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I can't seem to relax enough. I'm going to try sleeping with it in and seeing if that works. My only consern is moaning or waking up with a loud orgasm and my roommate hearing.

Welcome to our forum.

First off, you said you can't relax enough. Well if you get a chance, do some reading in the topics. Many seasoned vets will tell their story about once having great Supers each time they used it but then after time had problems with just a mini 'O. Then realized their life had lots of tensions come into it and they had to learn to toss out the stress and learn to relax again. Then the Super O's came back to them.. Relax! Relax! Relax!!!

Numerous posting on sleeping with it in is generally not recommended. A lot of muscles need to wake up and develope to achieve the Super O you are looking for. It might happen first insertion or six months of using. There is no set standard. I found the best part of the Aneros experience is enjoying the mini O's leading up to the Super O's not waking up to an orgasm (BTW has never happened to me) What is wrong with a healthy male waking up to an orgasm. If your roomate is healthy and normal, I believe he has had a few wet dreams in his time or woke up to throbbing hard on and took care of it.

The problem with men (and women) is we were brought up to be very private in our sexual thoughts and generally embarrassed if we are caught masturbating or getting horny watching porn or reading porn mags. Whenever I had a roommate, first thing I cleared up was when I was doing my thing that he respect my space and time. It worked out very well. Who knows? Your roommate might be sleeping with a Helix inside him at night.

Justing_19,

I frequently sleep with the aneros in. Usually wake up and insert around 4 am, remove around 6 am.

Some of my best sessions have happened while sleeping with the aneros. No bad effects that I am aware of after a year or so of this activity. When are you more relaxed than when asleep? Give it a try, you may wake up to a nice surprise.

If you do wake up in the midst of an O try to let it go and not respond to it. That was what I had to learn. When I react it disappears and I am unable to get it to return during that session. I also removed the non-functional part of the handle, it made sleeping more comfortable. Make sure you sand and polish the stub so it cannot scratch.

Catchemup