well hi,i just got my first one an maybe i bought too small of one what advise if any can any of you guys could help.i've tried my first day an not sure if i'm doing this right or if i've ruined it for myself,i used to experiment with golf balls great feeling but was hoping this would be the ultimate experience, alittle about myself not afraid to talk about this,any advise
From one newbie to another I wanted to say welcome to the thread and congrats on trying out the Aneros.
As for your questions i too was discouraged like millions of poeple out there that my MGX did not give me anything on my first time. Not even a inclination that it might lead to something. I was discuraged but figured that millions of people cannot be wrong so there must be something to it. At first my first thought was my god I have this thing stuck up my but and I wasted money. But trying out different things opened up the doorway to new sensations, I only need to find a way to walk through the doorway.
If you want to try something out then try this...
1. Remember you have a foreign object in you but (like you can forget) and that the but was designed to have fecies go out and not in. When you but is not in use the muscles that keep you fromm crapping your pants naturally close. When the aneros is in the muscles surround it and want to sqeeze it to make sure the anal area is closed. In doing this your body will start to feed blood to those muscles and with every pump (in rythm mind you) it gets fee to your aneros and that goes striaght to your prostate. It seems that trying to get it work is like 5 times harder then if you just let it go. Completely rest your body from your finger tips to your anal muscles and you will find it will sneek up on you.
2. You can try and contract your muscles in rythm but in doing so can become tiring. If you have control on your anal muscles you might be able to do it the good thing about this is that if your getting tired you can refered to number one.
3. Think of what gives you sexual pleasure an image, sound, feeling and capture that moment and hold on to it. Using the mind is usaully more powerful then anything
4. Watch a sex film, hey never hurts to try.
These are some things that I have tried and found a few work but maybe some might work for you to.
I hope that this post helps you out and gives you some more ideas that I might not have thought.
Don't feel like your doing it wrong becuase you haven't gotten anything. It takes time some faster than others. There are some post on here from poeple that havn't found out how to use the aneros for a year at a time. Keep on trying and you'll get something and once you get something it will open you up to other sensations.
Hope it helps
Carrot
Jmehl77,
I would add just one thing to the great advice from Carrot. The Aneros is NOT about expanding or filling yourself with a large object (golf balls...how did you get them out...very curious about that?). It is a device that is mobile inside the anus and rectum and simultaneously stimulates the prostate, anus, and perineum. It is not something that is worked by hand...that you slam yourself with. The Aneros is initially a much subtler process that can generate a VERY intense experience down the line.
BF Mayfield
Originally Posted By: B Mayfield
Jmehl77,I would add just one thing to the great advice from Carrot. The Aneros is NOT about expanding or filling yourself with a large object (golf balls...how did you get them out...very curious about that?). It is a device that is mobile inside the anus and rectum and simultaneously stimulates the prostate, anus, and perineum. It is not something that is worked by hand...that you slam yourself with. The Aneros is initially a much subtler process that can generate a VERY intense experience down the line.
BF Mayfield
thanks so much for the advice i will never give up,if my wife can get off 5 6 7 8 9 10 times then thats what i want your help is much appreciated
Originally Posted By: carrot
From one newbie to another I wanted to say welcome to the thread and congrats on trying out the Aneros.As for your questions i too was discouraged like millions of poeple out there that my MGX did not give me anything on my first time. Not even a inclination that it might lead to something. I was discuraged but figured that millions of people cannot be wrong so there must be something to it. At first my first thought was my god I have this thing stuck up my but and I wasted money. But trying out different things opened up the doorway to new sensations, I only need to find a way to walk through the doorway.
If you want to try something out then try this...
1. Remember you have a foreign object in you but (like you can forget) and that the but was designed to have fecies go out and not in. When you but is not in use the muscles that keep you fromm crapping your pants naturally close. When the aneros is in the muscles surround it and want to sqeeze it to make sure the anal area is closed. In doing this your body will start to feed blood to those muscles and with every pump (in rythm mind you) it gets fee to your aneros and that goes striaght to your prostate. It seems that trying to get it work is like 5 times harder then if you just let it go. Completely rest your body from your finger tips to your anal muscles and you will find it will sneek up on you.2. You can try and contract your muscles in rythm but in doing so can become tiring. If you have control on your anal muscles you might be able to do it the good thing about this is that if your getting tired you can refered to number one.
3. Think of what gives you sexual pleasure an image, sound, feeling and capture that moment and hold on to it. Using the mind is usaully more powerful then anything
4. Watch a sex film, hey never hurts to try.
These are some things that I have tried and found a few work but maybe some might work for you to.
I hope that this post helps you out and gives you some more ideas that I might not have thought.
Don't feel like your doing it wrong becuase you haven't gotten anything. It takes time some faster than others. There are some post on here from poeple that havn't found out how to use the aneros for a year at a time. Keep on trying and you'll get something and once you get something it will open you up to other sensations.
Hope it helps
Carrot
great help just the thing i liked to hear i will just have to keep up on it any other advice would be much appreciated
thanks aneros for such an item i will keep working on my super "o"