Need help positioning Eupho Syn: The tip is tilted vertically upward, without angling toward the abdomen and K-tab makes no contact.

Please refer to the graph in the link to get what I mean. There’s a few things I want to clarify:

1. The massager, my rectum and anus is fully lubricated and clear of blockage. I had injected around 3ml of lubricant in my anus in advance and fully coated my Eupho with lubricant. I checked with my finger with gloves on just in case. The path is clear.
2. It automatically readjusts itself to the postion that my graph shows. Using force to manually tilt it forward did not work. I could feel something pressing against the front wall of my rectum when I did so, and very oddly, it did not even produce a very slight urge to urinate.
3. This does not just happen on Eupho. other prostate massager has the same problem when I use it. I also have one Enemagra EX (A japanese prostate massager) and I tried it and got the exactly same problem. The P-tab pushed so hard that it was very distracting and the whole thing felt like vertical and not tilting forward.
4. I checked with a mirror to see its position, not just by feeling.
5. Trying to use force to push it in did not work. It got pushed back and I got a feeling of pressing.

I don’t know much about anatomy but my conclusion is that the massager got stuck in the middle fold (kohlrausch-fold) of my rectum. When I checked with my finger, I did sense that my rectum is not very straight and there is a narrow neck-like thing when I inserted my middle finger approximately two knuckles deep. I could not go further because my finger was not long enough.

There’s a post that seems to have a very similar issue that I am currently having ( https://community.aneros.com/forum/general-discussion/trident-maximus-k-tab-doesnt-make-contact/ ). One good fellow Unfug suggested using a scooping technique

here’s his original sentence if you don’t get what it means:

While inserting, do a scooping motion and point the tip to your spine until the p-tap digs in a bit. Then let go. This way, the tip will pivot after it passed the fold and, thus the massager goes deeper in and the k-tab should make contact. The massager will most likely stay in place because the fold prevents the tip from sliding over it (yet again).

And this did not work for me, again. I gave around 5 attempts, trying different postures, angles, depths but all I got is an ass that now hurts very vaguely. Idk, perhaps it was not stuck, perhaps the fold was just that hard to pass, perhaps I was not doing the technique right…whatever…tbh I feel quite frustrated now. I hope this post may help some people who have the same problem and if you have a solution, I would be very happy to know 🙂