"Newbie" need som help...

Hello, Adaware, welcome to the Forum.

I don't quite know where to start on this one. In my humble opinion, Aneros pleasure comes from the subtlety of its use, not force, or in your case, extreme force.

Second, manipulation of your Progasm is potentially dangerous to your prostate as too much pressure can cause damage. Please don't do that! You should be able to get all the prostate stimulation you require from normal muscle contraction. Excessive straining or pc contractions tend to hinder prostate awakening. The fact that you "feel" more with greater pressure is not indicative, IMHO, of progress toward Aneros enjoyment. Sorry.

Many new Aneros users "try" to make it work. It just doesn't work that way, at least in the majority of cases. Aneros success, measured in terms of "Super O" results overwhelmingly come from relaxation and absence of straining/pushing/contracting your gut muscles.

So, to answer your question, unless you're unlike almost all other men your size (we're about the same height) NO, the Progasm is not too short, and it's hitting your prostate appropriately. Many of us, including me, have modified their Progasm. You may want to try bending the K-tab (the one that almost touches your anus) further back, away from the body of the Progasm. Some guys find that in it's original position, it inhibits forward travel of the body of the toy. In my case, I have cut mine off completely and smoothed it with a Dremel tool. Personally, I think it made a big difference. You may want to try that first. Gently heat the neck on the K-tab with a hot air gun or even a hot hair dryer and CAREFULLY bend it back, initially. Be careful, as the plastic gets hot and soft and you can easily take it too far the first time.

Perhaps your lack of progress is due exactly to your Progasm's size. Have you thought of using a Eupho or a Helix? Many of us have found that the smaller toys actually produce larger results. If not, why not purchase one or the other. It may be the key to moving forward. After a year of effort, why not change things up a bit. Remember, insanity is sometimes defined as doing the same thing repeatedly and expecting a different result! Time for a change, I think. Either modify your Progasm or purchase another Aneros model.

And remember: Stop being "desperate for O's", as it's surely the best way I know to assure yourself of never having them.

Seriously, you really have to stop trying, and start relaxing. This experience has a "spiritual" side, one of peace, relaxation and mental quiet. Take some deep breaths, expect nothing, and be calm. Your anxiety, IMO, is your biggest foe.

We're all here to help, encourage and strengthen you.

C

Thanx for a absolutely excellent post Cockadoodle 😀

I've not been trying hard, have laid there for up to two hours just feeling it inside many times without doing anything special. I get small sensations, has happened lots af times. Have tried with different positions and so on without luck. I just can't get no further 🙂

Many of us, including me, have modified their Progasm. You may want to try bending the K-tab (the one that almost touches your anus) further back, away from the body of the Progasm. Some guys find that in it's original position, it inhibits forward travel of the body of the toy. In my case, I have cut mine off completely and smoothed it with a Dremel tool. Personally, I think it made a big difference. You may want to try that first. Gently heat the neck on the K-tab with a hot air gun or even a hot hair dryer and CAREFULLY bend it back, initially. Be careful, as the plastic gets hot and soft and you can easily take it too far the first time.

I'm not shure if i get what your saying her. The k-tab, is it infront or back of the aneros?
Will this modification make it go further in or have i missed the point here?

Hi, Adaware,

The modification is simple. The K-tab is the back one, the one that is behind your anus when the Aneros is inserted, OK? (I see that in my previous post that that description was not clear, given the actual location of the toy, eh?) That's the one you want to bend slightly AWAY from the body of the toy.

No, it will not allow it to go in further, but it will allow it to swing further against your prostate without excessive force. Your prostate may take a bit more pressure to wake it up, so moving the k-tab back a bit will allow it to tip further forward.

Good luck. Let us know how it goes.

Don't forget my other suggestion that you try a Eupho or a Helix.

C

Shortly after my last post i found out where the k-tab was and i bent it out.

I tell you, this was just the thing i was missing. Felt a massive wave go through mye body and it felt like a mindblowing orgasm with heavy muscle contractions. It was fantastic 😛

Have never gotten this kind of feeling before when using this. I must say i'm floating in the skyes right now 😀

Thanx, alot!!!

I am new. I have had a program Jr for four months now...using it almost everyday. Other than generally good feelings, I've not experienced any real progress toward any kind of orgasm. I've read extensively and tried the helpful suggestions in this forum. Can anyone add any further advice?

Hey, @Adaware, let me answer your questions with a quote from my earlier blog post "A matter of size?"
"To me it seems, that all these involuntary contractions of the inner muscles have only one aim, to get the tool where the gland wants it.
Therefore it may be better, if the tool is able to dance in the rectum instead of being clenched by the anal canal."
May your prostate be with you, let it take over control! And you'll enjoy the best vibes ever! 🙂

I am new. I have had a program Jr for four months now...using it almost everyday. Other than generally good feelings, I've not experienced any real progress toward any kind of orgasm. I've read extensively and tried the helpful suggestions in this forum. Can anyone add any further advice?

My only advice @anajoy : Don't use it almost everyday.

There is no progress in anything you're doing every day. Never heard about overtraining? You probably did exactly that!

It may be hard, but the best you can do is to try a week off.

Btw, coping with a 40-days-challenge of semen retention pushed my journey beyond belief.

Good luck on your one!