My third try

Remember that not everyone gets an erection when using this device.

It does not represent the level of pleasure you get.

I usually get erections when I am being stimulated most by the Aneros. They come and go. Don't focus on your erection focus instead on relaxing and your internal senses of pleasure. Don't be target driven so much. You will learn to relax and begin noticing the subtle sensations of pleasure. It takes a while to notice and get used to them. Once you do your brain focuses on them more and then concentration on those sensations will make them more intense and they will tend to become greater and greater in cycles. Over a 2 hour session you will likely have many, many cycles of pleasure briefly low that then builds stronger. Typically (at least with me) each cycle seems a bit more pleasurable. It does take experience to get the most out of the Aneros. You have now done 3 sessions. Work toward 30 sessions and your knowledge and experience will grow. Trust me though, the feeling and what you are seeking is different than typically experienced erections and male orgasm via ejaculation although the end result once you become good at using the Aneros and teaching yourself to experience the sensations will become very, very strong - even overwhelming at times which is surprising because they start out so subtle.

PS: Do the fish oil and dark chocolate and probably Ginko Biloba too. IMO it will make your sessions much more productive.

OH: where do you buy your dark chocolate and how much per day do you take?

I usually get it at Walgreens. I typically use Dove dark chocolate 60+ Cacao and about 1 oz a day - but I admit I don't take it everyday. But when I do in addition to the fish oil, etc I notice a difference. All that stuff can really get you primed. I've actually gotten so primed that sometimes I am woken up at night and have Aneros like orgasms in my dream like pseudo sleep, but no Aneros is in. It doesn't happen a lot, and I lose a lot of sleep those nights, but I admit it is nice. 😀

Ghirardelli chocolate is also nice, but my fav is definitely Godiva. You can usually find it in the shopping malls.

it seems dark chocolate is quite expensive. I checked out a few of the big stores but found no bargains.
anyone know of a on line source - maybe without all the fancy packaging

Hi thhn,
If you are in the US, and have a Trader Joe's near you, get their big blocks of 72% dark chocolate. it is a one pound Belgian brick. I think it is 3.99 for the full pound!

It comes ready to break in small squares you just need to break it up and place it into a baggie of some kind. It has a very good flavor, and I almost like it better than milk chocolate now!!

I usually take one of the little broken square cubes of the chocolate daily, but I also take Omega Fish oil, Ginko Biloba like OH!!, and Tribulus and Maca (for energy).

It all does wonders for ones sex life!! 😀

thanks skeeter - I have never heard of trader joe's but I will look on line for one
here is a place I found which so far, has been the least expensive

http://www.americarx.com/Food_and_Candy/Chocolates_and_Candy/Dark_Chocolate_Bars_ProductName_ASC_25_1.html