Newbie question about ejaculating during intercourse.

Im 69 and use either a peristal or the 950 with good success.My next purchase will be the HST so I will be interested in your experience.My problem was I would feel an orgasm coming way to soon so I would try to back off so to speak only to not be able to get back to that point.I can now control when I want to finish but I would like to try the HST thinking the silicone will feel more gentle than the plastic during ejaculation.I should add this is not an issue in regular massage.Hope you are happy with your purchase.

Thanks!! Yeah...I had heart surgery 3 years ago and I get physically tired before I arrive at the promised land. Hoping this helps the cause. Coming too soon has never been an issue, but for me it would be welcomed! I'll keep you posted. Thanks for responding.... I wonder how many guys our age are on here??

@jimbridger If you are new to Aneros or prostate/anal stimulation and experiences, then I think you will be happy!! When I started using Aneros 15 years ago I did not have hands-free prostate orgasms like you read about here on the Forum. I did, however, have a traditional orgasm-ejaculation at the end of my prostate stimulation session. I found that when I got erect and started to stroke (or use a Fleshlight, etc.) I would need to orgasm almost instantly!! I'd maybe just get to masturbate with the toy in me for 15 to 30 seconds at best before I was firing off. As the years have gone on I can last longer when I'm trying to cum with Aneros in my ass. But even after 15 years, the reflexes trigger so fast while I have a toy in me, it's pretty shocking!

You got the Helix Silicone Trident, which was a great selection! I have found that it stays in my ass regardless of the position I'm in when I'm either having sex with my wife or during solo play, and that's on my knees, standing, laying on my back, on my side, whatever! It also assists with a full drain of my prostate during ejaculation and really gives me one of the fullest, most deeply satisfying orgasmic ejaculations I have had with any prostate toy. Lastly, it does not really irritate me as my orgasm trails off and ends. Most toys become a bit irritating and they feel very present, like I need to pull it out really fast because its a bit too much. But, with the HST, I can actually leave it in me for sometimes a few minutes after I'm completely drained and it is comfortable and does not feel intrusive at all.

For an orgasm aid, I think you're going to be doing great! Please write more in the near future! PM me anytime you need 🙂

@techpump Thanks so much! You really made my day! I'm smiling. The road back from heart surgery has been tough, and if I experience what you've described, I'll be the happiest guy in the world. I will definitely keep you posted. Thanks again. Your taking the time to write me all of that was very kind.

@jimbridger i’d just like to add,I think it’s fantastic that at 67,and after heart surgery,your still banging,much respect!!

@jimbridger Good fortune with your project. I have found that ejaculations and, for the most part, erections are not part of my Aneros experience. Cycling multiple orgasms, yes. Autof**k to the rafters, yes. Occasional discharges of prostatic fluids, yes. Slight production of pre-cum, yes. That'll be fine for me for a good long while. Helix Syn and Eupho Trident

The brilliant and expressive men you meet here, who have been at it a while, made it clear to me that I am a law unto myself and that individual results vary.

@Tommygunn Thanks much!!. I appreciate that. I'm lucky in that my parents had sex right to the end.....86 and 92! It helps to have sexy, romantic role models.

@gnawdol WOW. Thank you for sharing that. I had aortic valve replacement and an aortic graft Sept 2015. The fatigue was HUGE, and it took me two years to walk for an hour straight, and have the upper body strength to support my weight during sex. That, plus no sex from 2012 until recently, has made for big adjustments. Hoping my soon to arrive Helix helps the cause!!! Thanks again for writing; it means a lot.

I am awed by the kindness, support and comfort all of you have given me today. What a wonderful community!!! Thank you!!!

@gmawdol Yup, I hear you. After a year of feeling like crap, I was convinced the surgery triggered Chronic Fatigue Syndrome. My heart was great, but my body just couldn't recover from any kind of exercise. Finally, 14 months post-op I was determined to walk one minute more than the day before, or at least the same minutes. Took me 16 months to get to one hour. That day was like crawling across a desert. Thanks for your encouragement!