ok this was a little different....

Ok so tonight I followed some advice ... Watched porn ... Got aroused but didn't touch it ....I inserted a lot of lube ...this is key ...I inserted ....did the usual breathing and relaxing , this felt good ....turned to the side with one knee up and contracted ...this felt good and had lots of anal twitching ....then flipped onto my stomach and contracted ....after 5 mins of this the feeling was amazing and I concentrated on the toy and squeezed and squeezed .....then bam had an orgasm ,... I didn't touch my cock at all and had full blown wet orgasm .... Any thoughts ?

You were on your stomach? If so, I'm guessing your penis was rubbing on something?
Next time, I would suggest staying on your side. Relax and breathe. Play around with contractions of differing intensity and duration but don't contract too hard (light to medium). Focus on any feelings you get.
In my experience, the anal twitching is a very good sign. Give these a chance to develop into something more.

Hello Scarboroughguy, 🙂

I agree completely with dtmsmith. Stay on your side or you back, as even the slightest penile stimulation can cause a wet-O. I learned this the hard way early on in my Aneros journey, as on my side I was inadvertently lightly rubbing my penis against my bed. This gave me a false idea of what I was feeling. If you stay on your side, make sure you are in a position that does not allow your penis to be stimulated. Otherwise you are totally on the right track.

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