I have been into anal pleasure all my life, so I was excited when I learned about the Aneros. I bought one about nine years ago, a classic MGX. And initially I had some success with it, maybe two-three times of really intense pleasure, but then it faded away. I tried with the guided session, which I also bought and downloaded, but it never did much for me either.
I also bought a vice recently because I thought that something more massive and with strong vibrations might help. I certainly enjoy wearing it during regular PIV sex but else, but when I use it alone, it doesn't give me anything like the feelings of euphoria promised.
Could it be, that my prostate (or that area in general) has "lost" some of its sensitivity over the last decade? I am in my late forties now, but I didn't assume that you must be very young to experience intense prostate pleasure.
Are there others, for whom it has been a long quest, rather than instant success, during which they almost gave up, but eventually found a way?
@aneros_user44799
Hey, man. Thank you for your candid testimonial. I, like you, tried the Aneros line several years ago and had some incredible sessions but most of the sessions were mild. I had the MGX, the Helix, Eupho, Progasm, and Maximus at various stages. I am now 47 and I have renewed my interest in prostate pleasure with vibrating toys, wands, etc.
I thought I would return to my roots and go back to the Aneros line: toys that require patience and a learning curve but reward you oh, so nicely for your perserverance.
I currently have rekindled my love affair with my prostate, using the Helix SYN and now the Progasm Jr, which is a small aggressively-curved powerhouse of autofucking pleasure. If you are going to try again, I would pick one of those up: not too big, but incredibly designed. The smooth black plastic is so great for inner agility.
I have so much to learn yet (using an aneros for pleasure is so much more than 'shooting your load': it's a joyful connection with your mind and body, learning how you are put together and how to push 'buttons' on the inside of your beautiful body that will take you to levels of pleasure you never even dreamed of.
Yes, give it a try. No, your prostate is not less sensitive. You just need to reconnect with it. Take your time, put the aneros in, feel it, contract it into and out of your body. Your prostate/brain connection will burst into flames of ecstasy as it learns new pathways of pleasure. Don't expect anything. Just FEEL. Each time you do it, just ENJOY what is happening. My 'dud' sessions are from preconceived notions about what it will feel like, what I want out of it, etc. My BEST sessions are just laying back, breathing softly, and experiencing what my prostate wants to give me: utter fucking indescribable jolting bliss.
There are MANY fine guys on this site willing to help you. Don't deny yourself this opportunity to reconnect with your body. You deserve to feel sublime orgasms that will bend your mind.
Blessings!
-Rob
Rob: Man, I like how you connected with this response! So well said! Since I am into chastity and enjoy my prostate play, strange to say I really don't savor the "regular" ejaculations that much anymore. I prefer a "ruined orgasm". There is so much more to enjoy with Aneros! Keep posting!
@goldenboy thanks, man! The last couple weeks I have made huge strides (and huge puddles of precum). I think I am overdoing it: Losing a lot of sleep, doing it every day, etc. But I agree with you, while cumming is fantastic, it cannot even begin to compare to prostate explosions.
Chaste for religious, other reasons? You don't have to answer, I am just curious. You can message me if you like.
The Aneros needs consistent usage to get the body gradually working with it. In particular, the prostate isn't some erogenous spot from the get-go. When I first started using it, it felt like some plastic thing up my cavity and was uncomfortable.
My progress with it might be unusual, but a lot of developments happened outside of sessions. Learning to build and focus on pleasure through thinking or looking at specific things progressed things, as did breathing. The Aneros then amplified that — the two work unison.
Traditional toys like dildos and such aren't as subtle, and I'd wager the activity needed for them is what pushes people over the edge. The Aneros isn't really like that. You just have to let the toy and contractions do their thing.