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My sessions still require a great deal of being 'active'


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(@sorena_)
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My relaxed sessions don't seem to work much anymore, so i have found that lately being active seems to get me to nice places.

There was a user that posted what i would describe my exact experience, inclusive of frustration, and the fact that sticking to one device. He mentions the feelings fading almost right away after an initially lovely start.

https://community.aneros.com/forum/discussion/16986/6-year-update-on-progress-super-o-at-last

(if your interested in reading)

So today i tried relaxing, it did not really work as such, some nice feelings. Then some contractions, mini moments and holding ones and the feelings return as soon as they fade. If i were to just relax here the session would be dead.

I also try using the vice vibration tool on my nipples and feel i am getting really close.... then someone comes home and ruins the fun. Again.

Anyway, it seems variation is key here, no same technique works twice in a row i have found, which makes things really very difficult to make progress and understand what is happening. Consistency, as i have always said, is key for those with success in my humble opinion.

-Sorena


   
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feel i am getting really close.... then someone comes home and ruins the fun. Again.

Perhaps that's the problem. Having one ear on the door is maybe too much of a distraction.


   
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I knew that would get picked up on. yes its an issue, perhaps i was in a frustrated state and made out like its a constant issue, it is not, just sometimes, like today. I will admit that when people in the house go away for a holiday i tend to have sessions when I'm ready and not hewn i have the house to myself which does ease things and i make progress.


   
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I just wrote a really long reply and the computer logged me out, now I've lost it!

Basically I'm in the same boat, always interrupted!


   
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I just wrote a really long reply and the computer logged me out, now I've lost it!

Basically I'm in the same boat, always interrupted!

I will amend my original statement to this, i am not always interrupted but it always seems like when i make a breakthrough or get somewhere 'new' i have been interrupted almost 100% of the time. Its almost unbelievable.

I feel my original point has been lost somewhat. I am concerned with the fact that I have to actively vary what i do in each session and be very active physically in making things happen. I do not understand why this is so and why so few others have this issue.

For example:

1. for many weeks lying on my side, even aneros less, would yield strong Pwaves that would intensify if i included an aneros (eupho). My penis would almost always be flaccid. All of a sudden both techniques stop suddenly.

2. Now i only seem to feel prostate pleasure IF i have an erection, almost never without.

3. Some devices do the most amazing things to me one week then the next week (and for many more weeks) they produce 10-20% of the pleasure it once did.

4. Some techniques like contractions work really well, usually after the first 10 mins of a session or so when things fade for no reason. It feels like the session is 'hobbling along' with my active participation using my muscles etc. I get the feeling this is not what should be working. The do nothing techniques as well worked for a long while but is now seemingly useless.

It makes things a roulette and it is so much harder to make progress or to even enjoy a session when these variables change so frequently


   
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