Need peridise/tempo advice

You must not be relaxing.No contractions are needed it just starts moving on its own.Try just popping it in and watch a good movie so that you forget about it. Hopfully you will just notice it just bouncing away at sometime. Use the biggest peridise as the tempo might be too heavy.
Hope that helps.

I find that holding my butt cheeks apart for a few minutes, with a Peridise inserted, really gets things going.

I seem to get the most pleasure from the smallest Peridise(16mm). I also use Tempo with similar success, but seem to gravitate toward Peridise for some unknown reason. It slips in so easily and within 15 minutes of total relaxation with NO voluntary movements on my part, the Pwaves start. I like to just drift away into a semi sleep state and within 30 minutes or so the involuntary responses begin and are quite pleasurable. At this point, I can induce a dryO and occasionally a superO with nipple stimulation combined with EVER SO GENTLE contractions. Peridise sessions for me last on avg. 1.5 - 2 hrs. Hope this might help.

I don't get regular obvious anal contractions with the peridise or tempo either. But I do get warm pleasure waves and calm seas orgasms if I relax. I don't get involuntary contractions with the aneros prostate massagers either but after a while, my body movements with breathing is enough to massage my prostate and give me orgasms. I don't know why I don't have the contractions. I think I'm relaxed enough and sometimes I sense I'm close. But I don't need them to have pleasure from any of the devices.

I don't get regular obvious anal contractions with the peridise or tempo either. But I do get warm pleasure waves and calm seas orgasms if I relax. I don't get involuntary contractions with the aneros prostate massagers either but after a while, my body movements with breathing is enough to massage my prostate and give me orgasms. I don't know why I don't have the contractions. I think I'm relaxed enough and sometimes I sense I'm close. But I don't need them to have pleasure from any of the devices.

I don't have strong contractions with the Peridise either. Much more euphoric than with the other prostate massagers. Also have better experiences with the smaller Peridise than the larger ones or the Tempo.

Had a great session with the 18mm Peridise this morning! Wasn't getting the results I wanted, so put my legs together and clinched hard, like your holding back a way past due bowel movement, hold the squeeze for a minute, then relax for awhile, then repeat. Each clinch sends waves of euphoria and seems to jump start the process for me if I don't get results with just relaxing. The clinch release does seem to help me completely relax the muscles down there, which is key with the Peridise/Tempo. If you are not relaxed, you won't get the Peristalic action...