Help Please-gctid10095

I guess the only thing I can say is patience. It is great that you have your wife on board. If you think your prostate is very close then a small aneros would be the best (Helix). The prostate wakes up when it decides to and you can not make it hurry up. Prostate orgasm and pleasure is very low level so relaxation is very important. Good luck and pop into the chat if you have any questions.

I continue the journey. This morning I had a solo session with a vibrating toy. It was the LELO billy. My body gets shaky but that is about it. I wonder if this is the right path.?? This is very similar to the sensations I get from my wife digitally stimulating me.

@metal_man13z; I'd offer that mental tension or not being deeply relaxed might be at the root of this problem. A good backrub during your sessions might help, as might some some meditative breathing.

I'd also consider the Aneros SGX (intended for guys shorter than 5'6") as an Aneros tool.

Rook, I appreciate your help. I have the red and black aneros now. I usually try this in the early morning. I am quite relaxed (I think). I am a pretty uptight person in general. I know that a lot of folks say that getting high is helpful. I don't have access to 420.... would alcohol work as well or would that dull the senses?