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@Tomasheen do you find your sessions start off really well, you get nice things happening but it then seemingly 'fizzles'? Yet some rarer days it just keeps going and its wonderful?

Interesting question. Something I have wondered about many times as I go through periods of dry-Oing within moments of trying (like now) followed by a week of having great difficulty.

One thing I have noticed is that without doubt it is, for me anyway, related to my stress levels and general state of spiritual happiness and calmness.

I also regard it as a 'gift', maybe just my way of thinking about it, and it helps me to be grateful for what I get; I feel like I get what I deserve, a bit like karma, so if I'm at peace and happy with myself and others then my super ego will allow me to have orgasms when I want. I can't control it directly.

Don't give up.

Thank you guys. Yes. Sometimes they begin well but very soon fade to nothing. On a few occasions, the orgasms go on for what seems like ages. Great but then tomorrow, nothing! You're so right Inhope !i often wondered smudgfish, why one day should be better tan another. The aneros is the same, the prostate is in the same place correct lube up. So is it to do with emitions or some unconscious influences. .?

IMO it's health related both physical and emotional. Also your Prostate and mind require a period of recovery, similar to a refactory period. IMO of course.

@Tomasheen it is all in the subconscious which is beyond direct control. Two weeks ago I finished a job that I hated and was causing me stress, and I have a long break before I start another job. Right now I orgasm within minutes of inserting the Progasm, and can feel orgasmic just by thinking about it. My stress levels are low, I'm happy and I'm doing what I want with my time. Definitely a link there.

It's definitely a barometer for your emotional and physical state/well being.

I think you may be right. I was astonished to have fantastic session this morning. I had a feeling that it could happen and it did. The reason might well have the relief of an emotional problem that had been on my mind for a while. That it was resolved, may have opened the energy flow again. What do you think? Thanks for your comments. I think they helped too.

Well done.I've been experimenting with lucid dreaming and tried everything to have one last night, really disappointed that I didn't after trying so hard, and losing sleep last night trying. This morning totally lost the ability to bring on an orgasm from being right in the 'zone' for well over a week, the sensations really did feel totally blocked. Weird but proves how unpredictable and out of our direct control this is.

for me things are not blocked, i almost always feel something even when I'm totally not in the mood for a session. What i find is that i get immediate response, sometimes wonderful but then it vanishes suddenly like a switch, often never to return. When it does though, its great.

I dont understand.

Hi Sorina! I'm a worrier ! But you I think are on the right road. This morning I had a really fantastic session. I tried afterwards to analyse what was going on. I put in the aneros and was feeling hopeful. It began slowly but I managed to concentrate on the little things...the kind of warm sensation , the slight invol. contraction. I made a real effort to focus on those sensations. Then it began to happen I felt a slight surge of erection in my flacid penis and I gave a little nudge to a contraction and it took off! Wave after wave of intense pleasure each increasing my erection until it was hard and then continued to pulse contractions with amazing results. I was groaning and gasping and crying out in sheer pleasure. I don't think it was a Super-O but it was a ten minute long dry -o. I had to let it end and rest a while . Again, just focusing on the little warmth and the tiny hint of what could be, it all began again. I was once more grunting and calling out in almost unbearable pleasure. I did that about 5 times and decided I needed a break. Wow.,
The comments you guys made seem to have given me a real difference. I hope it will continue now though I must be prepared for the non events that crop up from time to time. Thank you all so much! Xx

Hi Sorina! I'm a worrier ! But you I think are on the right road. This morning I had a really fantastic session. I tried afterwards to analyse what was going on. I put in the aneros and was feeling hopeful. It began slowly but I managed to concentrate on the little things...the kind of warm sensation , the slight invol. contraction. I made a real effort to focus on those sensations. Then it began to happen I felt a slight surge of erection in my flacid penis and I gave a little nudge to a contraction and it took off! Wave after wave of intense pleasure each increasing my erection until it was hard and then continued to pulse contractions with amazing results. I was groaning and gasping and crying out in sheer pleasure. I don't think it was a Super-O but it was a ten minute long dry -o. I had to let it end and rest a while . Again, just focusing on the little warmth and the tiny hint of what could be, it all began again. I was once more grunting and calling out in almost unbearable pleasure. I did that about 5 times and decided I needed a break. Wow.,
The comments you guys made seem to have given me a real difference. I hope it will continue now though I must be prepared for the non events that crop up from time to time. Thank you all so much! Xx

This is interesting to me because I too experience the sort of hard erections and then 'orgasmic' feelings however this usually requires me to have my legs up toward my chest and this usually accelerates things.

What is your position during that session @tomasheen? Your penis was flaccid or? Im amazed you can get so much feeling in the way that you do. You stated you "had to let it end and rest a while", how do you mean? Are you holding a contraction here or something?

@Tomasheen I wish there was some serious research on Prostate stim. It has seemed to m for over a year that the super o is a physiological thing and like an orgasm it should be able to be repeatable.

Thank you Sorena. I lie on my left side with my right leg pulled up to about 90degrees and resting on a cushion so as to give some clearance to my penis. I have tried other positions to no effect. Do you mean your legs are pulled up on your side or back?
Xtimedt69 yes I too have wondered about this. You say it should be repeatable like in masturbating. If only! Prostate stimulation is more complex than that and does depend on other factors. Things that hinder me are ...tiredness, anxiety, self doubts, ingrained religious guilt on an unconscious level and ...don't laugh, poo! The latter and wind,(fart) do impede progress. Poo in the colon puts pressure on the rectum department which in turn, leaves less room for the Anerod to do its work.

Thank you Sorena. I lie on my left side with my right leg pulled up to about 90degrees and resting on a cushion so as to give some clearance to my penis. I have tried other positions to no effect. Do you mean your legs are pulled up on your side or back?
Xtimedt69 yes I too have wondered about this. You say it should be repeatable like in masturbating. If only! Prostate stimulation is more complex than that and does depend on other factors. Things that hinder me are ...tiredness, anxiety, self doubts, ingrained religious guilt on an unconscious level and ...don't laugh, poo! The latter and wind,(fart) do impede progress. Poo in the colon puts pressure on the rectum department which in turn, leaves less room for the Anerod to do its work.

Interesting @tomasheen I found this position to work well too, but it stopped working suddenly a few weeks ago, I don't know why. It only works with smaller or rather thinner devices, do you find the same?

Hi Sorena! I have two devices. The Eupho Syn and the Helix Syn. I prefer the thinner one, the Eupho. I get very quick response from it. I also find that there is more muscle control while using it. The Helux feels too full and less manoeuvrable. It may help you if I tell you that when I lie on my side as described, I do straighten the flacid penis and place it so as not to be prevented from freely erecting. This enables the pleasure waves to build the erection to its full and bring on the contractions as in a dry orgasm. The overall result is a wonderful lasting orgasm that will lessen after a few minutes. Then when I wish to begin again, I just free up the penis to allow a clear stretch space. Wow! Even thinking about itis making me harden!!
Good luck with your efforts. Don't worry. You will get great pleasure to enjoy and look forward to. That is a fantastic aspect of it . Anticipation...looking forward to it!

@tomasheen, do you find that your dry orgasms coincide with your erection? if i lie on my side my penis stays flaccid but i get great feelings, if on my back my penis needs to be erect to feel anything orgasmic at all. Eupho all the way here. You don't find the sins feel 'dry' after a time? i find with coconut oil it goes dry and less manoeuvrable after a short time... i think!

Sorena! Yes I do get the orgasms with the erections. The one seems to bring the other on. The erection process is every delightful and its pleasure creates waves that increase every time until the erection is full and then the orgasmic pleasure is intense for a while.
I do get some lovely feelings when om flaccid but it usually brings on the erection. I really enjoy that.
I have ceased worrying about Super-Os and just enjoy what I have. If one comes up on me, I'll let you know! Take care.

Hi Sorina! I'm a worrier ! But you I think are on the right road. This morning I had a really fantastic session. I tried afterwards to analyse what was going on. I put in the aneros and was feeling hopeful. It began slowly but I managed to concentrate on the little things...the kind of warm sensation , the slight invol. contraction. I made a real effort to focus on those sensations. Then it began to happen I felt a slight surge of erection in my flacid penis and I gave a little nudge to a contraction and it took off! Wave after wave of intense pleasure each increasing my erection until it was hard and then continued to pulse contractions with amazing results. I was groaning and gasping and crying out in sheer pleasure. I don't think it was a Super-O but it was a ten minute long dry -o.

In short: a superO.
Congratulations!

(why do we always have to think otherwise? I had the same issue)

Thank you Canacan. You may well be right but it doesn't really matter. I think if one is happy and satisfied with whatever results they get, that is their Super-O. I spent too much time and energy looking for, waiting for and searching for the Super-o. It's intense enough to make me groan, and cry out in gorgeous pleasure. One thing I must say is that the comments from you and others, helps so much. It helps to put aside fears and petty anxieties and clear the path to be able to enjoy the view, see the wonders and make exciting discoveries along the way.

Having said all that, I've had a rotten " no response" two days. Seems as if it's gone off into space somewhere! Mustn't get downhearted. Relax. Take it as it comes. Don't expect. Play it cool and just sooner than I imaging, it will take off again. Hope so!

Something happened here. Over the last week or so, my sessions have been excellent. Long orgasms and intense pleasure, enjoying the ride. Maybe my body is learning something from deep inside. I think it is both physical and mental. Can't wait for next attempt!