Hello, I'm 22 years old straight men with some free time this summer and while I was searching for a new masturbation toy, I stumble upon prostate massagers so I decided to try the Aneros Helix.
I've done some training session since I got it (so almost 1 session a day) and now I've done my 6th session yesterday. I was kind of disappointed after my first session even if I knew it takes time to learn how to use the Helix and to learn the sines your body is giving to you. I had no sensations from the P-Tab and I did not feel the "peeing" sensation nor any sign of my prostate.
But right after inserting the Helix I had a precum drop so here is my first question; Does that mean the Helix is doing his job and it's pressing my prostate and that I should wait for the "awakening" to feel my prostate? Also at my 3rd session, and almost all the other I have some kind of "heat" waves going through my body which are feeling good and heartbeat rising so I thought they where P-Waves put I didn't have any butterflies so what are those? I think I also had "blue balls" after my first sessions, I like to finish my sessions with masturbating but my ejaculation didn't feel good and my testicle and I think my prostate was hurting after for some minutes.
Finally, my 6th session! I did a session just before going to sleep and I was about to end after around 80m because I did not felt aroused anymore and still noting from my prostate or the P-Tab. This time I decide to have some porn on my phone running with no sound so I can check time to time and when I got on my side to get myself in position to remove the Helix (still doing contraction) and I took the phone I think the scene gave me another wave of arousal and I felt like I wanted to cum, but not from my penis put from my anus so I took the ride. My heartbeat raised like never before and I had those heat wave again. It was something but it slowly fainted and with no hesitation, I decide to finish with a traditional orgasm, It was not a super T but I definitely had more fluid coming out.
I don't know what that feeling to cum from the anus was and if you can give me more info on that and the fact that I had this event still with no sensation from the prostate and the P-Tab (which I think is not on the right spot).
ps: Sorry in advance, I'm not a good writer and English is not my first language 😉
It's natural that a lot of these new sensations are going to feel weird and alien when you are just starting out. No bad thing, that new interesting pleasure is occuring in your body is a great sign. If I had to take a guess at what "I wanted to cum but from my anus" was, I'd say your heightened arousal allowed you to start feeling some real pleasure back there, but it got a bit confused with a traditional ejaculatory (penis based) orgasm. Hahahaa
Stopping a session after 80m cos youre not feeling it anymore isnt holding you back, especially with daily aneros play. Was sound logic. Trying too hard without results can be frustrating.
If you can watch some porn you're really into (aneros inserted) without masturbating, it's a good familiar way to stoke some arousal without having to go all out tantric meditation superstar. Arousal is important.
Try not to overthink everything while youre trying to enjoy yourself. If those heat waves come again, great! Notice and enjoy them for what they are. Same goes if you feel something in your abs or.... anywhere. The more of these little signs your body is giving off, that you learn to revel in, lose yourself to, the easier it will be to have a great full body orgasm in the long run.
Hello @Just4lol, welcome to the forum, hopefully your nick doesn't mean your reason for joining us? :rolleyes:
Assumed it does not, I would like to give you some answers, but first I would like to know your mother language before, maybe, we both translate our thoughts (in my case from German) to English unneccesarily. 😉
For now I only want to comment your introduction
I was searching for a new masturbation toy
You do not have found a masturbation toy. Believing that would mislead you far away from the real objective.
Cheers, Mart