I was thinking about something the other day and I don’t remember this being discussed before. When I look at my preferred positions, there are almost one and the same, just shifted in space.
Think about being on your back with your knees up, and feet near your butt. Now picture being on your knees, sitting on your heels. That’s the same position, rotated 90 degrees. Give it another 90 degrees forward, and that’s “downward dog”, or very close to it. Now I’m not going to do a headstand, so that where this stops… but if you start from the first position, and give it a flip left or right, then that’s the “on side, knees close to the body” recommended starting position. Which for some reason does not work for me, but seems to be pretty popular for a lot of guys.
I believe they all work because they put things in the right alignment. Now think about variations of positions that do not work well, and how even if we are shifting positions a lot, it’s possible to be re-creating the same “wrong” alignment in several different ways. What do you guys think ?
Sort of a fetal position, right? And on the side is almost the same except for one leg extended.
Yes, similar to the fetal position with some variation on how close the legs are to the body, depending on comfort and flexibility. Similar to the the idea that squatting toilets are better for the body because this position straightens the bend in the colon.
In the same way, standing up straight, lying straight on you back or face down are pretty close as far as toy positioning will be, or that's what it feels like. The amount of bending at the waist is probably the No.1 element to take into account. And going the other way, the amount of back arching...
I can be on my knees in a doggy-style position and the toy won't fall out of me, but a lot of times, if squatting or kneeling sitting almost on my feet like OP describes, the toy will rocket out during certain orgasms. I have a standard bar stool, round top, that I lay on the floor. Then I straddle the narrow part of the legs near the seat; you gotta have decent leg length to make this not hurt or be too much pressure on the inside of your legs. I put a super firm pillow on the wider part of the legs and then lay my weight on it. This position is highly erotic and pretty dirty, ass sticking out, toy in you, it stirs some major feelings and eroticism! I do this thing where I make contact with the bottom lip of the stool seat and the toy in me, so its like I can grind on the toy as wanted/needed. Cock and balls hanging through the legs is very comfy and any milking or dripping just falls onto a towel below. I can't work my nipples like this though, only downside. Having a super T like this is extremely fulfilling and emptying, the toy never falls or shoots out in this position, and the blood flow in your genitals is to the max. Then you can just lay on the stool and relax as your O continues to ride out through Aneros-provoked contractions. I love love love this position, yet I haven't done it in a long time!? Hmmmmm me thinks my next session, likely later today, will incorporate my stool position lol 😉
I've never been able to be on my side. No idea why, in 20 years I can't make it work. Not bragging but my dick is kinda long and when flaccid the head and tip touch the floor or sheet on the bed whatever it is, and that contact is not comfy and very irritating. I can't wear a sleeve or something to protect my glans because I need the juices to flow freely and seeing it happen turns me on and lets me know what's happening during my session. If I'm hard, like spooning with my wife for sex and have a toy in, of course it works and feels magnificent! But I can't make the on my side position work to save my life 🙁