My problem - 'Hollow' or 'Empty' traditional orgasms

Hiya,

This seems like the best place to post this, as everyone is so receptive and helpful here. I have notice throughout my adult life that I go through long periods where traditional masturbation, whilst pretty darn nice, fails to give much intensity of feeling from the actual ejaculation/orgasm.

In other words, I enjoy the act of masturbating and the just-going-over-the-edge sensation is as powerful as ever, but once the orgasm (and ejaculation muscle contractions) really start, it's not uncommon for me to not really experience and particularly intense or pleasurable 'orgasmic' sensations. The muscles tense, breathing quickens and teeth clench, but it's almost like a switch somewhere hasn't been flicked to turn the orgasmic signal on.

I have no erection problems or anything else that would indicate prostate problems, but for the most part while the masturbation and the exciting last dash to the point-of-no-return are present and correct, once the actual ejaculation starts, the strong orgasmic sensations seem to be strangely absent, leading to a rather depressing feeling of dissatisfaction and frustration.

I do still have the occasional incredibly intense orgasms that makes my head spin, but by and large, they're rather hollow and disappointing. I've experimented with prostate massage (with my fingers and a dildo) and stimulation to see if it can help, but while it makes the build up incredibly intense, the orgasm itself is, again, strangely absent.

Does anyone else have any similar experiences? It's hard to tell if it's some sort of chemical thing, or perhaps a psychological block, but it's pretty annoying. Sadly, due to my living arrangements, I'm still not the proud owner of an aneros (although I will be soon!), but does anyone else have similar experiences where the aneros has helped?

Thanks.

P.S I do have some good news, however. In my latest prostate-stim session, I was using a prostate massager and whilst lying on my side with one leg bent and breathing deeply, I started to experience slow-building contractions that started as tiny twitches (almost like the muscles were pulsing around the intrusion) and built into strong thrusts that lasted for about 20 seconds. These contractions seemed to be milking my prostate, and there were several times when I felt a significant but indistinct pleasurable tingling throughout my crotch. I did not feel any intense or long-lasted pleasure, but I imagine these contractions to be similar to super-o spasms, minus the orgasmic feelings.

Now after I feel a little sore (understandably), but I seem to have far more physical awareness of my prostate, it feels large enough to notice when I clench my abdomen and I occasionally experience slight pleasurable flutters from it.

I know, I REALLY need an aneros, I hope my body's powerful reactions to the presence of a prostate stimulator bode well for the aneros, and that the lack of any really intense pleasure during my orgasmic plateau doesn't hint at some deeper physiological or psychological malady that will permanently hamper my search for stronger orgasms.