New on Aneros

How long have you been at it? You need plenty of patience and persistence. It took me over a year until I had my first really powerful orgasm. Others take even longer. You have to become in it for the long haul, but the end result is well worth the effort. I now have mind blowing orgasms and am very glad I stuck to it. And I think it’s best to start with the smaller versions than jumping right into the humongous ones. But others might differ. Good luck and good riding.

Couple of weeks now....the thing is I can get more pleasure with a normal one and not an aneros...feel the legs start shaking, feel the arouse feeling which aneros doesn't still give me yet.....this is why I am trying to get a prosgam ice.
Do you ever let the helix syn inside you even when you watch tv on the sofa? do you think is it worthy to give a try perhaps? I just would like to have that kind of feeling when I do use a no branded prostate massager vibrator...

@robertjwll73, perhaps your expectations may be your biggest hurdle. You know the impact of your vibrator. The idea of Aneros instead is to let your gland take over control and steer your tool. But this only starts when you become able to notice much more subtle sensations than those of your vibrator. These sensations are not so easy to feel. If you don't unlearn your old pathways you might come to a dead end. That's why I would prefer the even smaller Eupho than the Progasm to begin with. Your mantra should be NO expectations, relaxing and letting go. Good luck!

@robertjwll73 Your experience matches mine when I started using Aneros. For months I was frustrated and felt like nothing was happening. I almost gave up completely but I stuck with it and followed the good advice in the Forum. It really is a shift in the mindset: let the orgasm find you. When I stopped trying to make it happen I had success. It sounds counterintuitive but it works for me. Good luck in your journey.

Agree with the above comments. Takes awhile to get relaxed and feel the pleasures being generated! Have been at it over two years now and enjoy every session as I never know where it will take me! Start small and learn to do kegels and tune out everything else. Eventually you will begin to feel p waves which will lead to dry Os and possibly hands free wet orgasms. Until you learn to totally relax and let things develop inside, you will not progress further! I know that from experience. But the wait is well worth the pleasure you will enjoy! You can also incorporate nipple play as you progress - just gently flick them back and forth! Enjoy the journey but don’t rush it or you will miss out!

I am trying all night now to see if I can reach something out.....thank you for your messages I will keep you updated.

I find the best way to ride is in a darkened room with nothing to disturb me. I do watch some porn beforehand to start the arousal process, but after that low lights and no sound. I know some listen to music or special sounds but I personally find it distracting. As fred27 said, just focus on the pleasurable sensations as they build. They will get more pronounced with time. With patience you’ll eventually have more pleasure than any vibrator can give you. I promise

so despite I nearly tried all night. no sensations or feeling. this afternoon I have tried the progasm ice....nothing even there....i think to giving up....so let down...maybe my prostate is not responding at all or perhaps is somewhere else....

so despite I nearly tried all night.

That's the exact opposite of no expectations, isn't it?

If nothing happens in the first twenty to thirty minutes you should call it a session.

maybe my prostate is not responding at all or perhaps is somewhere else....

!Absolutely no kidding!
You surely know the right orientation to put it in? The inner curve towards your front?

If the answer is ...

Good luck!

Journey of a thousand Super O's begins with the first insertion.

Take your time, it's worth it.

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Sounds like you may be trying too hard to achieve an orgasmic outcome...start your sessions not expecting anything other than relaxing with the Aneros inserted. Begin your breathing exercises only to help you relax and quiet your mind. Focus any pleasurable feelings you may discern ...when you are more exoerienced to recognize the subtle flickers of pleasure, relax even more and let you body take over...trust me....you will discover that relaxation & submission are the keys to progress.

Sounds like you may be trying too hard to achieve an orgasmic outcome...start your sessions not expecting anything other than relaxing with the Aneros inserted. Begin your breathing exercises only to help you relax and quiet your mind. Focus any pleasurable feelings you may discern ...when you are more exoerienced to recognize the subtle flickers of pleasure, relax even more and let you body take over...trust me....you will discover that relaxation & submission are the keys to progress.

Thank you. Today I have tried a different approach and I could feel something different. I have been using the prograsm ice. My legs and my bum were shaking. I could feel a bit of pleasure....nothing else. Tried to do some exercises with my PC and it seems working. My tummy was getting rigid and I could definately see something....let's see where it does take. I will keep you updated.

@robertjwll73 Congratulations! You have made an important step in the Aneros journey. Some refer to the feelings you described as the awakening of your prostate. Some say it is the beginning of the rewiring process. Whatever you call it you are moving in the right direction and will continue to make new discoveries. Enjoy every moment. Best wishes.

@robertjwll73, I am delighted for you. Do you like to tell us what made the difference of your new approach? Maybe you can help other Newbies not to despair of the same hurdle and finally give up, where you made a first big progress. Best wishes for your further journey. Perhaps it might be helpful to start your own blog now - in the blog section of this site. It helped me a lot to be able to turn back pages from time to time, when a plateau or new obstacle slowed down my progress. Good vibes all the way, Mart

Now try to guide those feelings with your mind up your spine until you feel it in your head. For me I know it will be a successful session when I can feel a tingling up my spine which eventually will go all the way to the top of my crown. This happens usually in the first few minutes after I start.

One more thing, you might want to go back to try the Helix-Syn again. I think it's easier to move around inside. I actually have much better success with a smaller device, my favorite right now is MGX/Trident. It produces amazing feelings because it moves so easy.

Now try to guide those feelings with your mind up your spine until you feel it in your head.

For a better understanding why you should follow @Wedgewood's recommendation, @robertjwll73, please read this post of @Unfug about your Kundalini. This enlightenment has been a very important and helpful milestone on my journey as you can read in my expression of thanks in my post thereafter.
Cheers, Mart

well my journey is not over yet. still got these kind strange feelings, I did not reach yet the super o'. I am aiming to achieve that someday. so let's see what will happen.