I am a married guy and just found out about this site and all. Ihavent purchased anything yet and not sure what to buy and what I should expect out of this. Also interested how other married men deal with their wives about this. any information and tips would be helpful before I purchase.
Hi seabud206,
I'm a long term user of the Aneros (no superO yet) married for 29 years, I told my wife I was getting one but she didn't say much, at first I didn't feel comfortable using it around her, and only did when she was out for the evening or away, which doesn't make for the best conditions for use, ie always rushed and worried she will be home.
This past year I have found more time to use IT, and also when we have intercourse we sometimes use IT, with the result I have harder erections and longer orgasms. 😀
As to which model to buy, you should search this forum for tips, but probably the MGX or Helix are good starters. I have an MGX and Progasm.
Hi seabud206,
Welcome to the Forum.
In answer to your question about Aneros selection, I suggest you check out and read the following :
http://www.aneros.com/chooser.php
http://aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=1803
http://aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=1802
Those threads should help you make an appropriate decision for yourself.
Regarding enlisting your wife’s cooperation, I think you could point out the possible health benefits from prostate massage.
Perhaps get her to read some of the information on the Aneros sister site “High Island Health”, http://www.highisland.com ,
where the focus is more on health, then point out that it will likely make you a better lover as well.
You might also like to read the Sticky: “a wife’s perspective” on the Aneros Forum -
http://aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=440
I hope this helps a bit.