No touchy , make me so horny

Practice and patience. Anyways, horniness is great, because the idea is to be as horny as possible when you start your session.

It would likely be helpful in expediting prostate orgasms and rewiring if you were to take a break from jacking off,not just every other day,but particularly at the end of sessions. 

Posted by: @tbob

So I have decided , no matter what, I will not touch my cock. My next O, will be completely anal generated.

OK, but as @divine_o noted practice and patience are required as well as a little self discipline to redirect the penile masturbatory urge.

Posted by: @tbob

The only thing that seems to help so far is if I ride a dildo to end my session.

If you are riding that dido to the point of orgasm/ejaculation, you've already accomplished your stated goal. If what you are after is an Aneros induced prostate orgasm then dildo use may not be an optimal rewiring path.

Posted by: @tbob

...what helps you keep your hands off. ... So how do you keeps your hands off?

Some of the accessory items that have been suggested and used by Aneros users in the past are jock straps and athletic cups (please see @BigGlansDC blog post e.g.). Another, but more extreme, accessory is employment of a chastity device (please see Male chastity device questions for some more info.) While the chastity device may be the most extreme, it is also probably the most effective at preventing you from manually stimulating your penis.

Good Vibes to You!

Posted by: @tbob

So I have decided , no matter what, I will not touch my cock. My next O, will be completely anal generated. I usually jack every other day at end of session. I can't beleive how hard this is for me. The only thing that seems to help so far is if I ride a dildo to end my session, The fat one that hurts so good. I can't remember ever being so horny. And I'm only 3 full days in. Would like to here from others with the same problem and what helps you keep your hands off. I have a session everyday, and I love it. Yet to have any real O's, but the sensations I exp. now are wonderful. Hoping I can get myself over the next edge by not touching period. So how do you keeps your hands off?

 

 

 

 

I think you should jack off anytime you feel the need.  One missed time can never be made up.  If you are that horny things will fall into place. Enjoy shooting that load and enjoy every little step of your journey, it will come soon enough.

How do you keep your hands off? Well, I'm about 2 and a half weeks in without cumming or any stroking (except last night,) and the way I'm doing this is basically by using a little discipline in the beginning, and then the rest is mostly forgetting your cock is for cumming or even stroking.

Just do your aneros sessions, and by the end, just lay there and feel the good feelings and decide not to touch your cock. Until last night I only touched my cock to pee, the only times it got hard was when I rubbed my nipples or focused on my prostate, or anything but touching. Once you're in that head space you'll get horny on command, and you'll need your cock less and less.

But last night after a good session, I decided to stroke- edge and I couldn't get hard at first because my mind was wired the other way, but then I got it and it felt very good to say the least. I got right up to the edge and stopped flat and went to bed. In summary I think it was a mistake to edge at all. Stroking before bed made it hard to sleep, and I probably un did some progress, idk.

But that's just me. You though need to just put your cock and cumming out of your mind for a while, and it will get easier.

A little update, first I'd like to thank you all for your replys. So I guess for me, 3 days of no touchy was all it took for me to turn a corner. Last night was the best session to date. Instead of start and stop contractions in the lower and upper anal canal, I was having penis contractions that went on for moments at a time, the sensations were better and slightly stronger than ever before. Some how where ever I was feeling some pleasure ; anus, anal chanel or prostate, as soon as I set my mind to it the pleasure sensations would increase or ramp up. I have been taking Mondia Whitei, which seems to change the way you cum, I had to finish with a hand as it all felt so good, I was slow stroking and each stroke felt a mini orgasm, this went on for a good 20 minutes, when I finally had to pick up the pace and let it go, which was some what anti climactic, in comparrasin to the build up. Going to try for 4-5days now. Little scared my head mught blow off. wonderful!!!   

  I now understand the energy factor as I csn still feel the energy from the build up prior to last nights session, just lerking, waiting to be built upon, if that makes sense.

Hi Tbob, to prevent your head from blowing off, Tao and Tantra masters recommend to drink a lot of water and put your tongue at your palate to let your vibes in your head chakra flow down your front channel. It may help further to put one hand on your heart area and one hand on your navel for support. Dedicating your vibes to your loved ones including yourself can help too. 

Recommended reading matter: 

Tantra?

More will follow, sadly one special thread isn‘t reachable, I asked staff for support.

Good vibes! Mart

@sowithoutaneros To be honest I think my body is telling me what to meditate on. As I feel pleasure I can focus on that, say my prostate, and the pleasure in that spot increases, till it starts to rythmycaly contract, then I feel a slight pleasure at my outer sphincter and my concentration seems to expand, and the feeling there starts to ramp up, till it joins the contractions, at a slightly different cadence, then my dick starts to feel good, and it seems like the other contractions support this and work toward making this the main focus. Its like my body is doing the mindgasm excercise all on its own, 3 sets of contractions, slowly rolling over and over, less than an O, but so so good. Funny thing is, this is all happening a-less, I kinda feel if I insert something, it may kill it. This is all new, so I can't say for certain. Can only try 1 method oer session. 

excited to see where this goes.

So I have been browsing the older forums , came across a something quite interesting on page 232," 5 minutes leading up to a super O". Which is expanding my understanding of how to expand on the focus I described earlier . He talks about fantasizing about having an orgasm, kinda fake it to you make it idea, and wow it really works. My session last night was even better than the last one. I can't put a label on anything as this is all so new, really excited about th future. I recommend giving it a read to anybody, as I can't quite decscribe it fully.

Posted by: @tbob

So I have been browsing the older forums , came across a something quite interesting on page 232," 5 minutes leading up to a super O". .... He talks about fantasizing about having an orgasm, kinda fake it to you make it idea, and wow it really works.... I recommend giving it a read to anybody, as I can't quite decscribe it fully.

Kudos to you for doing some in-depth research. Yes, that thread (The five minutes leading up to a Super-O) has some wonderful insights posted by our late member @Pan who was also a wonderful collaborator in the creation of the "HypnAerosession" recording, I'm glad to see you learning and progressing so well.

Good Vibes to You!

From my experience the best way to progress in this journey is to:

1. Not watch porn.

2. Try to avoid ejaculating.

3. Listen to your body.

My favorite time is when I follow 1 & 2 and after some days the real horniness comes. By real is that you just start feeling that sexual energy charged up. This is the time to harness it and use it to get further in your journey. At this point I am able to just sit in the chair and get dry O's without any effort, just enjoying my sexual energy.

Posted by: @tbob

kinda fake it to you make it idea

Oh yes, fake it until you make it, is such a wonderful technique. Don‘t underestimate vocalisations. If I breathe and moan like I would from sexual ecstasy like near the point of no return, this alone can make me jump to that level of sexual bliss and start a series of real orgasms that make me moan seriously. Good vibes and enjoy your personal unique journey! Mart

@sowithoutaneros

Even on a bad day,moaning and grunting can help drag an orgasm out of the dark. 🙂

Posted by: @tbob

A little update, first I'd like to thank you all for your replys. So I guess for me, 3 days of no touchy was all it took for me to turn a corner. Last night was the best session to date. Instead of start and stop contractions in the lower and upper anal canal, I was having penis contractions that went on for moments at a time, the sensations were better and slightly stronger than ever before. Some how where ever I was feeling some pleasure ; anus, anal chanel or prostate, as soon as I set my mind to it the pleasure sensations would increase or ramp up. I have been taking Mondia Whitei, which seems to change the way you cum, I had to finish with a hand as it all felt so good, I was slow stroking and each stroke felt a mini orgasm, this went on for a good 20 minutes, when I finally had to pick up the pace and let it go, which was some what anti climactic, in comparrasin to the build up. Going to try for 4-5days now. Little scared my head mught blow off. wonderful!!!   

  I now understand the energy factor as I csn still feel the energy from the build up prior to last nights session, just lerking, waiting to be built upon, if that makes sense.

Now imagine you had not blown and how good the next session would have been!

Once you learn Aless you wont want to cum, as you know you can lay in bed at night and have Aless fun till you fall asleep

@jiji2000 - that gave me a great visualization to experiment with.  

Currently, I'm advancing with a new SR goal, it'll be fun to see what happens. 

Thanks for the nudge.

Posted by: @rumel

/snip > > Yes, that thread (The five minutes leading up to a Super-O) has some wonderful insights posted by our late member @Pan

Forum "gold" that Pan thread.  More lab-work for Glandrake, thanks rumel.

Edit note: added rumel quote & comment on it.

@jiji2000

Posted by: @jiji2000

Once you learn Aless you wont want to cum

Ain’t that the truth 😉 

@sowithoutaneros

Oh this is so true. I discovered this several weeks ago when some sessions were not that great. I moan or dirty talk myself, slide my hips, and you start to believe in the pleasure. Very good technique.

@tbob One way to keep you from stroking is the wear a chastity cage during your session.  I do that often to make me focus on what's going on in the anal canal.  I recommend a stainless steel model as the ring around your balls is less irritating than plastic models and the shorter the cage's tube the better.  Put it on about an hour or more before starting a session.  You have to handle you member to force it into the tube and that tends to make you get hard.  Wearing it for an hour or more before you session lets you get used to wearing it and prevents you from diverting your attention to something new hanging off of your cock rather than what's happening in your anal canal. When I wear my cage during a session I forget I have a cock and my focus is all inside my ass.  You can find good quality inexpensive stainless steel cages on Amazon.  

@studmouse47   I would have to wear one all day, I have little problem keeping my hands off through 99% of my session. Its the general hornyness I have problems controlling.