making good progress on my journey and would appreciate comments on what i am experiencing at this stage.
i have sessions with and without my device [ peridise ] inserted to take me to this very pleasurable level.
i can get there almost instantly with 10 quick kegels , deep inhale, moderate contraction on exhale with featherlike stroking of both nipples.
with this sustained contraction and steady breathing and n/p i have exquisite pleasure in my prostate and anal sphincters which slowly builds to tension in my right foot up my leg to my stomach which clamps inward then pushes down to my anus then clamping my buttocks .
this sensation is accompanied by shaking and quivering until the tension subsides.
my body then relaxes in a warm glow with a tingling feeling in my thighs and a sort of numbness in my head.
after a period of relaxation i can repeat this many times over.
when the tension builds there are no pleasurable climatic feelings present or throughout the clamping phase or body shaking.
it seems that the tension,clamping and body shaking is the climax.
that said; when i am in the 'edging' zone the feelings are sensational and i try to stay there as long as i can until the involuntary tension builds.
i love this journey.
thanks
smaster
When I feel clamping is imminent I do my utmost to make it stop. This seems to intensify the pleasure sensations and make them last longer. The tip seems to be rather than try to make these devices to work you should try to stop it happening.
thanks chestinut
i am not quite sure how to delay the onset of the tension build and clamping with the the device because i have the exact same situation when having an anerosless session.
how would you categorise the climatic tension/clamping/shaking moment ??.
where am i at on this fantastic journey ??
this is very much a new experience for me in nearly 60 yrs of sexual activity.
a t b
smaster
Tension, clamping, body shaking are signs that you are over stimulating yourself....ease up on the kegels....go lighter and slower and same for the nipples. Slow down and relax and you will get were you want to go.
thanks for your advice brucemarkland,
i definately have to adjust my approach as i seem to be stuck in a very pleasurable zone without a sense of release.
at present i do only one sustained contraction on exhale , featherlight nipple play and belly breathing and i'm there in a very nice place.
i am now going to learn to avoid the onset of the non pleasurable tension,clamping and shaking.
sm