just ordered the Aneros MGX and would like to use it with my girlfriend giving me oral sex. What position do you recommend? How should we appoach this? She is the best when it comes to oral sex and she is open to trying my new toy. I just want to make sure I am relaxed and positioned in a way that she could provide me oral sex at the same time. Has anyone tried this and is it amazing? I appreciate the support and look forward to my new experiences once I recieve my MGX. Thanks!

After using and following all the instructions to the letter for a total of 6 hours, I found that no only could I not achieve an erection with it, but even with my wife performing oral sex I could not become firm enough for intercourse.
Don't get me wrong, there is no discomfort with the Aneros, but I have not felt any sensations. Maybe you need to have an erection before insertion.

I received the aneros and have tried it twice. The first time it took a little while to insert (15 min) and once in I felt like I had to make a BM. No pain involved but no pleasure either. I tried relaxing for about a half hour or so (breathing/contractions) but it did not feel like anything but a full feeling. I tried to masterbate with it inserted and found it difficult to get an erection. While watching some porn I was able to make myself cum but it did not feel as good as I would have liked. I was still not used to the aneros inside me and when I came I felt awkward.
Today I tried it again, this time I was totally relaxed and fell asleep with it in me after about 40 minutes of relaxation. I woke and tried some more contractions and tried laying on my back as well. No real pleasure involved this time either although there was some precum. Not sure if the precum was from the thought of inserting something in me or if the aneros was having some type of effect. I will try it again but I am a little dissappointed so far. Does anyone have any suggestions or is this just something that is going to take a long time to really get the feeling for it?? Anyone.....? Is it possible that this does not work for everyone?

I just finished reading "No Success" by GSpotter and read some of the responses - I guess I just need to be patient and eventually something may happen. I do have expectations and I guess I need to realize that this is going to take some time. The FORUM is a good idea because I get to read about others experiences, which I hope will eventually lead me to my very own super-O. Thanks....

Well I tried it 2 more times. This time I rested on my side on the couch while watching TV (distracted me from thinking about it too much). I did my contractions as directed (40-50 I'm guessing). After stopping the contractions I began to feel a light headed feeling. I felt the massager begin to move. The abutment began to press against my perineum and I began to get a rock-hard erection! Very pleasant and exciting - I tried to breathe thru it but was unable to make the feeling last more than 15-20 seconds. I felt this 2 more times during the next hour. I believe I am getting closer to the feelings described in this forum. Am I on the right track? It really makes me want to do it again and again! It is really fun trying to figure this thing out. I just need a day by myself with no distractions to fully practice the Aneros. Any advice out there? When I begin to feel the really pleasant feeling and rock-hard erection - what should I do next to make the feeling last and continue to something greater?? Any advice would be appreciated :-)......I'm a very excited newbie!

7382

Good work! Sounds like you're on the right track to me. As far as things to try, consider using anal and rectal contactions alone and in combination. The anal (holding or pulling) contraction works antagonistically with the rectal (pushing out ) contraction. Very often using these contractions at the same time can get things going. When you say you breathed through these sensations that you were having, I'm not sure what you mean. Remember this breathing is not the type where one uses the deep cleansing breath made popular by Lamaze. That type of breathing is actually used to reduce sensation. The kind of breathing that we're after is used in order to generate and build sensation. I've talked about it being rhythmic or vibratory the idea of which is to produce sensations in the abdomen, that may be shared with sensations of the anus, rectum, perineum and prostate. Breath into and expand your lower abdomen hold the expansion there (you don't need to hold you breath though). Feel how good it feels to be expanded in your lower belly. Mentally connect sensations from one area with those of another. Visualization can help. Explore!

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B Mayfield